After the failed remarriage, I realized why both wives were so good to my mother.

This is because most women are inherently very emotional people, and once they marry someone, they will also be very good to his family.

Because your mother treats both daughters-in-law very well, and the daughters-in-law are more grateful, she will be very good to your mother.

Because my mother is very understanding, and she is reasonable, no matter what happens, she is not impatient, and she has never said a word heavy.

Communicate with each other more, ask the other party's true thoughts, and also tell him what you think in your heart, don't give yourself too much pressure to seep into the spine, you must learn to let go of this Qingping mentality, if two people really can't be together, you must learn to accept.

The two of you should communicate well and show her your attitude and sincerity. Usually care more about her. You should also work hard to improve your ability and make more money.

This is to care more about his wife, not to mention the past, and then to be kind to her family.

Because my mother is very good at being a person, she gets along very well with her daughter-in-law, treats her daughter-in-law as a friend, and talks about everything with each other.

Maybe it's because your mother treats her daughter-in-law very well, so the two of them have a good relationship.

It's useless to regret at the moment, and I think he should think about his own reasons, often when you feel that everyone around you is wrong, you should consider whether the wrong person is yourself.

It's useless to regret, the second wife is definitely not as good as the original wife, the second marriage has its own hearts, and after a failed marriage, it is impossible to fully reveal the sincerity to the other party

At this point, regret is useless, and there is no need to compare the current and the former all the time.

My advice is to communicate well with your wife and tell her that the children are biological and that she will be treated equally.

I think this wife just doesn't love you enough, she just wants to find someone to rely on, and she is married to you but not good for your children, which is very wrong, I suggest you should separate from her, otherwise your children will not have a good time.

You have to communicate well with her, because your child and hers are the same child and should not be treated differently.

You should communicate well with your remarried wife, because this kind of differential treatment has a very negative impact on the development of your children, and you should always supervise her.

Usually communicate with her more and tell her that she should treat the two children fairly and not be partial, which will have a great impact on the growth of the child and slowly change her mind.

This is to find a time to talk to her, this kind of partiality will bring wrong values to the child, and you must find a time to communicate.

The way your family is now, it's mainly because your mother is too strong.

I read your description, and I feel that your two wives are very good, the first one is forbearant and virtuous, and the current one is principled and assertive.

Under normal circumstances, the hostess of the house will be stronger, because the man knows that there is no point in arguing, and most of them choose to tolerate it.

When two generations of hostesses are under one roof, there is the question of who is stronger and who has the final decision, and there is an endless quarrel before a consensus is reached, just like the wolves need to bite fiercely before the wolf king is determined.

Therefore, in order to maintain family harmony, it is best not to live together after marriage and reunite on weekends. One of my classmates was that his mother and wife were both relatively strong, and he rented a house for his mother upstairs for her to live in.

In addition, it is not right for you to hand over your salary to your mother after you get married, and I don't agree with whether it should be handed over to your current wife to manage, adults should have their own independent personality and cognition. Husbands and wives can work together to save money, but they also need to set aside their daily expenses.

I hope you can deal with the current problems well and have a harmonious and happy family!

This has nothing to do with your second marriage, it is a problem in your marriage. So what else is there to say? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big problem.

It depends on how the contradiction arises, the party with the problem needs to be adjusted, and you, as the son of man, need to deal with the relationship. It's really not okay to live separately from the elderly. If it is a question of the wife's character, then you have to consider whether to survive the marriage.

I think a family is unhappy, as a husband you play a great role, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law you can't be with the mud, you have already started a family, what must be discussed between husband and wife, the home is the two of you, the money should not be handed over to the mother, and the housework should be who is free to do it, can not be the shopkeeper, according to your description, your mother is very strong, always want to meddle in your small family, so your position must be firm, your mother is wrong and can not be partial, only in this way can you live in peace, Only then can the family be happy.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. There is also the fact that it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. In a family, as a man, standing between his parents and his daughter-in-law, he is afraid that his parents will be hurt and his daughter-in-law will be unhappy.

Standing in the middle of this, it's really difficult. I've already had that once, so I think I have some experience. In a family, you shouldn't fight for something, because that's not good for anyone.

If so, this time they are separated again, what about the next time? Will there be a next one?

Lived in the hospital three times a year with your mother, don't want such a daughter-in-law, get a divorce quickly, brother.