College is so unhappy, what s wrong with me?

Brother, when I was a sophomore, I also took a wrong step, and with her I realized that I was not my original self. For the sake of mutual good, I decisively chose to break up. I hope you both can handle the problem well.

The student union, since you are in, do your job well, and if you feel that you don't have much to do, you will quit. Do your thing well. I don't know if you feel it in your sophomore year.

College is about growing you into a real man. In college, you can not be in a relationship, you can spend some time playing. But remember, making yourself better, stronger, and better in college is what you should aspire to.

Endure loneliness and spend your free time on things you enjoy, such as playing sports and going out. Don't get addicted to games or spend all day in your dorm. It's okay to be confused now, you have to go out and walk more, go to other universities, look at the students in good schools, look at the outside world, and you will definitely find your own motivation.

Don't be discouraged if you haven't passed the fourth level, keep working hard. Believe in yourself, if you really keep your head down and be pragmatic, you will be very glad when you look back after a while, and the university has allowed you to rediscover your dreams. And then everything you want, will come naturally.

Learning is a good thing, at least that's how Chinese tradition has always defined. Don't be defeated by the things in front of you, having a good attitude is more important than anything else, the girlfriend thing, you can break up, so that your space will be much larger, but I guess you are used to her being around, and you are stuck in it, and now that people are free, you can't put it down. In fact, the student union is just a platform for you in the university, and it should be an exercise.

You need to have a peaceful mind to face it, because there will be all kinds of problems waiting for you in the future, which will be even more difficult than now, then maybe you will complain when you see this, so what should I do, in fact, I want to tell you, in fact, it is very simple, that is to need a good attitude, positive people like the sun, shining to **** bright, you have to believe that you will have such a side, your happiness is given by you, no one can stop it, You see addicted to the Internet or wasting time on boring things, don't blame yourself, everyone will have such pressure, and I will have it too, because I am an office worker, but I try to adjust, sometimes I allow myself to be decadent, but don't fall, temporary decadence is just for tomorrow's struggle. So there is a saying that if there is nothing to do in Japan, mediocre people disturb themselves, these things in front of you are not a big deal at all, go out for a walk, or shout loudly, or write a diary, give yourself a space, and don't force yourself into a dead end. Come on, believe in you, your life is in your hands, it depends on how you decide.

The student union is actually nothing, the university is always a place of learning, and you can't give up your studies.

Spending time online is fine, but it doesn't interfere with your studies.

In fact, as long as you do well in college, it doesn't matter what else you do. The most important thing for you now is to improve your academic performance, everything else is a floating cloud.

It's okay to be distracted and skip class, but you must review early before the exam, and the exam results will not be bad. It's better to study with your girlfriend every day.

Although ability is important, unfortunately, in general, schools care more about your grades.

If you don't like her in the first place, don't waste each other's time. Actually, my boyfriend and I were also freshmen together, and we were both in the student union. But when we were together, although I had less time to study, I had a lot of fun in exchange.

When two people are together, they need to change from two parts to a whole, which is to hone into a very tacit relationship. You can study Level 4 with her and the subjects at the end of the semester together. Isn't it best to make progress together?

As for the student union, I really can't evaluate it, there are a lot of things fighting over it, and what is lost is real exercise and friendship. I think you should look at these, don't worry about gains and losses, and think more about it. It will be much easier to grab those fame without coming forward. Come on.

Relax your mind, do what you have to do, and happiness will knock on your door.

Hurry up and learn, kid, if you don't work hard, you'll really hang up.