What kind of woman should I find as a wife?

In the world of love, perhaps each of us has our own ideas. For boys, how to find a good wife in life has always been a problem for us boys. I think first of all, as a woman, you must keep your duty and be virtuous.

This is the most basic standard of housekeeping, and it is also the most beautiful form of expression in the world of love. In social life, they also play a different role.

I think a very virtuous wife will be of great help to you in life and career, and will also play a very important role in encouraging you when you face difficulties! Such a very virtuous woman will be respected and supported by the majority of people. I think this is the very virtuous woman that we men should be looking for, and they are also worthy of our mutual understanding and love in our hearts.

In addition to being virtuous, I think there should be quite good in all aspects! I didn't say that it has to be very good, I think every single one, there is a little bit of brilliance, and it's okay. Because, after all, in life, there is no such thing as a perfect woman, and I think each field has its own unique charm.

I think that according to each person's personality characteristics, the kind of woman we are looking for and our wife are obviously different. Personally, I think it is very important to find a virtuous wife, this is just my side of the story, and my own opinion, you can see for yourself. In short, I think most people still prefer virtuous women to be their wives, because they can really play a very important role for us in life, and in the world of love, they will also make our families and ourselves very happy and happy.

This depends on what kind of personality you are, if you are a slow-burning type, then many times you should choose a more extroverted person as a wife. Because if both people are slow burners, then when they encounter things in life, they may be even more conflicted. Just like the usual repulsion of the same sex, it is also a principle.

If the other party is one, almost opposite to your personality, then for the same thing, maybe he will guide you to do it, instead of two people can't make up their minds and procrastinate. <>

If you are a very strong person, then in life you can marry the kind of well-behaved wife, instead of choosing a person with a similar personality to yourself, because both people are particularly strong, then in life, there will be all kinds of quarrels, for everything has their own opinions, everything wants to express their opinions, but there is only one solution.

My dad is a very anxious person, and my mother is also a very anxious person, so when they were young, they often had conflicts over the same thing, and even fights. Because both of them are very strong, no one wants to be able to express their opinions. Even now, they have entered middle age, and this personality still makes them in their usual life.

My uncle and aunt came over and were very harmonious, at least in the eyes of outsiders, although they may have some minor contradictions. Uncle is relatively strong, but he is deeply a very gentle kind of person, sometimes my uncle makes a mistake, and he will forgive him, and never care about him, and my mother is not this kind of performance. One day my father suddenly got drunk and had a fight with my mother, who had been talking about it for a week.

I don't think that's right, but there's no need to repeat it for a week.

Therefore, if you want to choose the person to marry, then character is quite important, you must choose the kind of gentle, kind and considerate person, at least considerate of him can reduce a lot of unnecessary conflicts in your life.

Many people looking for a wife first look at the woman's appearance, and beautiful women will usher in the pursuit of many boys for this reason, but I think that a woman's inner beauty is more important than her external beauty, because you are looking for the kind of wife for a lifetime, not a temporary lover, and inner beauty can support the burden of the family!

Of course, it would be better to find a woman who is beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside, but if you can't have both, I am more inclined to be beautiful on the inside! Because, the wife with a beautiful heart will guard this home peacefully, will not mess with flowers and grass outside, will not do some irresponsible behavior to her husband and her family, she will let you work hard outside with peace of mind, and she will work hard to keep this home in order.

On the contrary, if you find a woman who is beautiful on the outside but not beautiful on the inside, then even if you work hard outside, you will not feel at ease, you are afraid that your wife will be seduced by other men, and you are afraid that your wife will do something that is not good for the family. Maybe your wife will go to a bar, dance with some social men, and your heart will become very tired, and then you will find that you have made the wrong choice.

My criteria for choosing a wife are actually very simple, I believe that most men have the same choice as mine, I only hope that my future wife can only love me alone, only care about me alone, she will not go to those places where she spends her days drinking, she will not gamble, she will not smoke and drink, she will cook a meal she makes before our man goes home every day, she will clean up the house, she will wash the clothes that the man has changed without dust!

She is frugal, does not spend money indiscriminately, and knows how to save money. She is gentle, considerate and does not like to lose her temper. She is kind, sensible, and will not be unreasonable!

She knows how to give a man some estimated words every day when he comes home to relieve the pressure of the man's day, which is very simple and easy to do, and she can find such a wife and live happily in this life. Therefore, you believe that you can find such a person, who can run a family with you and build a warm world that belongs to you together!

Modern times are an era of looking at faces, but looking for a wife can not only look at the face, but also depends on whether you are suitable and your inner beauty.

I once heard the saying, "When the girlfriend you are looking for is getting uglier and uglier, it means that you want to get married". Although this sentence is not very good, there is some truth to it.

When you first started looking for a girlfriend, you had a high vision and just wanted to find a beautiful girlfriend, but as you got older, slowly, you wanted to have a home and a wife to live with. <>

We often hear that it is more accurate to find a wife or an old man, because the old man may be the reason for the passerby, and you can see at a glance whether the girl is suitable or not, taking care of the family, whether she is diligent or not, whether she will live a life, etc.

