We re in a different place.,Love is very annoying.。。 10

It's very similar to my situation, I don't know now whether it's the right choice to stick to love for the sake of love, and I don't know if I can get used to it after I get to his house, but my boyfriend said a word, I was still very moved, he said, it's not easy for me to marry alone, he will be my relative in the future, and he won't bully me. At present, in love and reality, I have chosen love and sacrificed my chance to have a good job, and I hope my choice is right.

Truth be told, I'm in the same situation as you right now! I am unwilling to live with him in the future, but I am reluctant to leave him, and I feel that there will definitely be no better man in the world than him! But the reality is that you have to follow the strongest feeling within yourself.

What exactly do you want, bread or what? However, I advise you, love without a material foundation will not last long

Of course, you have to think about the consequences!

Emotionally, I think you should insist, it is better to go to a neighboring city to work and settle down, or you compromise.

But realistically speaking, you first have to ask yourself if your life is only about love, or if love is beyond everything. This different person has different pursuits, and what others say may not necessarily say that you are in the middle of the road. Then I ask you a question, do you really think that there is only one person in the world who truly loves you among the 6 billion people?

Reality: "Love" is really difficult to choose, but the point is in your heart, ask yourself, what is most important to you, everyone has a different definition of important, no matter what your choice is, you must bear the negative result, how to have both? This is also the helplessness of life.

Good luck! ~

Before looking at this question, you have to determine whether you are willing to give up all this life for him, or whether he is willing to go to Guangdong to develop for the love of you, although he is an only child, but he is either unable to go back, or the number of times is less, as a man, it is not harmful for him to go out and wander.

It's up to you, which aspect you tend towards, whether your love or other .........Is it a regret in a material life, or a sweet ...... in a hard life

Don't speculate on love with a normal mentality, just enjoy the taste.

Let go and don't hesitate.

You're a girl, far away from your family, uprooted I don't know how deep your relationship with your boyfriend is, find a boy locally, it's not easy for a boy to live in a different place.

There are good and bad! But it's up to you what you think.

1. The signaling and matching base is gone, and it cannot communicate effectively. The misunderstanding is not explained clearly in **, and it cannot be expressed face-to-face because of the long distance, which is a very common problem in long-distance relationships. This is also why long-distance couples are easy to quarrel or break up over a trivial matter, such as the meaning of the message is misunderstood or misinterpreted, and it is unreasonable!

And the long-distance relationship itself is full of insecurity, if you don't remedy it after hanging the grinding core, causing more misunderstandings, and not communicating formally, sometimes you just feel tired and don't want to explain, but the other party feels that you don't love yourself anymore, both of them are waiting for each other to apologize, but in the end what they are waiting for is to break up. 2. Distrust is the starting point of the end of any relationship, whether it is love, friendship or family affection. Therefore, since you have chosen, don't doubt it easily, even if there is sufficient evidence, you must maintain communication, you must know that the long-distance relationship that finally breaks up is mostly due to communication problems, sometimes I don't ask for a misunderstanding, you don't say it, and finally the breakup becomes a lifelong regret.

Long-distance relationships are always quarrelling, how to solve it, we all know, it is normal to have disputes. But if anyone says that a couple quarrels every day, is it still normal......I don't believe it anyway. When emotions are at their peak for a long time, it is easy for two people to feel tired.

So this time.

1.The importance of the relationship: Consider how important the relationship is to you. Does it bring you joy, support, and satisfaction? Do you genuinely care about the other person and are willing to work hard for the relationship?

2.Communication and problem-solving skills: A split and integrated relationship can mean that there are some problems or challenges. Consider communication and problem-solving skills between you and the other person. Will you be able to communicate openly, resolve differences and conflicts, and grow together?

3.Consistency of values and goals: Check whether you and the other person's values and goals are aligned. Sharing similar values and goals can increase the stability of the relationship and the likelihood of long-term development.

4.Self-worth and well-being: Consider the impact of the relationship on your self-worth and well-being. Does it make you feel happy, satisfied, and worthwhile? Or is it causing you a sense of pain, unease, and uncertainty?

5.History and Patterns of Change: Looking back at past patterns of division and merger. Has the relationship been circulating similar problems and dilemmas? If so, consider whether this pattern is likely to change and whether you are willing to work with the other person to improve the relationship.

To avoid a relationship that is constantly splitting and merging, consider the following suggestions:

1.Communication and understanding: Establish good communication channels to listen to and understand each other's needs, feelings, and perspectives. Communication is the key to solving problems, resolving differences, and improving mutual understanding.

2.Problem-solving skills: Learn to solve problems and deal with conflicts effectively. Try to avoid emotional arguments, but approach problems calmly and comfortably, and look for common solutions.

3.Establish healthy boundaries and space: Give each other a certain amount of personal space and time to pursue personal interests, self-growth, and independence. This helps to reduce quarrels and conflicts and maintain the physical and mental health of the individual.

