What books can make people open minded and broad minded

Reading a lot of books can broaden your horizons. In ordinary life, you must not encounter all kinds of experiences and things alone, but only a part of them, that is, your knowledge and vision can only be limited to the things around you. But reading a book allows you to experience something much broader.

Whether it's feelings, thoughts, life experiences, or ways of thinking. In this way, you will have a more comprehensive understanding of the small things around you, and because you have seen a lot, you will not think that there is anything to be surprised or angry about such things.

You will see the weakness of human nature, the limitations of human beings, the powerlessness of human beings to overcome their own shortcomings, the complexity of the world, the helplessness of many things, the causal relationship that is not clear, and the fact that the world is not black and white, but gray. When you are misunderstood, you can know why he misunderstands you, and you can understand that he offends you for his own reasons.

Recognizing that people are flawed, we will forgive others for their flaws. When we realize that our understanding has limitations, we will have a trace of awe of the unknown, and we will not be arrogant and unable to stand different opinions.

In fact, the role of reading books is similar to the effect of increasing experience as we age.

By reading books, you can know what is on the minds of others, and you can see everything clearly, and you will have a feeling of seeing the mountains at a glance, and you will be angry there.

Of course, it's Lao Tzu's "Tao Te Ching".

Hehe, although the Chinese language is difficult to understand, but now there are many versions, the good is like water, and nothing is the highest. Hey.

Take a look at Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching, which now has a translated and explained version, and it is not difficult to understand.

Health preservation and self-cultivation.

1. A road rarely traveled.

once we truly know that life is difficult,once we truly accept it,then life

is no longer difficult.

A book about mental maturity, a psychiatrist, more than 20 years, ** thousands of patients, expounds a kind of open-mindedness of ordinary people.

2. Correct view. In this book, Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse Rinpoche explains the four central Dharma Seals of Buddhism in the simplest language.

A book on Buddhism, all the ways to do things, like a dream bubble, expounds a kind of open-mindedness in Buddhism.

3, Ji Xianlin talks about life.

Mr. Ji Xianlin, an academic scholar, combined with more than 90 years of life experience, talked about his perception of life. The meaning and value of life, fate and fate, life and life, tolerance, success, contentment, friends, reputation, pressure, longevity, ethics and morality.

A book of reasoning, Ji Lao is over 90 years old, he has devoted himself to academics all his life, and his fame and fortune have long been downplayed. It expounds a kind of open-mindedness of scholars.

If you want to be open-minded, you have to be happy. deserve to have a peaceful life.

Save yourself.

Philosophy is a faith.

Don't let the future self hate the current self.

When your talent can't hold up your dreams.

There is only one copy of the Tao Te Ching... The more I read, the more I want to read it, the more I chew the food, the more tasteless it is, the book is not afraid to read it repeatedly, the more I read, the more thorough it is, this is a good book.

Thick Black Studies: Look carefully.

What others say is moving, and chicken soup for the soul is useless. What this world wants is the law of survival.

1. The ordinary world (it is a growth for the individual's soul).

2. Ice is sleeping water (tells the story of a hero's descendants).

3. Carnegie's weakness in human nature (changing one's character).

Chicken soup for the soul, inspirational, ** and the like. There are many of them on Dangdang. "Meet the Unknown Self", "You Are the Best Self", "Spent with Anthony", "With You is the World" and so on, there are many on Dangdang.com, you can go and see them.

Yu Dan's experience Bi Shumin's prose Childhood Instantly touched people's hearts Seeing Yu Qiuyu's Walkers Without Boundaries The Sahara Desert Chi Zijian's prose.

"Everything is the best arrangement", "Alive".

You don't need to read a book for this, first look at the money in your pocket, whether you have this time to care. If you don't have the time to learn to replenish energy and make money, it will work better than reading a hundred books.

Highly recommend "Tianlong Babu", just take a look at Qiao Feng, Duan Yu, and Xuzhu in it.

Of course, it's okay to watch Zhang Wuji in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer".

If you want to read some literary masterpieces, I recommend Lu Yao's "Ordinary World", foreign masterpieces can take a look at "War and Peace", and the top dozens of books on Amazon's best-selling list can be read.

Look at the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, the four masterpieces, and have the country in mind.

"Tao Te Ching", "Book of Songs", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".

"Harvard's Family Motto".

How Steel is Made".

One Hundred Years of Solitude", a small story, a big truth

。It is not easy to change a person, because life experience determines his thoughts and behaviors, and the more he experiences, the more ingrained he becomes. It is also unrealistic to think that a few methods and activities can solve the problem.

