Why did you end up living like that you did not want to be the person you swore you would be?

The idea when I was a child was too simple, there is good and evil, there is beauty and ugliness, there is heroism and chicken thieves, and most importantly, there is a clear difference between them, the act of finding the wallet and giving it to the police uncle is good, when I see someone sad, I go to comfort her, so that I feel very loved, if you like a girl, hide her in your heart, don't disturb other people's studies, and feel great, we all grow in ignorance, some interesting adults teach us to share.

Then we miraculously discovered why I got the delicious food he gave me every time I went to schoolBut there are also people who have questions, why didn't he give me some? So we have doubts about the world, we start to be dissatisfied with the world, and then we gradually shut ourselves down, and the idea that you won't give it to me, that I'm not going to give it to you occupies our brains, so we change, and each of us goes through an "adolescence", and here I call him narcissism.

Why do you say that, because it is very important for you to make sure that the bangs are not greasy and that the upper is not dirty every day。At this time, you think that the whole world is watching you, your parents see you every day, want to say but don't say, think that everyone has puberty, patience will pass after a while, but during this period, it is a period of healthy personality and important psychological development, you do not receive good advice and correct guidance, so you become irritable, think that your parents do not care about you, run away from home, and have a cold personality.

You will become more and more aware of the stress of being alone with your parents, the departure of your friends, and your study life。From this moment on, you are no longer you, people do not become hateful appearances, people always show their favorite appearances, if you hate people now, then you will definitely not be my friend, we always like to wear masks one after another, but after wearing the masks for a long time they grow to the face, we finally forget what we were and end up being so vulgar and boring.

I have to say that young people nowadays are under a lot of pressure, so sometimes they are forced to become the last thing they want to live in order to live, which is also a helpless move.

Because I have been smoothed out by society, I have to change myself and live like a person I hate.

Because the direction of life is something I never expected, I used to hate that kind of person, but I also became that kind of person, because sometimes the path of life is not something I can choose, I can only follow my heart!

Defeated by real life, every day to calculate the face of rice, oil and salt, and there will be problems with children's education, often real life defeats all positive people.

This is also before we stepped into society, we felt that we could do a special integrity, and we would not be affected by others, but we didn't expect that when we got older, we would become a particularly disgusting person.

I have to say that the pressure is very great now, whether it is at work or in life, sometimes I have to live as a last resort for life, so I live like I don't want to see.

Forgetting when it began, we seem to have lost our courage and become forward-looking. We are neither satisfied with the status quo nor afraid to change it. Yes, after all, people are creatures who seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and everyone knows how to make the right choice after weighing the pros and cons.

But will the so-called "correctness" of socks reform gradually drift away from our "original intention"?

In the past, I heard someone say that I finally became the person I least wanted to be, and the tone of the person who said this was full of helplessness. I used to think it was scary, so I kept asking myself not to do things that I thought were "wrong". But now, in fact, I have become the person I once did not want to be, not forced to be helpless, but recognized from the heart.

Because I finally realized that my former self was too superficial, thinking that what I saw was everything, and I didn't know that there was a different kind of excitement beyond what I could see.

But most people are not brave because they are afraid of losing. The visible present and the invisible future must be higher in comparison with the latter, since you already know that there is a risk, how can you choose? But it is precisely this instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages that makes people gradually deviate from their original tracks, because they do not follow their hearts to make choices, but for the sake of interests.

But I still believe that there is more to the entanglement between people than just interests. So although Qi Nianran sometimes feels very unfair, why does the same thing always seem to me to be easy for others to get, but I have to go through all kinds of twists and turns; But I'm still glad that at least I fought for what I wanted, instead of dreaming about what would happen if I did.

Hopefully, we can be brave and live the life we want, no matter how it ends, and it should be a choice that we won't regret. You don't have to envy others, you don't have to denigrate others, you just find ways to make your life better.