Please help me solve the distress in my heart

There are some things that cannot be said. Some people can't use agitation, and some things can't be rushed. ”

This is what one of my relatives said after hitting a wall.

From your statement, I understand that you actually know a lot about his pressure** and how much pressure he is under.

So, when you are calm, ask yourself why you are asking again and again? Why quarrel with him? Why act aggressively?

Under the pressure of many aspects, he needs to rely on you even more, relying on a girl he cherishes, but you have disappointed him. He's very chaotic and chaotic now, so he's become reticent, have you ever tried to ask him what he's thinking when you and he are calm?

Why not try to enlighten him?

My boyfriend and I also had this kind of thing, I am a person with a more impatient personality, and he also inherited his dad's bad temper, so we are prone to quarrel when the other party is very irritable, and then I know that when I am irritable, there is always one party who needs to take a step back, so I took on this role, I tried to help him sum up the experience and lessons when he failed, I tried to enlighten him when he couldn't bear the pressure, tried to make him open up, even if he vented to me, I wouldn't say anything, I just hope that he can come to his senses and cheer up after venting.

Why don't you give it a try?

In fact, you love him very much, since you love him, then you have to let him know that there is a woman who supports him, and you quarrel with him to completely destroy your image in his mind.

I think you should apologize to him first, tell him that you love him very much, explain to him why you are asking him, tell him that you feel sorry for him while he is under pressure, and gradually let him say what is in his heart to you, at this time you also need to control your temper, take a step back, and pay will be rewarded, which has been tested on me, absolutely yes!

Just my personal experience and insights, please laugh and accept.

Change yourself and show him that you are making such a change for him.

Try to be considerate.

Try to be inclusive.

From the beginning to the end, he is not right.

Some setbacks play silence and melancholy, as if they are still tragic.

It's just too lazy to work hard.

You've done everything you're supposed to do, you're saturated, and it won't work any longer, so stop it.

Go shush and apologize. It's better to be quick, have time to go out together, and before a man's career frustration is mentioned, it's best not to ask If you can get along Remember, your enthusiasm should not be focused on his specific work issues, and you should try to create a warm family atmosphere, such as caring for his physical health, giving him a hug before he goes out, etc

You can say "I don't know what the hell is going on with you now, but if you have a problem, I will definitely support you, so please never give up." I think that's all I can do in this house." Maybe I can tell him the truth

But that's just a sentence. How he responds to his reply still depends on immediate response

Wow Gaga, what's the feeling??!

The Buddha said: Waste!

I have a classmate in the same situation as you, the reason is that the girl is in too much control, and I know that the boy said that he was tired and divided! I think your problems are as you said, you have too much to do! I feel like it's hard for you guys to get back to the way you used to be!

Really, the twisted melon is not sweet, he doesn't want to continue, it's useless for you to just get his people, it's true to adjust your mood and start anew.

You all have to be calm, don't ask him too much when you see that his work is not going well, and support her silently. Say something to encourage him, especially not to quarrel at this time, you have to show that you love him, let him know that you can't live without him, he has to be comforted when he is annoyed, men also want women's care and love, love is mutual, I believe that as long as you are good to him, he will also cherish you, come on.