There is a knot in my heart that cannot be broken, please tell me your opinion!

Updated on society 2024-07-23
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In fact, he doesn't really love you, your position in his heart is not important, and your friends are entangled, there are two purposes, one is to be angry with you, the other is to really like, now it's mainly in yourself, do you like him very much? What do you see in him? Your own ideas must be clear, if you really like it, you have to work hard to chase it, do you think he is worth it?

    The mentality is set, maybe he is not what you should be destined for.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The reason why he didn't accept you when you had a conflict with your family may be because he didn't want to delay you? And don't forget, he has a child. Maybe he thinks you're not fit to be a mom?

    As for the separation, he will redeem you. Probably just comforting you. He doesn't want to be an irresponsible person in your mind, who likes the new and hates the old.

    Finally, entangle your friend with He's a brute and you're done!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You've already analyzed it yourself. 'Now he's entangled with my friend, and he didn't keep you before.'"

    Maybe you just can't let go of it in your heart now, but such a person is really not worth your time, and you will naturally forget it after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you should be glad that you have good parents, because of this, you did not let your character develop, so you can only ruin your life. I don't know why the man got divorced, if you divorced because of that man, then you should be responsible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In a happy marriage, both parties must love each other and the man loves the woman more and takes the initiative.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you're thinking too much about yourself, that male colleague just treats you as a friend, maybe he just wants to find a friend of the opposite sex to chat, if he's really interesting to you, then don't worry too much, because at least he hasn't confessed to you yet, everything is just your own speculation, being together is just having a meal, why should you feel guilty? Unless you yourself have different feelings about him, so you feel that your heart has betrayed your husband, so do you have to feel guilty? In fact, you can still make friends of the opposite sex when you are married, as long as you keep the mentality that your boyfriend is just a colleague or a friend, then everything is not a problem, is it?

    It's normal for colleagues to chat and eat everything

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to understand what distance is.

    As a woman, you need to know what to do.

    It's okay to talk. After all, we work together.

    You can also eat.

    But you don't have to think about anything.

    You're not honest.

    Isn't seven years of love still strong???

    It's been seven years, what do you still think?

    Love your husband with all your heart.

    Only your husband loves you the most.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's nothing, try to go out to eat with him as little as possible, try to make him feel that you are just friends with him, just don't let him misunderstand. There's nothing to feel guilty about having a meal and talking, but don't overdo it, and that's a problem. Try to distance yourself from him.

    The topic and the content of the conversation are not out of scope and cannot be frequent, so that subtle things will happen inadvertently, which is more terrible than saying it directly. Think for yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The usual contact with each other is fine as long as you grasp the measure.

    Don't give him a chance to take advantage of it, and bring out the shelf of a married woman.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Pay attention to the distance, there are three walls between hearts, one for friends, one for relatives, and the last for lovers.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    depressed, one daughter cannot marry two husbands.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's no such thing as the best of both worlds. It's good to answer his topic less, or invite your husband to dinner with their husband and wife, and invite them to your wedding, and let them feel the sweetness of your seven-year relationship. In the end, he and his wife became good friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can get along with other colleagues like this so that they think you are the same as other colleagues.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the teacher doesn't mention it, you should not have happened.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Admit your mistakes to the teacher and be sincere.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't know what kind of person your homeroom teacher is, so don't say that you are taking care of your face or avoid expanding your influence in the class. In fact, certain types of people themselves are embarrassed to say this.

    If the head teacher is more introverted, you don't have to take the initiative to admit your mistakes tomorrow, because she will think that you are embarrassed, so at most call you over, and then you will apologize, don't talk too much, generally she first advises you to dispel the idea of early love, and then warns, at most you will not do this in the future The gangsters are over.

    If he is tough, take the initiative and continue to shut up and listen to him. If corporal punishment is not in place. Are you afraid to tell your parents? This again involves what kind of person your parents are. So, let's see for yourself.

    Did I find you today? If you really tell your girlfriend about her family, it depends on how her family disciplines her and how she deals with her, whether you will come to you, but her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think your teacher will say it today, maybe not tomorrow. But next time it happens, I think it will. Don't be too ostentatious, just want to go to a place with fewer people,

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wait for the teacher to speak first, otherwise it will be self-defeating if you are not careful...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think he will say such a thing, he may not see it himself, but you have to be mentally prepared, do what you want, you don't go to the teacher, he doesn't say it, you don't say it, just keep the brake. If he looks for you, the soldiers will come to block you, the water will flood, don't worry, it's okay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I won't say anything if I don't ask. If you ask, just say it. It does not matter.. The more you explain, the more you disguise it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's okay without asking.

