After the divorce, I realized that my sister in law, who had been raised for 6 years, was actually t

Fortunately, this sister-in-law, who has been raised for 6 years, is only her husband's ex-daughter, not her husband's ex-girlfriend, which is not too much of a loss. If you raise a child, you can raise a child, and you can be regarded as accumulating experience, and you have not suffered a big loss, so in the next relationship, you can keep your eyes open and beware of similar situations.

1. The husband said that the 2-year-old girl was his sister on the grounds that his parents had a second child, and he introduced the story first

When Xiaomei first met her husband Zhang San, Zhang San's mother took a 2-year-old girl, and Zhang San explained that this was the second child born to her parents.

Xiaomei didn't care too much about thisAfter all, the second child has been opened, and it is reasonable to have a sister who is the same age as her daughter.

However, when Xiaomei married Zhang Sancheng, she found that her husband was very attentive to her sister-in-law, as if this sister was his own daughter.

It wasn't until Xiaomei and Zhang San also gave birth to their own daughters that Xiaomei realized the seriousness of the problem, and her husband's attitude towards his sister was closer than her own daughter. The husband always deliberately favors the sister-in-law, and indiscriminately counts the daughters he has born.

After a long time, Xiaomei finally couldn't help it, she filed for divorce in the 6th year after marriage, and a month after the divorce, Xiaomei found out the truth from her mother-in-law's circle of friends, the so-called "sister-in-law",In fact, it was the daughter given birth to by Zhang San's ex-girlfriend.

In this way, it is equivalent to Xiaomei raising children for other women for 6 years, and letting her daughter be angry, this situation is really "shrimp pig heart".

Moreover, in this case, there is no way to sue, and people who are not familiar with the law do not know whether this is fraud or not. But what if she gets a mental damage fee? It's a pity that the best youth is dedicated to this man, but he can't get the emotional return he deserves.

Second, you must be cautious before getting married, and then talk about marriage after getting to know each other comprehensively. Especially young people in rural areas, who work abroad all the year round, only return to their hometowns during the Spring Festival to go on a blind date, and then get married in a flash of lightning.

In this case, it is difficult for both men and women to really understand each other, as well as each other's families, after rashly getting marriedThat's all about luck and the matchmaker's conscience, and obviously these things are unreliable.

In the end, even if there is no major conflict between men and women, their families are estimated to have a trouble, and it is good if they do not give birth to childrenWhen the child is in his life, if he wants to divorce, he has to think twice about the child.

Especially for womenA divorced woman with children, who wants to take over again? Even if someone takes over, the woman has to consider what the other party's motives are? Is he really willing to be nice to me?

Will he hurt his own children? Can his own children accept him?

Therefore, for major marriage events, it is still necessary to consider a comprehensive investigation, and remember that it is better to have a shortage than an abundance.

The education that Chinese have received since childhood is:"The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring".While receiving favors, have a grateful heart, and never forget to give back. But there is a kind of person who you can't cover up no matter how much you cover it, no matter how much you do for him (her), the other party will not be moved by it.

In this case, I believe that a reasonable person will stop the loss in time, although the previous effort cannot be returned, then stop the output from now on, anyway, the other party does not know how to be grateful.

There will also be this situation in marriage, where you unreservedly help the other person because of your in-law relationship, but he takes it for granted, and your contribution seems cheap and worthless. You feel annoyed and have nowhere to do it, because your situation forces you to suffer a dumb loss.

It's just that when this happens, many people will understand that moderation is the only way to go. Even if you are related by in-law, the other party continues to seek your help under the guise of relatives. But before we do anything, even if we don't need material rewards, we still need the approval of the other party emotionally.

Everyone's dedication to self-worth needs to be supported by certain conditions.

When forced to do so, perhaps the person in the marriage will give in and compromise, but once you find that your efforts are not commensurate, it is normal for you to express or imply your dissatisfaction.

All in all, even if it is an obstacle to the marriage relationship, no one will let others take advantage of it, take their own time and resources, and make wedding dresses for others without getting any benefits.

Ms. Li, 39, said she had not figured out why her husband and mother-in-law considered her to be a weak person so much that she did not have the right to express her opinion when making any decisions at home. She also began to think seriously about her marriage to her husband, who from the beginning to the present, seems to have always put the interests of his family first, and has never treated his wife's demands correctly.

Be sure to find your husband to theorize and teach him a good lesson, and it is best to call the police to see if you can get back some alimony in return.

In this case, you can directly ask your husband to compensate you for mental damages, it was he who cheated on you, and you should also be glad that you divorced him.

Sue them directly, this man is so disgusting, he has a child with his ex-girlfriend and still hides from the woman to marry her, it's not counting, get the child to his own home and let his wife raise it with him, the key woman doesn't know yet, if there is no divorce, I haven't found out whether I want to raise her to get married, and give her a dowry.

Now that you are divorced, it doesn't matter who your sister-in-law is, what you should do is leave the family.