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Hehe, little brother, I will express my shallow opinions.
Everything in the world is changed by quantity and quality. The same is true of dealing with people. For the people around you.
Don't start with fantasies about changing someone else's shortcomings. Instead, try to change your attitude. In fact, the most important thing in life is to learn (of course, not rigid learning under the Chinese education system) to supplement one's own shortcomings.
When you see the shortcomings of others, you should first reflect on whether you have the same shortcomings, and if you have them, you should change them, and if you don't, you should take them as a warning. In this way, he not only maintains an open-minded mentality, but also improves his self-cultivation quality.
When your own abilities are improved, quantitative changes continue to accumulate, and eventually qualitative changes occur, and you begin to slowly influence others.
Others will approach you because of your peaceful attitude, and they will learn from you because of your own cultivation, so that the shortcomings of others can be corrected and the friendship will be stronger.
In fact, dealing with the world is also the same as diplomacy, not interfering with other people's freedom of thought, not interfering with other people's freedom of speech, not interfering with others' freedom to handle their own affairs, and learning from each other as much as possible, so that there will be good interpersonal relationships.
Friends, you can see between the lines that you are eager to associate with others, dare to point out the shortcomings of others, this innocence is commendable, but you can also see that your temperament is more impatient, in fact, the heart is more than the heart, all of us are eager to love and be loved, and the same is true of those people you are not used to, so I send you a sentence of my code of conduct: tolerance is great, no desire is rigid.
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Treat it with a normal heart, knowing that you can't change the world. Be considerate and tolerant of others, and you will have a happy life.
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Because he himself is bad, change himself so that unnecessary trifles do not happen.
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Who are you talking about???
Everyone is not so perfect! Others are bad, ignore them, and don't socialize. Why make yourself unhappy!
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Hello, if you feel that you need to strengthen some areas, then do some aspects to improve yourself and me, and do some hard work, so that it will also help you in all aspects.
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I'm happy to answer your question, in fact, people are not bad, it only depends on your beliefs, if you want to be successful, or if you want to do something but can't do it. You have to think that I will succeed. If you ask a little more of yourself in this way, the result will be a little better.
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Is it that you have done a thing, and then you have not done it well, so you feel so bad, in fact, don't judge a person because of one thing, let alone add reasons to your own frustration, no matter what we do, if we don't do it well, we have also experienced, if we have experienced it badly, then we have to learn a lesson, and strive not to make the same mistake in the next thing.
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Don't be presumptuous, I am born to be useful, most of the people in this world are ordinary people, life is short, just have fun, live according to what you want, don't be influenced by others.
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Everyone will have shortcomings, all have bad sides, it's okay, you must also have advantages, don't be discouraged.
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Don't say that you are bad, as long as you work hard, it will definitely be good, you look down on yourself, how can others look down on you?
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Don't be presumptuous! See more of your strengths, make unremitting efforts to aim at your goals, and learn more to enrich yourself. Don't compare with others, be down-to-earth, you will definitely succeed!
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Have faith in yourself and don't imply that you're bad, it's really bad. **Poor, **insufficient, just try to change.
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Actually, you're not bad.
I think you're definitely lacking in purpose and effort. So the way you need to change is to set yourself a goal and work towards it step by step. What is done is done for this purpose. Do what you do every day.
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Who knows why you're so bad? Or is it this? It's too hard to motivate, you don't know anything!
You have to see what you want to do, you will be so bad, then you will have to do it if you don't know this, you will definitely be bad, you pick some and you will not be so bad.
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Don't always think that you are bad, first of all, you are psychologically confident, and then continue to learn, enrich yourself, constantly improve yourself, improve your abilities in all aspects, and after a period of time you will change.
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Why are you so bad, because you don't like to use your brain, and you are not active in your work, so you are so bad.
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I was taken aback when I saw the title, how could you feel this way? Is there something that is difficult to solve that makes you feel lost, or is there no confidence in yourself? Don't worry, there is a solution to everything, and everyone has their own specialities, don't feel bad about yourself, because you haven't seen your own strengths.
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Do you know how bad you are? You know that you have to have the direction to correct it, but you are afraid that you don't know that you are bad, and you will lose your way.
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Why do you say that? Don't look down on yourself, learn to encourage yourself, work hard to correct if you don't do well, have confidence in yourself, believe that you are the best!
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How can you say that you are so bad, you look down on yourself so much, you have to be confident, you are the best.
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If you feel like you're bad, you have to try to do everything well.
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That's when you realize that there are a lot of people around you who are much better than you, and you feel the pressure.
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First of all, you may have low self-esteem, secondly, you may have a high level of expectation of you, in addition to your hard work and ability, plus your helplessness about some things leads you to think that you are bad.
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Don't worry about the fate of life, everyone will have this or that kind of life troubles, find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future.
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Because you haven't seen the time when you're better than others, and to see this moment, you have to work hard to improve yourself, not sigh about your abilities.
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Don't worry about the fate of life, everyone will care about He has such a fight or that kind of life troubles, find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future.
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