What exactly should I do to get out of an unhappy marriage?

Work hard and get your mindset right. Marriage is not a person's effort, so to get rid of an unhappy marriage, you have to work hard, have a right mentality, and make good money.

First of all, you must be independent and self-confident, have your own life, be willing to love yourself, don't rely too much on each other to focus all your energy on each other, have your own independent way of thinking, and show your own value.

I think that first of all, we should clarify our own attitude, and secondly, we should enhance our value, and we should stop losses in time and use legal means to protect our rights and interests.

First of all, in the process of getting along in marriage, we must understand each other and tolerate each other, so that we can make each other better together. If you are always scheming with each other during your marriage, then you will naturally feel unhappy when you live. First of all, you must make your mind more peaceful, and you should know that no couple's married life is happy, and they all need to be managed.

This needs to refer to the marriage situation of the two of you yourself, because it is difficult to distinguish right from wrong in the relationship itself, and it is also difficult to evaluate whether you are happy or not.

After two people get married, many people will have various marital problems, and at the same time, they will think that their marriage behavior is a mistake. In fact, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship in this world, especially after two people get married, the two of you need to take the initiative to manage the marriage as much as possible, and at the same time, don't give up the marriage of two people easily, because this behavior will only lead to the life of the two of you getting worse and worse.

I suggest you refer to the marital status of two people. You can try to proactively communicate with your significant other. You also need to be as tolerant and understanding as possible of each other.

Personally, I don't think it's necessary to stick to an unhappy marriage; If you are unhappy in your married life, you must find out why you are unhappy, you must prescribe the right medicine, and you must solve the problem together, so that it can be improved.

There is no need to persist in an unhappy marriage, if you feel that it is a pity that you are reluctant to have in-depth communication with the other half to narrow the distance between you and eliminate the estrangement, if there is a problem in principle, then there is no help.

There is no need to insist, because it will make the two people more miserable and waste their own time, then you can change the way the two people get along.

Although the result of this problem will be very different depending on the parties, if the marriage has already had an irreparable situation of having to divorce, it is better to divorce first to get out of that pain in an unhappy marriage. After getting out of that unhappy marriage, it is entirely possible to live a happy little life. Because choice is very important, at the critical juncture of life, the choice is different, whether you can have a happy future has a lot to do with it, and the choice is therefore more important.

Although divorce is a big blow to people, if you are in a marriage that is too abnormal such as domestic violence or cold war or patriarchal or the other party is irresponsible, does not do a good job, gambles all day, has extramarital affairs, alcoholism, beating, etc., divorce is a choice that you have to choose, and there may be no imaginary happiness after divorce, but at least it is many times stronger than that unbearable and painful marriage.

A friend's daughter, A Ling, was dizzy by the love words of a boy who didn't have a job, desperate to live together first, after A Ling became pregnant, the friend had to agree to their marriage, who knew that the boy was a big boy, and the child was born and still didn't want to work, and he also exposed more and more violent tendencies, and from time to time he dropped things at home. When Ah Ling was working, the boy was annoyed when the child was crying, so he covered the child with a quilt, but the little child was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment because of an accident, and the child was out of danger. After Ah Ling came home from work, she had to buy vegetables and cook to wait for the big boy and the children who couldn't walk.

Ah Ling didn't dare to say anything, and if she said too much, the big boy would beat someone ......Later, faced with the pressure of her children's schooling, Ah Ling had no choice but to divorce with her children. Now Ah Ling is in a much better mood with her children, Ah Ling said that she regretted that she didn't listen to her parents, and blamed herself for being too young to listen to her parents.

In short, when you have to divorce, choosing to divorce may open the door to happiness. It's better than being in an unhappy marriage.

You can choose to divorce and start a new life, or you can be yourself in your marriage with peace of mind, so that you are not affected by the outside, or you can get yourself out of an unhappy marriage.

If you don't get married, leave each other if you get married.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you must think about your future situation. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed, and you can get along happily.

Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure that the family is harmoniousMarriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony. Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them.

Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage. When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's Chi Ming has a suitable personality, and if the personality is not compatible, he may put up with you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.