However, human beings are advanced animals, not monolithic, and it is possible to change, but they cannot be achieved overnight, and comprehensive management is required. Based on my own experience of "refining myself", I feel that I should exercise and sublimate it in the following aspects.

1. Learn to respect people. We must truly realize that human beings are the most precious in the world, and that every human life is equal, priceless, and there is no distinction between high and low.

Only based on this understanding can we fundamentally understand the meaning of fairness, and can we respect, understand, and help people. You must know that a person who cannot even correctly understand the meaning of human beings, and who self-righteously divides people into three, six, nine, and so on, cannot be open-minded and open-minded.

2. Adhere to lofty life goals. Everyone has their own goals in life, but some people just talk about it, or even think about it, and don't really implement it in action, so they are still obscene and trivial, and the little family is full of anger. Only with a big goal in mind can we strive to go high and compete with different trivial things.

The so-called people who do big things are not confined to small sections, this is the truth. The way to adhere to the lofty goal of life is: "I am three times a day and my body", in fact, it is enough to wake up.

3. Improve the sense of responsibility. When a person comes into this world, he has a certain responsibility in himself. Only by living with a serious and responsible attitude can we get the rewards that life gives.

Doing a good job with a responsible attitude is not only a manifestation of one's own ability, but also a way to win the respect of others, achieve career success, and achieve higher life goals. If we treat our family responsibly, we will be able to do our best and improve the quality of life of our family. The way to improve the sense of responsibility is to do things well, count one thing well, and do not give up if you don't do it well; If you can't do it for the time being, you can do it later, but you must not do it.

4. Don't care about immediate gains and losses. The ancients had a saying that "if you lose your horse, you will not know that it is not a blessing", you must know that the loss in the present may be the reward in the future. What's more, the situation of any individual is always less than the above, and more than the bottom.

The ratio is not enough to forge ahead, and the ratio is more than enough to help others. Therefore, when encountering problems, we should not always start from personal interests, but should consider more from the standpoint of others. I figured it out, I am relaxed, everyone is relaxed.

Therefore, there is a sense of gratitude and a sense of helping others.

5. Learn materialist dialectics well and improve your ability to understand things. Only by truly understanding the grandeur of the universe, the importance of others, the insignificance of individuals, and the meager face. In order to truly have the elegance of accommodating people.

6. Learn logic well and improve your ability to induct, analyze and reason about things. There are many trivial things that are inevitable in human life, and no one can avoid them. But the key lies in whether we can distinguish right from wrong, distinguish priorities, grasp the main points, and not get entangled in complicated and trivial matters.

When we have a hundred dollars, we will care about ten dollars, but when we have a hundred thousand dollars, ten dollars is nothing.

When we only have one goddess, we will feel very defeated and calculating when we are dumped, but if there are countless goddesses chasing you every day and being good to you, will you still care so much?

This is called "atmosphere". In fact, it is a state of "I am not lacking". Since I don't lack it, there's no need to worry about it.

It is not denied that many people don't care about ten dollars even if they only have a hundred dollars. If you look closely at such people, you will find that they either have good family conditions, or they have received a great education from their parents since childhood, that is, their hearts are full of positive energy of "I am not lacking". But for those who are not so lucky, if we want to live more freely and less carelessly, the best way is to create a state of "I am not lacking" for ourselves.

Reading cultivation is certainly a good thing, but reading and thinking can't solve everything, and relying on them will lead to the kind of reader with low eyes.

It's almost the same as surfing the Internet to chat and fart and find someone to comfort you.

In this world, if you really struggle, act and work hard, you will bring real returns and the state of "I don't lack". Instead of convincing yourself that you don't care, you should take action and let yourself have more and more until you can naturally not care.

Do you feel that in the vast sea of books, you can't start? Reading can broaden one's horizons and make the whole person's temperament different, especially for girls. But reading is not about reading a few famous books to broaden your horizons, but about accumulating over time and constantly absorbing the essence of the book.

You may not have the patience, or you may think that you can read so many books in one day?

You can start with your own interests and hobbies, such as if you love fantasy, and you deserve to have popular science. But there are many technical terms that you won't understand. If you want to read popular science and understand it, you either have to study this subject painstakingly or choose the simplified version.

Start with the world classics, before reading, you have to forget about some of the Internet ** or something you have seen before. In this way, the mind can not be mixed, and concentrate on immersing himself in the thoughts of the masters of world literature.

Go to the bookstore and look through it, there's something for everyone.

Alternatively, you can choose based on the recommendations of those around you.

You can choose according to your age group、