Emotional matters should be listened to by oneself or friends

Listen to oneself, man lives for himself, not for others.

I've encountered such a thing, I love people so much that everyone doesn't like them, I didn't listen to them, we still choose to be together, (now that we are separated, it doesn't mean that you will be separated), as long as you really love him, don't hesitate anything, stick to yourself!

No matter what you do, 50% of people will be against you, who do you listen to? Yourself, of course!

There must be a reason why a friend says it's bad, find the reason they say, see if there really are the problems they say, and see if you can accept these problems.

We feel the same way.

I've been talking to my boyfriend for two years and all my friends say we're not a good fit.

But I don't know, but my friend's should listen to it, and I have to think carefully about whether he is good to me.

If it's good, then don't listen to your friends.

If not, then you have to think about it.

Yes, it's good to listen to everyone's opinions.

I think sometimes the advice given by a friend is the most important thing for the bystander.

Friendship first! Love second! ~

You need to define your own things, and it is not unreasonable for bystanders to see how you measure everything. Which is important!

I think if it's a friend, it's okay to talk about it, even if I can't give you a solution, I can relax by telling my friends what I'm worried about.

It's okay to just refer to the opinions and talk about them, but you have to decide for yourself.

1. You can ask your friends, after all, bystanders are clear.

2. You can also solve it by yourself, think about who has the problem, and think about it from your own perspective

Friends of the article have better reference opinions.

Believe in yourself, don't rush it, you have a good view of love. Your conditions are very good in all aspects, and I think you can try a blind date. It is best for your parents or credible relatives to introduce you, because relatives want you to have a good life in the future, and bad boys will not give you Jianshao.

The level of education is also very important, a graduate student has a much higher level of education than a student who graduated from a junior college, and if you live together in the future, there will be many differences, because your values are different. I still want to talk a lot, I'm going to eat. You can ask, let's talk. Hehe.

Little sister, after seeing your emotional experience, I really want to say to you, love sometimes really doesn't have so many rules, you are now in graduate school, presumably you are no longer a child, but there is too little emotional experience, so I still pay attention to that aesthetic feeling, of course, every girl longs for that kind of love, but look at how many of you are acquaintances in the boyage period. Let's talk about your boyfriend, he lied to you at the beginning, I think this person doesn't talk about his family education, just from the fact that he cheated on you, I don't think the essence of this person is very good. For a simple girl like you, I think it's right to listen to your parents more on emotional issues, although your parents will be a little old in thought, but they are the people who love you the most in this world.

If you feel love for that boy, then look everywhere, be sure to understand it first, don't give affection easily, and give each other time to get to know each other. Communicate with your parents as well. But to mention, it's better to find someone with a relatively close outlook on life and values, so that you won't be too tired together.

If you feel that this boy is not suitable for you, separate early, so as not to miss out on meeting someone who suits you! Wishing you happiness!

This sister, first of all, have you met him? If there is a real basis for development, you have to think about it, do you know why you have these fears? That's because you don't love him very much yet!

If love is really like fireworks and eternal love in an instant, there will be no such obstacles! You should think about whether you really want to marry him? Want to be with him all the time?

If yes, then you fight together! If not, why can't you talk to him about it? Not to fool, but not to love enough!

You will definitely have your happiness!

Parents don't have to choose, but my husband chooses by himself. You're still young now, and it's normal to be in love, what you said about him, basically playing games together on the front line, offline information, you didn't mention here that you have met. So you don't know him yet.

It can't be said: there are no good people on the Internet, it is a virtual platform after all. You still have to be careful.

Don't regret it for the sake of longing for love. Love is a kind of fate, but also a coincidence, when you want it, don't come. When you ignore it, it's happening around you before you know it.

Even if you are a girl, you should be considerate of your parents' feelings, because they want you to be happy. Parental advice is important. Friend's suggestion with reference.

Because they are the same age as you, and they are also in the early stages of love development. What if you don't know yet! Then let it be.

It's yours that can't run. Thank you for adopting!!

It is best to ask parents or elders and relatives to introduce, their choices are more rational and much more reliable than friend introductions or netizens!

In fact, I still believe in a "fate" word, although this fate is a little ethereal, but it still exists, since there are no too many requirements, such as house tickets, etc., but at least the academic qualifications should be about the same, so that together can have more common language, in order to have more fun in life, and more importantly, to be able to be good to you, to be able to treat you as a baby, to be able to treat you as a "valuable" in his life to love and care.

Sometimes if you have a framework in advance, life will be much less flavorful. After you have experienced it, you will find that the ideal and perfection in your heart are not comparable to the real life. Many times, you will change for the sake of love, not for the sake of being bad, but for learning to understand and accept more.

However, always respect your own ideas and live willingly, because life is your own responsibility after all!

In the end, it's just a matter of choosing what you want.

If you don't want to listen to it, don't listen, the left ear goes in and the right ear goes out, and the Zen base can deal with it. Don't ignore her, it's not easy to maintain a person!

I'm telling the truth when I say it's boring, you can do it, friend. It's not easy to maintain a person, and it's not worth it to sin a person in three and a half sentences!

Although you know your boyfriend's relationship with you better.

But your father is a bystander, and what he thinks about is completely for you, so you need to listen carefully to what your father is talking about, and then think about it carefully.

It's better to listen to your parents, and those who are asked by your parents to marry can not marry, and those who are not allowed to marry must not be married.

The relationship between you and your boyfriend, I feel like you should listen to yourself, because you two are together, everything he does to you, you know best, so there's no need to listen to your dad.

