How to deal with the bride price of 100,000 yuan at his girlfriend s house

How many times do you usually go to the bride price? How much dowry do we give to the woman here, and in the end, we will basically go back, buy appliances, buy cars or something. Besides, if you think 100,000 is a big number, you can discuss it.

After all, the difficulties in your life after marriage are not what the woman's parents want to see.

Ha ha! It's just a little petty, she really loves you, will she really make things difficult for you? .I heard my mother say that the bride price is not 150,000 now! .If you have that ability, you can give it to you, and someone else will raise a daughter.

I remember that there was a little opinion at that time, and the two of us communicated privately for a long time, and finally made concessions, and after becoming unanimous, the parents who notified them

First, as a man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship.

If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in the relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease that they will hand over their daughter to you.

Second, the woman insisted that the bride price should not have a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, and when parents see that they truly love each other, but they can't bear to go against their elders, they will gradually relent.

Third, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you do not have the support and consent of both parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Fourth, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Fifth, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

As a daughter, on the one hand, we should communicate with our parents gently, explain our relationship with the man, and on the other hand, we should also negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept it.

I have been dating my boyfriend for half a year, talking about marriage, but because of the 100,000 bride price, I think you may be because the bride price is too much, and your boyfriend can't take out so much money, so your wedding will be deadlocked. When you get along, do you know his family situation, whether his family is rich or poor, if his family is very rich, then this matter is his fault, maybe for some reason he doesn't want to take out the money, or maybe when you first talked, the man didn't agree.

If his family is very poor, then 100,000 bride price is a lot of money for him, if you really want to come up with 100,000 bride price, it is equivalent to letting their family smash the pot and sell iron to marry you, if it is for this reason, you can discuss with your boyfriend, you can also appropriately reduce the bride price a little, at least so that the man can accept it, if it has been so deadlocked, it is also a blow to your relationship.

In fact, in today's society, how many couples have parted ways in the end because of the bride price, some people don't want to take it, but they really can't take it, you can't ask a man to borrow money to marry you, then this foreign debt still needs you to repay. There are also some people who don't want to take this money, thinking that it is not worth it, and this is indeed the case, some people get married, the bride price is less than tens of thousands, and more than hundreds of thousands, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter, besides, maybe marrying another woman doesn't cost money at all, why does he spend hundreds of thousands to marry you? Anyway, the current marriage is also unstable, and maybe they will part ways at some point.

So, in my opinion, if you really love your boyfriend, don't worry about the bride price, his money is not your money in the end, why make a fuss about the bride price? In fact, most women ask for a bride price because of their parents' opinions, they just want to leave some pension money for themselves. So, if you love him, don't force him, think more about the other person.

It is not reasonable or unreasonable, as long as it conforms to local customs, or it is acceptable to both parties and can be agreed upon.

If the woman's request does not conform to the general standards of local customs, then there may be something else in mind. It is recommended to continue to communicate, or the girlfriend to find out if they can reach an agreement.

If two people really love each other, the bride price is not a problem.

I can come back. After the bride price is given, if the parties have not registered their marriage, and the party who gave the bride price requests the bride price to be returned, the other party shall return it. If the husband gives the woman a bride price before marriage, it is in the form of a gift conditional on future marriage, and since the parties have not registered their marriage, the underlying relationship for the gift does not exist, and the donee has the obligation to return the gift.

If a man and a woman marry and live together but the marriage is not registered, the de facto marriage is not recognized, and there is no legally recognized and protected marital relationship between the man and the woman. In the event that the man and the woman have broken the tomato and agreed to end the cohabitation relationship, if the man asks the woman to return the bride price, the woman shall return it in accordance with the law. However, the portion of the bride price spent in the common life of both parties may not be refunded.