Parents don t want their children to help them after the elderly fall, is it right to educate their

In recent years, the elderly have fallen down on the road, and there are many phenomena of touching porcelain, so what kind of phenomenon has this led to, people dare not help after seeing the old man fall on the road. Unless someone around you testifies to yourself, or it is recorded in advance**. What kind of phenomenon does this mean?

It shows that the current social atmosphere is not right. Improper social atmosphere will lead to a lot of situations, for example, some people see that this kind of thing is profitable, they will follow the example of those who touch porcelain, which will lead to the development of society in a negative direction. Therefore, at this time, we need to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and not to confuse black and white.

In addition to touching porcelain, there are also many people who take advantage of people's sympathy, resulting in many bad social phenomena, for example, some children are abducted because of their love to show strangers and lead the way. There are still many such social phenomena. Therefore, parents should also play a good role in supervising their children.

For example, when the child is young, it is important to instill in the child the idea of not going with strangers and not talking to strangers easily. It is not correct to educate children in this way, but you have to think about the question, what kind of adult needs a child to help?

Therefore, this is not to teach children not to help others, but to educate children to let them protect themselves correctly, so that children have a good sense of their own safety, and do not trust strangers easily. On the road of educating children, many parents do not do what they should teach, and many times, only let children establish a correct sense of self-protection, so that children can grow better.

It's not that modern people don't help others, and it's not that modern people are indifferent. It's that this society has changed, and people's hearts are not ancient, which has led to many things now.

That's because in our society, after many elderly people fall, passers-by go to help the victims, which is also an instinctive manifestation of people's self-preservation. Although it is wrong to educate children in this way, for the sake of their own rights and interests, some people have no choice but to do so.

Normally, this kind of education is not right, because respecting the elderly and caring for the young is a traditional Chinese virtue. But there are too many of those things that have happened in China, being blackmailed, if you don't have a million at home, it's not recommended to help...

Wrong. Because if the old man falls down and doesn't help him, the child will feel that this is right, and if he learns from it, then he will become a person who does not like to help others in the future.

As far as our current life is concerned, many parents will spoil their children excessively, children will give whatever they want, and at the same time do not correct some of the wrong behaviors of their children.

First of all, we must know that many children are only children, so whether it is parents or grandparents, they will spoil their children excessively, so that they will develop a domineering character for their children. Therefore, in life, parents should let their children establish a sense of safety, they can tell their children that there are things they can touch, some things that they can't touch, and what things will hurt themselves, and at the same time, don't be in a hurry when walking or running, so that they won't fall. The second is the problem of whether to help or not, this is mainly based on the age of the child, for the child who just walks, falling is a very common thing, at this time we should help, for the child who can already run after falling, we can ask the child why he fell, let him know his problem, and then let the child stand up on his own.

Many children will spoil their children excessively, especially once there is a small fall, the child has not felt anything, and the parents are very scared, for fear that the child will hit the brain or fall somewhere. In fact, we should always educate children to a truth, in our growth process is never smooth sailing, there are often some small stumbles, these are the things we must experience in the process of growth, no one does not wrestle to learn to walk, no one does not wrestle to learn to run, so parents must treat their children with a normal heart to this behavior.

Be patient, parents must not compromise, be principled, have a bottom line, guide children to stand up on their own, and do not indulge.

To strengthen education, parents should be firm, do not blindly compromise, can stand in place and encourage each other to stand up, and can strengthen guidance through the reward and punishment system.

This kind of child should be educated rationally, and should also teach the child the truth of being strong, and at the same time, the child should often learn to complete some things independently.

At this time, parents can say some truth in front of their children, let them get up by themselves, and leave them for a period of time, only in this way can they make children change.

Parents should tell their children that they should be brave when they have fallen, so that they can be a very good child. Parents can also encourage their children, and if they take the initiative to get up, parents can also give their children some rewards. Parents should instill in their children the concept of independence.

Parents should communicate with the child strictly, let the child stand up on his own, let the child understand that the parents will not help him, and then explain some reason to the child and tell him to be independent.

Such a child should be taught that if he does not stand up, let him lie there all the time, and the parents will not care about him.

You should let him lie on the ground, don't help him, be firm, after the child has been lying down for a while, he will think about some problems and will get up on his own.

If the child falls down, the parent does not help the child, and the child does not get up. Don't help him with your driver's license. You can turn around and walk away, secretly watching him from a distance. Wait for him to stand up on his own and tell him that if Dad is not around in the future, you won't stand up. Daddy will be gone forever.

At this time, parents should take the initiative to help her get up and say some warm words, when her sense of security is getting more and more, there will be no strong need for love from parents!

After the child falls, if the parents do not help the child, the child will always lie on the ground and cannot get up. When parents educate such children, they should let their children realize that they are falling, and they should get up from falling down, and do not wait for parents to help. If parents see their child falling, they urgently run to the child's side and want to help the child up.

In fact, it is also wrong for parents to do this, parents should realize that after parents help their children to help them up, it will easily cause children to cry, and children know that parents feel sorry for themselves.