    Ha, I have been kissing with his girlfriend in front of the teacher all the time, and when the teacher's efforts are ineffective, I acquiesced.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    True... Now the kids really won. It's okay.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It can be seen that you are a very kind person, you also love your husband very much, and your mother-in-law and sister-in-law are obviously the kind of self-righteous people, this kind of person is unreasonable. With your kind of character, I think it's better to stay away from them, don't you have your own house. Live with yourself, out of sight, find something to do when you're fine, and don't give yourself time to think about these boring things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Relax, I think you are a very rational person, and when you feel bitter, you complain to your husband One day your sister-in-law will get married, and your mother-in-law will eventually live with her son, this person is like a child when he is old, you let your mother-in-law After all, you have to call her mom She has lived most of her life, and how much time does she have to spend with you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a bit similar to my situation, I suggest that you bear with it a little, but my husband has to understand that this is for him, and stick to the principle of big things. I also need my husband's support. Avoid living together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Can you still take care of your children like this? It's better to bother yourself and find a nanny introduced by someone else to help you bring it! The friend above is right, out of sight and out of mind, you just need to do it, don't think too much, your husband is good to you, everything is worth it!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People have to compare hearts with each other.

    There must be some misunderstanding or some other problem that caused this situation.

    What we need to do is to address it, not to exacerbate or avoid it.

    As an adult, I don't think it's an unreasonable person.

    If you are a daughter-in-law, you can be diligent, or have a dessert in your mouth, and raise the old man higher, and it will be good slowly.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A slap doesn't make a sound But now people are all temperamental, no wonder you find a clue to solve Don't always complain, it's useless, get angry and get angry, you can't do it!

    Your daughter-in-law has done everything that should be done, and if you should be filial, be filial, don't worry about a few dollars, and then our family's own affairs, try to do it yourself, no need to find them, you can have fewer contradictions.

    Things have made you so wronged, you don't care about some money, find someone close or trustworthy to help you take care of the children.

    Small things can be avoided You can't avoid them Don't get angry But don't get angry at them in your heart It's only going to make you the last shield Your husband has lost a big deal Just find your husband to solve it It's all sensible people, right? You are all a family, my sister-in-law and my mother-in-law are all elders, you can bear it, you have no accident at home, something happened, or the family will help you out!!

    Isn't it, the lips are dead and the teeth are cold, how can there be a tongue that can't touch the teeth, hehe, smiled, and passed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Take a good baby and live a good life! Fortunately, you have a husband, I am unreliable!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    By the way, don't get too nervous;

    Have a preliminary understanding of each other, if you feel that the first impression is good;

    It's going to go on.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are scared, the other party may be the same as you. Ah.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Psychological problems should not be counted, because she does not have such problems in normal social interactions, but in the specific environment of the family, it should be regarded as a mild psychological disorder. In fact, your description is very clear, yes, the root is the influence of her single-parent family, such a family environment makes her have a kind of resentment towards men, he vents his complaints about her father on you, and at the same time she is very independent and does not want others to enter her space. She is severely insecure and hostile to men at the same time.

    If you want to get along with her well, you have to give her enough security, tolerate her like a loving father, and melt the ice in her childhood heart, only then can you truly be compatible. It is not impossible to hand over the salary card to her, it can be seen that she is not a big girl, with her in charge of the accounts, your life may accumulate more, and at the same time give her enough security, you are also relaxed, and the family atmosphere will be much better. There is also a sentence to remember, don't reason with her when you encounter problems, you are her husband, and you have to make up for the love owed by his father.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's a psychological problem, you should take him to see a psychiatrist, I'm also a single parent, but I don't have this situation!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This may have something to do with her growth conditions, don't put so much pressure on her at first, take your time, maybe because her mother brought her up, so she will think that she is dependent on her mother, and she is insecure about others, try to talk to her or talk to her mother to understand her growth background.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Fear, fear, want to escape, but this can't solve the problem, then face it bravely, your heart becomes strong, and difficulties are not a problem.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Escape, and then helpless persistence.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I wanted to give up, but sometimes I insisted on it for the sake of face.

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I don't think so. If this person has you in his heart, he will put himself in your shoes and treat you wholeheartedly. Entangled with your ex is all a sign of inner wavering and thinking that you are not that important.