What kind of books can make people scheming and have a city?

The Weakness of Human Nature" If you want to improve your emotional intelligence, you must read this book. Dale Carnegie's book brings together all of Carnegie's wisdom and practices, and introduces a variety of methods to not only get out of the predicament but also uncover the infinite potential.

I have read "Thick Black Studies", which is a very thick and dark book, and after reading it carefully, you can figure out the mystery of it, and you are a good person. Knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent, knowing both the condition and the prescription. It's a rare good book.

From this book, you can see Mr. Li Zongwu's profound and incisive exposition of social and political issues using the doctrine he founded, so that you can know what it means to have high emotional intelligence and high intelligence.

The heart of defense is indispensable, and the heart of harm is indispensable! From ancient times to the present, people who are too kind and just have always been mutilated or killed by people who are too selfish and greedy! Han Feizhi is to Li Si, Sun Bin is to Pang Juan, etc., although they are the same brothers, but the scholars are confidants who die, although they are the same brothers!

But the greed of human nature in fame and fortune is undoubtedly revealed! Someone once said that the hearts of the people in the world are more vicious than the hearts of tigers and wolves! Although these things are shallow, they are the most reasonable!

Therefore, there is scheming and the city government, this is an inevitable self-defense technique, the rivers and lakes are sinister, and people's hearts are unpredictable. Where there are people, the sinister rivers and lakes will be revealed! These things can't be changed!

The most important thing is to live the way you want to live! "The Art of War" is a martial art of war, leading the war, fierce and just advancing, and occupies an absolute leading position in the market economy; "Guiguzi" is a worldly and winning science, and it can be regarded as a literary art of war! One article and one martial arts, Zhang Chi has a degree, it is everything!

Recently, I read a book, which made me suddenly enlightened, this book is called "The Water of the Waves", which is the work of Mr. Yan Zhen, this book profoundly writes about the corruption of power and money on spiritual values, and writes the unspoken rules under power very thoroughly, giving people the feeling and meaning of breaking through the sky.

A person has scheming, there is a city, and what books to read has little to do with it, and the personality has a lot to do with it, if your character just don't like to think or so-so, then there is no way, there is a scheming, there is a city, first of all, that this person's cognitive ability, understanding ability, analysis ability, including insight ability, empathy ability, etc. must be very strong, and these things can not be learned by reading, of course, it has not much to do with age, If you have experienced a lot but none of the above abilities are strong, no matter how old you are, you are still an old child.

This book is a very wonderful and in-depth read, and after reading it, you will find that you are becoming more and more scheming.

Guiguzi is about the strategy system. Exploring the psychological characteristics and laws of mental activity of human beings, the various forms of realization of wisdom and power revealed by this technique have been widely used.

Most of China's military strategists like to read "Twenty-four History" and "Zizhi Tongjian", which will teach us the ability to deal with things and solve problems, and will also make ourselves scheming, having a city, having means, and having a strategy.

Read more about officialdom**, officialdom** is full of the use of scheming, and sometimes it can be said that it is applied to the fullest. Political battles may be all you need.

Li Zongwu once wrote a book of "Thick Black Studies", I don't know if there is still a genuine version.

<> "You can have no scheming, but you must have a city."

1.Anti-sleeve words.

Realize that others are playing tricks on you, and you can throw your questions at them. If someone maliciously asks you to rate a colleague, you can say, "It's rude to judge someone, don't you say?" "

2.Keep one hand for everything.

Be cautious at work, and be sure to read the documents clearly when you encounter a place where you are asked to sign and seal. Keep chat records, transfer records, audio recordings when necessary, and take screenshots to keep evidence.

3.No landscapes.

Don't be like the horn of a roadside stall, tell the people around you when you encounter trouble, even if you are close to you, don't tell all your secrets. The people in the city are indifferent to everything, and it's hard for you to know what your brother is thinking when she buries her. Others are unpredictable, so they naturally dare not do anything to you.

4.Insight into people's hearts.

Learn to figure out the psychology of the other party, and after a few contacts, you can roughly understand the other party's language habits and inner thoughts, and you have good countermeasures in your heart to deal with them at any time, so that you can reduce unnecessary conflicts in interpersonal communication.

5.Bide.

The sharp edge will only make you attract the villain's grudge. You have the ability, show it passively little by little, have merit, and verbally give it to your colleagues, and you feel different from you from 60 to 100 points at the beginning.

6.Learn to disguise.

In the face of everyone, he maintains an easy-going attitude, looking harmless to humans and animals, soft and weak, but always keeping a clear and dusty bridge and being sensible. Camouflage is a basic rule of survival, and it is a necessary means of survival in this Du meeting.

7.Not afraid of denigration.

There are girls in the city, who are not afraid of those slanders against her. They know that the ridicule of others is to provoke the law. So they chose to hide needles in the cotton to make each other feel uncomfortable. Have a mind and know how to advance and retreat.

8.Emotion management in place.

People who really have a city government are not that kind"Insidious characters. In fact, they always treat people with eight facesLong, giving people a very comfortable affinity. They never complain when they meet people, and even when they are angry, they can stay calm.

9.Be measured.

Do things in a measured way and maintain a sense of boundaries. People in the depths of the city are very keen, and they can perceive the true thoughts of others, but they can't say anything about it. Even if the relationship is good, it maintains a clear sense of boundaries and gives people a comfortable feeling.

10.Enhance your own value.

At the heart of any human interaction is the exchange of value. If you are useful to others, others will come close to you. However, it is not flattering self-improvement. 1. Self-improvement is not for others, but for oneself.