When it comes to maintaining relationships with my friends, I think I've been doing a pretty good job. I have three of my best friends, two of whom I met in the first year of junior high school and one of whom is a high school classmate, and we are still in close contact with them now that we are about to graduate from college.

I've summarized my networking skills:

Try to build your own group of friends, that is, let your friends know each other and become friends, and then pull a group to chat and send red envelopes in it regularly.

Chat and play regularlyIf the other person asks you something, say "I miss you". It's old-fashioned, but it's really heartwarming and gives people a feeling of being valued. After that, ask when you can get together for a little bit or something, complain or share your life.

Remember the other person's birthday and send gifts and blessings. There are also various festivals, don't always **, when you send them yourself, it's best to put the other party's name, which will prove that you are not**, if conditions permit, you can bring a small red envelope by the way, don't be stingy, after all, contact a good relationship, and there will be a place where the other party needs help in the future.

Don't always bother the other person, Especially if you haven't been in contact for a long time, as soon as you contact you, you ask for help, or you usually always send that kind of thing like to grab tickets and like** help links, no matter how familiar you are, you will get bored with it if you get too much, right, and it will seem that you are taking advantage of each other.

The highest level of friendship doesn't really need to be maintained much, Usually everyone has their own lives and has no contact, but once there is a good thing or trouble, the first thing that comes to mind is the other party, and there is no such thing as emotional fading. But this kind of relationship is relatively rare, and having it is a lifetime of happiness.

All in all, friends should care more, understand more, and be more attentive, so that the other party will feel that you have her in your heart, so that they can think of you in everything, this is the way of communication.

Then be sure to keep in touch.

One, in fact, it is a very strange thing to socialize with friends, if you don't keep in touch all the time, it will be dull in a blink of an eye after the passage of time, so there will never be that feeling of being in touch anymore, so the maintenance of friendship needs to keep in touch all the time.

Second, try not to be in a different place.

People say that it is generally difficult to combine long-distance relationships, so what I want to say is that it is not too far to communicate with friends, if you are in a city with friends, you can play together casually, but it is not good in different places, although you can maintain the contact between **, but over time** the frequency will become less and less, which is not conducive to the sublimation of feelings.

Three, often come out and get together.

In fact, it is comfortable to go out and play with friends, there is no conflict of interests, you don't need to wear your own mask to talk about it, you can relax your feelings, in fact, it is more important that friends are together, this is a kind of emotional dependence, dependence on each other. Therefore, it is also very good to go out to get together often to sublimate everyone's feelings.

Fourth, there are good activities to call your friends.

In fact, there may be some unexpected things in ordinary times, such as the company organizes a tour that can bring family members for free, and at this time you can bring your friends, so that you can not only go out together but also increase each other's feelings.

Fifth, visit the door. In fact, this is very common in the countryside, and the neighbors will go to your house to nag when they are idle. That's how feelings come about, so there is a saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and this is what comes out of stringing doors. So usually move around more, you go to my house for a meal and I go to your house for a meal, which is very good.

If you don't have a friend, it's not called a friend, it can't stand the test of time, and it's true to a friend, so if you plan to make a friend, then what you have to do is to make a heart-to-heart with others, so that you can understand each other.

This is a taboo for making friends, of course, I am talking about when you should shoot when you are a friend, you must shoot, of course you can't shoot when you shouldn't, you are sincere to friends can also feel to others, you are not sincere to others can also feel, so sometimes you must not be stingy with your money, friends get married, friends birthdays, and so on when you should spend it, it is difficult to buy true love.

This question is indeed a good question, how to maintain a good relationship with friends, it is worth learning from each of us, after all, we are all living in society, society means that you are not an independent individual, you need family, friendship, love, etc. I believe that everyone has their own friends, and they also have some ways of getting along with friends, so I will talk about my friends here.

1.Friendship takes time.

For myself, it's been a few years since I graduated from college. Best friends are still a few people we played with in high school. Because we have been together for a long time in high school, we have cultivated a deep friendship, and we still play together from time to time after college and graduation work, which has played a good role in maintaining our previous relationship.

On the contrary, you will find that there are some friends that you will gradually become strangers to, and one of the important reasons for these relationships is that you spend less and less time with each other.

2.Respect is needed between friends.

We often say that we need respect for others, but in fact, we need respect for friends. The most common mistake we make is to be respectful and polite to others while hurting those closest to us. You may feel that friends know and are familiar with each other, even if they say something disrespectful or do something inappropriate, they can be understood.

But this is often not the case, you may make some jokes, complain, or scold friends, but this is actually a joke, and you still respect each other psychologically or in fact.

3.Give a friend when they need help.

It is not often said that people can generally share prosperity and prosperity, but it is difficult to share hardships and hardships. In fact, this is the truth, maybe when others are doing well, you treat others as friends, and when others are in trouble and have difficulties, you turn around and disappear. In this case, you will definitely not be able to continue to be friends with others.

Maybe you don't want to continue to associate with other people in the first place. However, there is no guarantee that one day, others will return to the top and go through the trough. What will happen in the future, who can say for sure.

4.Try to be good at yourself.

This is often overlooked. Actually, we still need to be realistic. In this society, it is not easy for everyone, and everyone needs to live.

Friends need to help each other, and if you've always been the one being helped, your previous relationship may not last long. Therefore, improving one's ability and making oneself excellent is also an important factor in maintaining the relationship with friends.

In fact, there are many more methods and things to pay attention to. In addition to love and family affection, there should also be a group of bosom friends who can complain about each other and have fun together.