My younger brother only wants to be online and doesn t want to work. Please help me figure it out

I think the family environment is very important to a person, you can often encourage him, let him do something at home, give him confidence, take the initiative to communicate with him, praise him, or lie to him in good faith, his parents are about to be laid off, the salary is less, etc., so that he has a sense of crisis, he feels that he must find a job, you or his parents can whisper behind his back, talk about money, you can show him. Or your parents and you don't give him a good look, both soft and hard.

Ay! The problem of education in China.

It is estimated that your brother has psychological problems, so you'd better pay attention!

Rescue methods:1See a psychiatrist.

2.Let him set a goal in life.

3.Care more about him. Let him feel that home is a warm alley port!

In short, start with psychology! Don't rush too much.

I wish your brother a speedy awakening!

You can ask a psychiatrist to take a look, we have always been indifferent to mental illness and feel that it is an unsightly thing, in fact, this is the same as going to the doctor with a cold, don't drag the cold and drag it can become pneumonia, not to mention psychological problems, the current psychiatrist is not expensive, at most 1000 yuan can be solved simply 200, how much heart is saved. There are many professional psychological counseling institutions in Shenzhen that you can check out.

Because everyone has everyone's temperament, especially everyone is growing, even your brother, he is just a growing person, and he has his own dignity.

This is evident in some people, because dignity is the most important thing in most people's eyes.

He has grown up now and has his own opinions, and he doesn't want to be denied!!

Everyone has their own insistence.

You can use other means to let him know the disadvantages of not going to work, you can inadvertently tell some examples that are very similar to his current situation, how it will end, and say that you believe him and will not become like them. But beware; Don't hurt his self-esteem, don't let him think that you said it to him on purpose, and when he decides to repent, you have to help him restrain himself.

However, there are really a lot of pyramid schemes in Beihai.

It's best to contact ** to see what to do.

Sometimes, family affection is not to be doubted.

In terms of price, it is a pyramid scheme. Because kidnapping doesn't cost that much money. No, call the police.

Love is no matter how much money can not be bought, what difficulties can not be crossed, two people together is equivalent to the formation of a new home, then everything in this family is obtained by the efforts of two people, happiness is two people happy together, together to endure hardships, this is happiness, the happiest is to grow old together, watching each other's teeth fall one by one, this is the witness of the years, both sides of a lifetime of pay, life! Love!

It's been interfered with by the family again!

In fact, I personally think that the relationship has been in love for so many years, your love is also very good, the family is worried about whether you will be happy in the future, you know your boyfriend very well, since you have confidence in your boyfriend, why not let him come to a strange city to work the one hand, it proves that you are not wrong; On the other hand, let your family see the strength! Marriage is for a lifetime!

I'll teach you an absolute way to do it, you and your boyfriend ml, and then you get pregnant. Your parents will never say no, and you'll be together after that. I believe that your boyfriend will rely on his efforts to make you live a good life and let your parents see his achievements.

Whether you take my answer or not, I sincerely wish you all happiness.

Do you want to be with him or not, if you want everything is not a problem.

It's a very real question, it seems that you two don't have much fun.

Directly call ** to communicate, just explain the reason simply, this kind of internship company is almost the same, all Qiyuan and are quietly working, don't have to worry about these things. Your goal is an internship, and the other party's goal is to find an intern with a few offers.

1.How many months has this kid been? If it's older than three months, don't fight.

2.Who do you really love? It's your girlfriend.

3. What exactly do female colleagues want? Does she love you or just want to blackmail money. 4.

You have to understand that you are wrong first, and you will definitely have to pay a certain price, money or your current girlfriend. 5.If she opens her mouth, she must refuse first, she must have a bottom line, and if she comes to make trouble every day, she can find the neighborhood committee or other departments for mediation.

Check out if it's your child first, and if so, talk to her about it, it's really not possible to solve it with money, and you can't hide it from your girlfriend anymore.

The cut is continuous, and the rationalization is still messy. It's a matter of being a responsible man. It's your son.

Don't you think children are cute, you have hurt your girlfriend, and you have to solve the problem yourself. It's not about how to get rid of the child. There is a cause and there is an effect. Because you provoked her, and as a result, you had a child. Do it yourself.

If you can, try not to make a big deal out of it, you can do ideological work for your female colleague on the one hand (it is best to solve it with money) and talk to your girlfriend on the other hand, and discuss it together.

If she loves you and decides to be born, then she will listen to you well, and if it is with ulterior motives, then you will have to take coercive measures, and you yourself will be very tough.

Don't make purple sauce in the same shoes! That's what you're wrong with! Come to hate a little, "accident".

I think it's good to save some money and go to school, but if you can learn something, you can work and study at the same time, and you can combine work and rest.

3. Learn while working.

It is always good for young people to learn more.

Let's get a little tired.

Actually, it's not too tiring.

It's not bad to be rich at all, hehe.

All in all, good luck!

Your younger brother must have been spoiled by your parents and you since he was a child.

Otherwise, he wouldn't be unwilling to do anything and have illusions.

In fact, it is very simple to change his mind, you and your parents don't care about him, don't give him living expenses, let him go out on his own, if he hits a wall everywhere, he will naturally know the importance of money and the hardships of making money.

On the other hand, if he is really a capable person, maybe he can also break through the sky.

In short, you should pay more attention to whether he has done anything out of line, don't let him go astray, and let him be independent financially in other things.

When he is truly out of the umbrella, he will naturally mature.

In a material society, money comes first! ~

Well, let him go outside and run into a wall, although money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible. Just go out of the house and don't need money.