11.Know how to laugh at yourself.

Others laugh at themselves, don't follow them, but the other party is modest but you take it seriously, which will only attract resentment. You have to find some innocuous little faults to hurt yourself, so that others will not be jealous, and at the same time you will not lose face.

12.Remember to play dumb.

It's really important to play dumb, and a lot of things to let others know that you don't know is a way to protect yourself. If someone explains it to you, it can enhance the other person's sense of satisfaction. Even if the other person doesn't explain, it will reduce your interpersonal threat.

The training of the city.

1. Calm (1) Don't show your emotions casually. (2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first. (4) Don't nag your dissatisfaction at every opportunity. (5) Important decisions should be discussed with others as much as possible, and it is best to release them every other day.

6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk. (7) Self-confidence is good, but don't ignore anyone's ideas. (8) There is no height in people, don't look like a drag, don't be polite to people and things.

You are no better than anyone else.

2. Be careful (1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you. (2) For the problems that cannot be done, we must explore the root crux of them.

3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things. (4) Do everything in an orderly and orderly manner. (5) Often find a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere.

3. Courage (1) Don't often use words and phrases that lack self-confidence (2) Don't always regret and easily overturn what you have decided. (3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny. (5) Be mindful in everything you do, because someone is watching you. (6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

Four: generosity (1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents. (2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (wealth, law, and fearlessness) (4) Don't have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge. (5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

Five: integrity (1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do it. (2) Don't always talk about false slogans or slogans. (3) Stop all "immoral" means. (4) Playing tricks, or not!

6. Responsibility (1) When reviewing any mistakes, start to reflect on yourself or your own people. (2) After the matter is completed, the fault will be examined first, and then the credit will be listed.

3) A plan should be coordinated and planned for the future. (4) Have the courage to take responsibility for the losses caused.

Seven: Connotation (1) Learn all aspects of knowledge and observe the things around you with an open mind. Broad horizons.

2) Understand yourself and cultivate your own aesthetics. (3) Laugh at life. Laziness is a must.

Develop healthy lifestyle habits. (4) Don't do anything blindly. Have a goal.

5) It's not just about inner beauty, it's also important to be on the outside. (6) Don't play boring things in front of the computer all day long. (7) Rational judgment and learning to control emotions.

Scheming is used for self-defense, if you work in scheming, it will only bring disaster upon yourself, when you make good use of it, the higher the mental maturity, the deeper the city, do things steadily, be bold and careful, plan carefully, and shoot steadily, accurately, and ruthlessly.

Look at the palace fighting drama--- you will have a deep understanding.

You're actually bai

I prefer to be with others, you are afraid of being lonely, zhi hopes otherwise.

DAO people care about you, and you can understand this. What you need is calmness, you can learn not to rely too much on others, you can learn to be independent. Smiling more and talking less can make you look quite mature, and also, those who fight outside are not nerves - just hit you, since you are a boy, don't be so timid and afraid, you go yours, if you are really afraid of getting into trouble, go away quickly.

If you want to do something, learn how to do things, and don't blurt it out without thinking about it when you speak. Think more and learn to be a man. But although the city government does need a little bit, you must not always play tricks...

Kindness.. That's it. Hope it helps

Personally, I don't recommend that you become like this, you are basically going down the path of self-destruction.

Answer: 1. Me.

I think the question you asked is philosophical. Sometimes I think about it, and I think we should spend our childhood carefree in our childhoodWhen we are full of energy, we run wild to spend our youth;In the transition to adulthood in our hearts, we boldly and delusionally pursue our dreams and happinessIn short, I think each of us, whether we succeed or fail, keeps us happy every day.

Spending each day with a happy mindset is the best life I think ... 2. At first, they were not like this, and they also practiced again and again in failure. People are inherently good, just like the actor in the TV series [Sitting in the Village], he was so kind at first, but he was deceived by others again and again, and then he had to be a little more thoughtful.

Later, in order to survive and have a place, they gradually had scheming. More and more cunning. The heart of defense is indispensable.

It's forced out. 3. You said that you are scheming with your heart and eyes, but in the final analysis, you want to make yourself have a certain wolf nature (ambition). And the city government you are talking about is different, the city government should be open to everyone.

The city can be said to be a secret base that belongs to a person's inner world, and it should be a forbidden place, if you lose this forbidden land, you, as an independent individual, will be easily occupied by the people closest to you spiritually. To the enemy, in fact, as long as you don't let him see through his thoughts, you can give him a mysterious smile, so that you can retain your demeanor, and he can't figure out what you are thinking even if he is meditating. Have a good time, friend, love and hate are love, why don't you spend your time hating someone on the person you love.

I hope you can figure it out and have fun as soon as possible. 4. The city government is a special ability to disguise a person's heart and create an illusion for others. On the way, no matter how much you do it, it won't be a little disgusting; To subordinates, let subordinates have a sense of fear.

To put it simply, everyone has selfishness, and for the sake of selfishness, some secrets hidden in the bottom of the heart may be called scheming. 5. You can watch more "Three Kingdoms" and then learn to play conspiracy with the people you hate! Don't be soft-hearted, take pleasure in playing with others, and have a ruthless expression!

It's unpredictable! The longer it goes, the deeper the city! 6. First of all, don't show your joys, sorrows, and sorrows on your face.

Also, don't talk to others about what is in your heart, so that others can't figure out you. 7. See yourself through the eyes of others. 8. Have the ability to judge the situation and innovate flexibly.