Family conflicts are terrible, what are the causes of family conflicts?

There are many reasons for family conflicts, such as the disagreement between two people, the fact that two people are calculating, or that one party has done something sorry for the other.

As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, which shows that most families will have some contradictions. There are a variety of reasons for family conflicts. The reasons for family conflicts vary from family to family. Let's take a look at the causes of family conflicts.

Some people live together and have conflicts because the two people do not agree on their concepts, for example, some people are frugal, but some people spend lavishly. When such two people live together, they will look at each other unpleasantly.

For example, some people are more vain, they like to buy all kinds of brand-name luxury goods, while the other party likes to live a down-to-earth and simple life. Such two people have different concepts, and living together will inevitably produce contradictions.

Two people become husband and wife, not necessarily because of love. It's possible to barely make ends meet. Some people look down on each other when they get married, and they marry each other to cope with the completion of tasks.

In this way, when it lives with the other person, this sense of contempt will become stronger and stronger. Because he looks down on each other, she will also pick on each other's thorns everywhere in life. Such a pattern of getting along can also lead to the outbreak of family conflicts.

There are many kinds of family conflicts, such as conflicts with husband and wife, such as conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, such as conflicts between daughter-in-law and sister-in-law, etc.

I think the reason for these contradictions is that some people are not broad-minded enough. When faced with some small things, they are calculating, and when they encounter some things, they don't want to back down.

The main reason is that the family is very calculating, even if it is a small thing, it may be noisy at home, which is one of the main reasons for family conflicts.

The reason for the contradiction lies in not understanding, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, if the family can understand each other, there will not be so many contradictions, such as different circles and views of life, resulting in incomprehension, in many cases, children and parents will have contradictions.

A prosperous family must be harmonious and united. Being tolerant and loving is the fundamental reason for a family's harmony.

The main reason is the disagreement of the three views, coupled with the generation gap between the two generations, the inconsistency of living habits, and it may also be due to lack of money.

The three views of two people are inconsistent, and the personalities of two people are incompatible and cannot tolerate some of each other's shortcomings, which will lead to family conflicts.

The main reason for the emergence of family spears is that everyone has different opinions, and if these problems cannot be properly resolved, family conflicts will occur. If there is a family conflict, everyone should calm down and not be in a hurry to quarrel, otherwise it is easy to lose control of your temper and say some hurtful words.

There are many reasons for family conflicts, most of which are as follows: First, in families with children, the focus of the conflict will be caused by children, such as children making trouble, one side doting on, and one side opposing, so that a very harmonious family will suddenly quarrel, so it is necessary to understand each other and find a balance. Second, if there is a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living under one roof, there will be problems in the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Third, when patting and procrastinating, it is very affectionate, and after getting along for a long time, the shortcomings will be exposed, so that one party can not accept it, and ask the other party to change, but it is always accidentally committed again, and after a long time, one party accepts the shortcomings of the other party, and the contradiction comes out. Fourth, it turns out that when you are in love, you will be obedient and live together for a long time, one party only cares about playing games and snubbing the other party, and after a long time, the contradiction will come out.

Families that often quarrel and have many conflicts are mostly due to these reasons.

This close friend, "Although it is easy to fall in love, marriage is not easy!" "Many couples have a good relationship when they are in love, there are few contradictions, and they are willing to accommodate each other when they encounter things, and they are willing to spend time to make each other happy.

However, after getting married, the little beauty when you are in love is slowly consumed by the trivial things in life. At this time, it is no longer a one-to-one one-to-one one-line relationship between two people, the world of the two people is broken, and they are faced with the multi-line relationship between the two families and the four families, and they begin to be overwhelmed and begin to have many contradictions. One person has one thought, and there are as many thoughts as there are two major families, and if it happens that both husband and wife have no opinions, they are often easily coerced by the so-called family affection.

Slowly, the husband and wife began to think about each other, looked at each other unpleasantly, quarreled and complained.

Many couples don't even know what the two sides are quarreling about after a quarrel, as if the fuse of every quarrel is never a big deal, almost all of them are trivial things.

Those trivial things, in fact, basically revolve around the themes of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, mother-in-law, son-in-law, concubine, relatives and friends, and money.

Clause.

1. Can't understand the other party's behavior, sometimes in life together, after a long time, you will feel that the other party's behavior is not in line, and then the contradictions will accumulate over time, more and more.

Clause. Second, the pattern is small, and it can't tolerate everything from the other party, as long as there is a little bit of fault, it will be picky. Slowly, a contradiction will form.

It's all a family, since you live together, you have to take it seriously, don't always find fault with each other, and learn to tolerate each other is the best way to live. After all, everything is about harmony.

If there are always conflicts in the family, it may be that the parents have an unshirkable responsibility.

I don't know how to define the relationship between parents and children, let's think it's a kind of social contract, the most direct connection between children and parents is blood, out of the mother's womb, the first person to know, is the family, parents brought you to this world, which means that you need to be guided on the road of your life, this is family education.

In addition to the contradictory constitution of the parents themselves, there is also a large proportion, and there is no way for siblings to coexist peacefully, why not? Maybe the parents' love for everyone is equal, but the performance is not, and some, the performance is really average, but in fact there is still preference.

There are usually conflicts in the family, usually because of poverty. Because there is no money, they will be careful about things, and the relationship between husband and wife is not compatible, no matter what the reason. Be positive.

First, many of the two people have different points of view and cannot understand each other. Second, we should not think more from the other side's point of view. Third, they can't control their emotions well.

Family conflicts often arise, mainly because Mu has learned to get along. Because in the process of getting along, we all take ourselves as the main body and take our own ideas as the main thing, and we have always considered the other party's feelings, that is, we feel that the other party does not understand our own feelings, and then we don't communicate, and we can only use quarrels to prove that we are right. In the process of getting along with the family, it is more necessary to learn to communicate, when there is a disagreement with each other, you should first calm down, and then negotiate and negotiate on an equal footing, and show what you think.

Instead of going to quarrel. Learn to be calm, learn to communicate, and learn to think about each other.

Lack of good communication between family members, problems arise, never communicate, do not reflect on themselves, always feel that it is the other party's fault, which will lead to frequent quarrels and conflicts in the family.

The family is a small system, each person is unique, has their own characteristics, conflict of ideas, multiple roles, confusion or unclear boundaries, excessive interference, coping patterns, pressure, situations, etc. can all be contradictions**, and these factors are not a single role, but a comprehensive effect, in which everyone in the family "contributes their own strength", but is deeply affected by it. Contradictions are ever-present, and learning how to deal with them is crucial.

The reason for the emergence of family conflicts is that there is too little communication, and family members must communicate more, communicate in a timely manner, and solve problems in a timely manner.

Mutual mistrust, economic disputes.

What the economy cannot satisfy is mostly economic, and most of the economic satisfaction is emotional.

Family conflicts arise from the lack of communication between family members and the lack of due understanding and understanding between each other! ，

Family conflicts are caused by family members' lack of understanding of each other, resulting in deeper and deeper conflicts among family members, and even irreparable