There are some emotional things, I should stick to it to the end or choose to be friends with her

I know that you are sincere feelings for her, first of all, you have never considered yourself, although you are sincere, but she is a child after all, these are all hindrances for you, do you understand? And the more you chase her, the more she rejects you, so you can't get into her heart at all, if she really thinks about being with you, then why does she keep rejecting you, it can only mean that she never wanted to be with you. Now the situation is clear, you are intentional, others are ruthless, and you will meet better ones in the future.

I've said so much, I hope you don't say anything: I already have her in my heart, and it will be impossible for others to enter my heart in the future.

Words can't be so dead, there will always be someone who really belongs to you in the vast sea of people. And what's so bad about being friends with her? If you chase her any longer, she probably won't even be a friend with you.

Maybe she hasn't forgotten the child's father, or maybe that's her excuse for rejecting you, but no matter what you do, you won't have a chance. She doesn't even think you're willing to lend her money now, do you think she'll give you a chance to take care of her?

This kind of woman actually just doesn't want to drag you down. It's true! She just doesn't have any other feelings for you, and wants you to die. And she should have been hurt before, not everyone can casually enter her heart.

If you want to give up the whole forest for her, if you want to chase her with all your heart, then you are the one who suffers.

If you chase her for a long time and she finally agrees, then I also tell you that she is not affection for you, but pity.

Weigh it yourself.

I don't ask you for me, I just want to help you see the current situation clearly, and I hope you will let go and find your own happiness.

Happiness is to be pursued by oneself, to love him, is to give her happiness, to watch her suffer, can you still call her love? Whether she has you in her heart or not, you have to walk into her heart with your own actions. Pursue it hard, this is the way a man should choose.

I think if you can't accept her child, give up the relationship. Don't drag your feelings, decide to find her, be with her, be with peace of mind, If you really mind that, it's better to let go and let you find a more suitable one.

I think you should correct your mentality: just continue to help her with your feelings for him (if she doesn't accept it openly, then help secretly), don't ask what the relationship is - just like a drop of water, your sincere efforts will bear fruit (whether it is friendship or love) Don't guess what the result of your efforts is, as long as you are sure that this is what you are pursuing, then work hard and move forward towards the goal.

Actually, you might as well be friends with her first. Take it easy. When a woman is hurt, she doesn't dare to love anymore. She was afraid of pain. I am also afraid that if she remarries in the future, that person will not be able to treat her children as her own. The child suffers.

Emotional things are two people, not one is willing, in fact, you can not contact her, if you have fate, you will be together,

Be right, do what is right, and do whatever you want.

She's worried about whether you're genuinely good to her daughter.

In a very classic way, I would like to ask you a question: A and B, which of the two people would you choose to truly love and be loyal to him, whether he is poor, sick or disabled, until he dies?

If you can't choose, then this is not a matter of feelings, because your choice is emotionless, you just get married for the sake of getting married, a lifetime of things, no matter how anxious you are, you must be cautious, otherwise you regret yourself, I wish: meet a good fate early!

I think A really loves you, no matter how cold you are to him, he is still strong and doesn't give up, B, I think he doesn't like you at all, and you took the initiative to contact him for the first time. Isn't choosing someone to be your husband just to choose someone who has feelings for him and loves him, and what is the use of having conditions, he doesn't love himself.

A marriage without love can't last long, and there must be emotional communication, the one that communicates with the heart

B said at the first meeting that he thought you were a person who could live a good life and had no problem with you. For this person, there are conditions that are indeed in front of you, but first I hope you ask yourself a very simple question: after you get married, or even when your children graduate from college and go to work, do you hope that at this moment by your side is a man who loves you, can take care of you on behalf of your son (maybe the conditions are not very good), or a person with good conditions, but is lukewarm to you, works hard all day every day, and returns home to give you a look?

Of course, it doesn't have to be this way). I just want the landlord not to make a hasty decision, although you are not young and want to settle down, but the two people have not been together for a long time, I think you still need a certain amount of time to do a further understanding of the two people, after all, marriage is a major event in life, even if we say that we can divorce when the time comes, but at that time it hurts yourself, I hope to be cautious.

It's not a matter of trade-offs, but how do you know that number 2 is going to like you?

Choose A. Because he tells you every day, even if it's a sentence. That proves he wants to hear you every day.

Who you feel happier and happier with, and who is the best for you! Find someone who loves you, but you don't love him, than find someone you love but he doesn't love you. Money is not the most important thing, the important thing is whether he is really good to you, spoils you, loves you, and loves you.

If I choose B, because I don't see any advantages in A except for being handsome.

If you want to live a good life, I think it's better to choose a B man.

I choose whoever I think.

Don't get married for the sake of getting married, you must know that you must maintain Jinji's independence no matter what, don't rely on your boyfriend, of course, you can't let him rely on you to live, a marriage with love can you feel how far each other can go, there are many variables in the future, don't get married with a blank purpose, otherwise it will not be you and him who will be hurt by then and maybe have a baby! I wish you a wishful boyfriend soon.