Some people say, "People with similar personalities are more likely to come together", while others say, "People with opposite personalities can get together."

I don't have a clear answer to this question either. I just think that if you can be happy every day together, instead of making each other feel tired; Anything can be said, not hidden in the heart; Both sides look forward to each other's company, not hate each other when they see each other. This is the life state that a couple or couple should have.

In addition, it is also very important to take care of your family, be diligent, understand you, and love your parents. Since you are looking for a wife, you have to live, if you don't care about your family, what's the use of having a home. Home is a warm harbor, a place to shelter you from the wind and rain and heal your wounds, so husband and wife must give each other warmth.

In the future, there will be many trivial matters at home, which not only requires both parties to understand each other, but also to have someone who is more diligent, only in this way will your life be orderly and prosperous. It is also very important to love your parents, since you love that person, you must love his parents as you love your own parents. Only in this way can we go further and allow the two big families to live in harmony.

As a candidate for a wife, I think the first thing is that the two of them have a tacit understanding in various aspects. It is essential to have a certain understanding of you in all aspects and to know your temperament and character.

Temperament is docile and understanding. Women are temperamental, but I think the last thing a woman should do in life is for the husband and wife to quarrel and go to their parents, which makes their parents very upset and worried. The two husbands and wives often quarrel, and every time they quarrel, either the man's parents come, or the woman's parents come, and every time they will see their parents caught in the middle and very embarrassed.

The husband and wife quarrel, the quarrel is a quarrel, but don't involve your parents, you find your own reasons. In life, two people will inevitably have friction when they are together, and they can't quarrel with each other if they have a little disagreement, but they must tolerate and understand each other. <>

Industrious. When men go out to work, what they want most is that if his wife is at home, he can take care of everything in the house, and he can work outside with peace of mind. I hope that every time I go home, the house is neat and clean, and my wife can clean all the housework.

The second is that when I get home, my wife can cook a meal, and the house is warm.

Filial. Marriage is two families, and they both want each other to be filial to their parents. Therefore, men generally choose women who are better for their parents.

Take care of his parents as if they were his own parents, and he can take good care of his diet and daily life. Generally speaking, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is relatively tense, and I hope that my wife can handle the relationship with her parents. The family can be happy and happy together.

Connotative qualities. Men are people who want to save face, and they may choose some women who can speak and have strong ability to do things. Men sometimes have a lot of parties, and they all want to save face, so they hope that the wives they bring out will be sensible, reasonable, and generous.

Most of those lovers who demand perfection end up separated, but those who are half beautiful and half will be in love are finally consummated. The person we marry is often not the dead and alive person we loved in our youth, but the like-minded partner in those quiet times. So, here, I emphasize the first point, if you want to find a woman who is suitable to be a wife, then you should not be demanding of perfection.

The second point is that if a woman is suitable to be a wife, then she and your temperament should complement each other.

When falling in love, most of us pursue a woman's beautiful appearance, and everyone has a love for beauty, but if you want to get married, you still have to pay attention to a woman's inner qualities. She should be a kind and housekeeping woman, gentle and considerate, knowledgeable and courteous, filial piety to the elderly, laundry and cooking, it is better to find a more traditional woman to be a wife, the most important thing is that she will take care of people and understand people, after you work tiring for a day, after coming home, she can prepare a table of hot meals for you, when you are not happy at work, she can understand your difficulties, when you stay up late and work overtime, she gives you absolute trust, I think, if you can find such a woman as a wife, Then your married life will be very happy.

Of course, she must complement your personality, if you are a very domineering man, then your inner desire to protect is very strong, you should find a little bird according to the human type of woman as a wife, so that you are always full of a sense of accomplishment and responsibility. On the contrary, if you are a more introverted and gentle man, you should find a lively, cheerful and slightly strong woman as a wife, so that your life will not be monotonous.

I think many boys may feel that when they want to find a girl to be their wife, they will not choose whether they are beautiful or not.

I don't know which one you will be, some boys may think that my other half needs to have the following requirements and meet several conditions, such as the need to have a good education, so that he can teach his children well, or it may be that this girl needs to have a good connotation, so that it will be very face-saving to take it out, and the boy will feel that he will find a girl who takes care of the family, so that he can work outside with peace of mind, and his wife can take good care of the family, but in fact, these are additional conditions.

In fact, I think that even if you have many different ideas and different requirements for girls, I hope that you are based on the same premise, that is, you love this girl very much.

Because under your question, from a girl's point of view, the first reaction is to feel that this is a more macho question, if you really love this girl, before you ask such a question, maybe you should also ask yourself, whether it is suitable to marry a wife now, whether you will become a qualified husband.

So if you meet the right girl you love, the one you love, she may not meet all your ideas for the perfect wife, but her girl is the only choice for your future partner.

Many times, the first thing we think about is the very popular idea, maybe what you need is that the role is more like a teacher and nanny, you may also get married as you want, but maybe not so happy, but when you are really in love and married, you will eventually find that your she, the one you love the most is the best wife in your heart who does not tick the box in your psychological conditions.