4.Identify and solve core problems: Analyze past patterns of splitting and merging, identify the core problems that led to the lead in the breakup cavity, and work to resolve them. This may require effort and compromise on both sides to build a more stable and healthy relationship.

5.Alignment of values and goals: Make sure you and your partner have some alignment on important values and goals. Sharing similar values and goals can increase the stability of a relationship and the likelihood of long-term development.

Building a healthy and stable relationship requires effort and commitment from both parties. Both partners should be willing to invest time and energy into solving problems and have a constant focus on the health and well-being of the relationship.

First, I can't get the other party's care, second, I can't get close contact with Ling Huixiang, third, the distance is a little far, fourth, if there is any problem, I can't help the ruler, and Bijing Fifth, I can't enhance the relationship very well.

The reasons include no one to take care of their grandchildren, no one to help them when they encounter hail, loneliness, they can only communicate, and the relationship will fade after a long time, so everyone hates long-distance relationships.

Long-distance relationships often don't see each other, they can't communicate in time if they have anything to say, and long-distance relationships are easy to empathize and feel insecure.

The bitterness of long-distance love is that I love you and can't hug you, but there is cruel sweetness hidden in this bitterness, which makes people unable to extricate themselves.

In the past, cars and horses were slow, and being together was a lifetime, but now they are connected in all directions, but after being together, they can only fall in love through the screen.

It is already a very popular life to complain to each other along the network cable, and as long as you don't stop on the Internet, you want to keep chatting.

Bear the pain of separation.

Recently, I watched a movie "I Really Hate Long-Distance Relationships", and there is a line in it that I can't forget for a long time:

Long-distance relationships are like this sugar-free drink drink you drink right now, there is not a single bit of sugar in it, only aspartame. But it will make you feel very sweet, and the sweet words on the phone screen will never compare to a hug in real life.

Indeed, no matter how much sweet words you send across the screen to express how much you love someone, it can't compare to a hug in reality.

But sometimes the reality is so cruel, for the sake of each other's future or an inseparable responsibility, you have to let go of personal feelings, and this kind of involuntary self-help is also the most worrying.

How happy two people are when they are together, then how painful they will be when they go to each other, which is also what long-distance love must endure.

Have enough trust.

We are all afraid of separation, which is also an instinctive reaction, but when we have to separate, we all need enough courage to let go.

Some people say: Those who can endure the hardships of a long-distance relationship and can achieve positive results are definitely true love.

Indeed, without true love, there will be no such courage, and the feeling of not being able to see and touch is like a blind man touching an elephant, and he is uneasy.

If the other party's mobile phone goes missing one day, you will panic, worry about what happened to the other party, guess what happened to the other party, and even suspect that the other party has a new love.

This whimsical idea is not distrust, but if you are separated for too long, you will suffer from gains and losses, and coupled with the accumulated grievances, you will no longer be able to continue to think calmly.

Break the cocoon into a butterfly for love.

The most distressing thing is that one day someone asked you how you were in love for so many years and you didn't get married, and you can only say:

I'm not married yet, because I've been waiting for someone, but we're on different sides, and there's no red line between us, only a network cable to receive signals.

This kind of love across the distance will always make people unable to distinguish between reality and fiction, but in order to be better together for the rest of our lives, we will continue to grow in tears, be strong in loneliness, and finally strive to become a better version of ourselves.

Just like before a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly, it has to survive the pain of breaking the cocoon in a lonely cocoon before it can break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly.

I believe that good things are grinding, as long as you have a firm enough heart, it will eventually be as you wish.

Message: Touch every word, leave a trace of warmth in the years.

May you gradually ** yourself between the lines.

The love topic movie "I Really Hate Long-Distance Relationships" starring Ren Min and Xin Yunlai was released on April 29, the film mainly revolves around the love affair between Zhao Yiyi and Xu Jiashu, telling the story of Zhao Yiyi finally confessing to Xu Jiashu, who has been secretly in love for many years, but accidentally started a long-distance relationship

In the film, Zhao Yiyi (played by Ren Min) looks back on the love process with Xu Jiashu (played by Xin Yunlai), in the process of long-distance relationship, the two, like all ordinary couples, have experienced fresh, sweet, uneasy, confused, quarrelling, and thinking processes, looking for a balance between chasing love and pursuing themselves, and constantly learning to fill the heart of gains and losses with a rich life, and finally be able to "in order to get together, you can separate".

Whether to let their love dissipate, or bravely face the problems of a different place, they gradually see the answer in their hearts in the trial of separation and integration.

I Really Hate Long-Distance Relationships" not only has the heartbeat of first love and the ignorance of youth, but also reflects many practical issues: how important is the sense of security in a long-distance relationship, how to overcome the time difference problem of long-distance love, and how to maintain the freshness of long-distance love, these topics closely related to long-distance couples are reflected in the movie.

The story in the movie is a true portrayal of countless long-distance couples, who can't sleep all night after tossing and turning, and the thoughts of wanting to see but not being able to see each other have pierced the hearts of the audience.