I'm in a similar situation to you, but my family introduced me to someone who was a year older than me. Now that it's divided, emotional matters really can't be forced. If you give yourself a chance for the sake of reality, you can also choose to try dating, if not, don't force it!

Wishing you happiness!

7-8 years older? Why didn't you get married if the conditions were good? It's worth researching, marriage is a big deal, don't be too hasty Where does love come from, where does love come from, where does love come from, good luck.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, think about it, what your parents say is not necessarily unreasonable, they are the truth, you may think she is more suitable for you, if you really don't like it, then don't force yourself,

If you don't have the patience to wait, you listen to someone else. Just to reassure others and wronged themselves. If you still want to live this life without regrets, you still have to look forward to someone in your life.

Choose what you like, don't force yourself, don't force yourself, wish you happiness, and remember to adopt.

Maybe she still has advantages that you haven't discovered, go and take a comprehensive look, but if you still don't feel it, don't listen to the family arrangement, after all, looking for a wife is to accompany you to live, and it is to accompany you for a lifetime.

With your heart, choose the one you like.

I personally think that waiting is also a process of love, maybe it will be a long time, but I will keep waiting until I meet that person, I believe you can too.

Be proactive and be at peace with the situation.

The most important thing is to find someone who loves you.

Not too old. Let's make friends first, it's easy to walk when you have more friends. Isn't it a lot.

Let's get in touch first, don't make a decision too quickly.

Maybe you don't know enough, take your time and look everywhere. If you still don't feel it after working hard, don't grieve yourself.

Time is frozen by fate Believe in 2013.

What do you think? This is very important.

I want you to choose number 2.

Because No. 1 no longer has the feelings you said, which proves that you have been relieved of No. 1, the reason why you want him is normal, people are like that, if you don't want to, then you're finished, so forgetful.

And the reason why number two lets you go and lets you go to find a true lover.

I think he is very disappointed in you at the same time, he himself is also very sad, disappointed that you are with others, but the heart is not there, to put it bluntly, the same bed and different dreams, this is not something that ordinary men can bear, let go of you, either have confidence in yourself, or love you too much, and do not want to "sleep in the same bed, different dreams", so I give up the pain and let you pursue.

And he only has the role of being a guard.

Actually, you were wrong when you told Number Two to look for it.

Now No. 1 and No. 2 have been hurt by you.

All you can do now is go to Number Two and ask him to forgive you, he won't blame you, but he will be sad, you can't even take away this right from him.

It is highly recommended to choose the second number to slowly heal the wounds you gave him, let you choose the second number, not because I pity him.

Such people don't need my pity.

Even if you don't choose him, he won't be missing anything, and he'll be sad for a while at most.

I choose number 2. Because number 2 truly loves you. He went to the most dangerous extremes.

If you choose him, it means that you will love him wholeheartedly, and if you choose your former boyfriend, it means that you don't love him anymore. And number 1 your former boyfriend. You just loved him once, and now you don't feel it anymore with him.

Just remembering the good things you used to be. Since you don't have the feeling you used to have, what do you need this feeling? Select number 2.

This is just my own opinion. The real choice is yours. Choose whichever you like more.

Choose to love you.

It doesn't seem complicated, choose one of the two!

Actually, you shouldn't go back, because love depends on feeling, so you shouldn't try it in three months! That's meaningless, wrong is wrong, wrong will have a gap, and there will be a gap that cannot be repaired.

It's dangerous to choose anyone, and if No. 2 loves you, he really feels free to ask you to be with another person? I'm a little unconvinced, I suggest you don't step on two boats, or scatter, you will meet someone who loves you more.

If I don't choose, 1, you don't feel it anymore, first rule it out.

2, he shouldn't let go of you, love can't be like this.

Personal opinion.

Yes, your analysis is right. The other party has no desire to further develop with you, and twice explicitly refused.

Girls have a good impression of you at most, but it certainly doesn't involve a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and they communicate with you a lot, and they treat you as a buddy or a good friend, but that's all, if you are entangled in the problem of men and women, it is estimated that you don't even have to be friends, and you will really become an ordinary classmate.

It is suggested that you should stop being entangled in the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, just get along as friends, moisturize things silently, as long as she does not refuse to dine and play alone with you in the future, you will have a chance, time will change everything, you don't have to worry.

If you have bad thoughts and are eager for quick success, I advise you not to entangle anymore, don't do it with friends, girls must be alert to you.

This woman has a low heart and is kind, she is a good woman, and the meaning of people is clear, and she can only be friends 2 goods.

You're out of the picture, I sympathize with you, that's all.

Emotional things barely came, and she has already rejected you.

If it's your own choice, and you think it's worth paying for, and it's worth sticking with until the end, then keep doing it. If you feel that you are in doubt, you are not sure. If you don't have perseverance, I advise you to let go. Make sure before you do it.

This statement is not good, I do not agree with it. It's right to choose for yourself. No matter what happens, stick to the end, only half right. You chose the right one, the other party is also a decent gentleman, and he didn't say that he would stick to the end. What if it's wrong?

Perseverance to the end -- perseverance, courage to move forward, adventurous spirit, the inevitable way to success, all persevere to the end--- to generalize.