It is a very common thing for a child to fall in life. As for whether parents want to help their children after they fall, they will have a rhetorical question in their hearts, thinking that they should help their children. It may be that when the child faces another fall in the future, the parents will definitely be asked to help again, so that there is no correct understanding of the child's growth.

Parents should think of letting their children exercise alone, and it is better to stand up on their own after a fall than to help them when they fall.

For some elderly people, after seeing a child fall, they will run directly to the child's side, and will directly hit the stone next to them. It is believed that the stone next to the child caused the child to fall, but the education method of the elderly is completely different from that of the young. Because young people know that instead of teaching people to fish, it is better to teach people to fish, so that children can understand that after they fall, they will get up from ** fall and get up from **, which will exercise the child's tenacious will.

In the face of every setback that children encounter, we must bravely encourage children to face their parents alone, and helping children can only help for a while, but not for a lifetime. If the parents are not there for the child when the next time the child encounters difficulties, the child's ability to be frustrated may be relatively poor. Parents should exercise their children as early as possible to let their children learn to challenge themselves, especially boys to let children learn to be independent.

When a child has such a situation, we should educate the child strictly, because the child's behavior will have a serious impact on himself, and there will be many problems in his growth.

Instead of compromising easily, encourage the child to stand up on his own, and let the child understand that if he stands up he will get some reward, so that good habits will be formed.

Tell your child that if he doesn't stand up, let him lie there all the time, and that the parent can hide in a corner at this time, and he will get up on his own.

First of all, parents must lead by example, teach by example, set a good example for their children, whenever their children encounter something, they must let their children face it, and tell their children not to always rely on their parents, because this can cultivate their ability to be independent, and also to tell their children that it is not right to do so, and also to tell children to stand up immediately after falling, because this helps their own growth.

With the continuous development of social science and technology, the continuous enrichment of material life, people's concepts are also undergoing subtle changes, and now the concept of money supremacy in society is getting stronger and stronger, and there are fewer and fewer moral models. I still remember that when we were young, we often shouted that the brigade sang a good example of learning from Lei Feng, and when we met grandmothers and grandfathers crossing the road, we had to take the initiative to help them cross the road. But now people seem to be becoming more and more selfish and afraid to help the elderly.

In fact, it's not that people have become ruthless, but this society has changed, no one would think of being slandered when helping the elderly before, and now helping the elderly has to take risks, so they are afraid of being falsely accused, obviously doing a good deed, but in the end they are in trouble, no matter who they are, they don't want such a thing to happen.

Teaching children not to support the elderly who have fallen, I can't say whether this is right or wrong, as far as I am concerned, in fact, I think this approach is correct, and I agree with it, but from a moral point of view, I think this approach is wrong, we are teaching children wrong. But the current infiltration of the late society really makes people have to guard against it, and there are really too many people who have been blackmailing porcelain in recent years.

If it were me, I would teach my children like this, if the old man falls, we can call 120 or 110 and find a professional person to help the elderly, because we don't know that the old man is injured, if we rush to help the old man who has fallen, so what to do if the old man is injured more seriously, so call ** on the line and wait for the ambulance staff to come. If the old man's state is not serious, if he is accompanied, he can ask someone else to record ** for you, proving that he has nothing to do with you, so that you can help him and don't do bad things because of good intentions.

I don't know why it became like this, helping others was originally the traditional virtue of our country, but now everyone avoids it, too many people who touch porcelain, people have to guard against it, although we know that this teaching is still not good, but we have nothing to do, after all, there are too many such cases in reality, and it is better to have more than one thing.

It is inappropriate to do this, such a concept will make the child become a selfish and indifferent person, and it will affect the child's correct three views.

Yes, there is no way to guarantee that you will not be implicated in the case of not doing this, after all, your family capacity is limited.

I think this kind of education is incorrect, there are great drawbacks, not developing good habits will have a very big impact on his future promotion, when dealing with others when they are in difficulty, we should help to achieve ourselves.

After a child falls, many parents will help their children up as soon as possible, which is an instinctive reaction. Although this method can soothe the child in the first place, it is not necessarily right.

1.Spoil the details.

If the child falls, if the mother directly lifts up, it is easy to ignore the real situation when the child falls. If the child has a physical injury but does not know it, the mother cannot accurately describe the child's condition when seeking medical treatment, so she can only increase the cost of medical examination and delay**.

2.Deals secondary damage.

If the child has a fracture or other injury after a fall, the mother's rush to lift up may aggravate the child's injury. The correct way is to observe for 20 seconds to check the part of the child who fell to see if there are any fractures, bleeding, etc. If there is no problem, lift it up again.

3.Delay the condition.

After the child falls, the mother immediately picks up to stop crying, and it is often easy to ignore the abnormal condition of the child's body. Once the child has loss of appetite, drowsiness, crying, blurred vision, poor breathing and other symptoms of a fall in the future, it is already delayed to seek medical attention at this time.