I have a troublesome knot, and everyone helps me untie the knot

I'm in a similar situation with you, and it's been five years.

I can only slowly adjust myself, slowly find things to fill myself, and not think about it.

I think one day I won't be able to remember it at all.

In fact, he is your destined enemy.

Encountering such a person in a lifetime is really a mold that has been poured for eight lifetimes...

I'm almost 30 years old, and I don't know how things came about before, and I don't know how many things like you have along the way. Don't care what others think of you, the key is that you must have self-esteem, self-love and self-confidence, what others do and say and think is beyond your control, as long as you are firm in your beliefs, pity those who are sorry for you, because they are the ones who really should feel guilty, and what you do is a manifestation of reason. Stick with it, let it stay in the drifting bottle, and put it in the sea of memories.

It is highly recommended to see a psychiatrist, I think you will have a hard time with this! And you don't know what's best to do it. I wish you no sooner rather than ever to get rid of your difficulties.

Friend, you have a heart disease, you can see a counselor.

You have to always remember in your heart that he just wants you to be unhappy. And it's for him to be unhappy! So, how can such a person be worth dying so many cells for him?

Have fun with yourself and don't think so much! It's not worth it for him.

It's a matter of knots.

I've also had the experience of hating someone for a long time.

In fact, the key is not to forget through time, but to learn to summarize from those troublesome things.

Experience: The key is what you have to learn from the bad things.

When you really figure it out one day and correct your mistakes, you won't be afraid.

I don't know if you can understand what I mean.

1 All these are two people who have karma between each other, karma and karma, and they are not happy at all, no one really suffers, and no one will really take advantage. In other words, the other party did not really take advantage of this, and we did not really suffer a loss when we suffered such a grievance.

Because every person we see in this life is inspired by our own karma, even if someone passes by and glances at each other, it is also our own fate, we are all our unjust creditors, I want to be kind to him, not resentful, if he does not do it right, it must be I owe him, I have the opportunity to repay the debt, I should be very happy.

If I have enough self-cultivation, enough tolerance, and enough compassion, I might as well forgive the other party, repay grievances with virtue, think and do good deeds, and make contributions; If I can't accept this fact now, and I can't face the other person, let alone forgive in the moment, I might as well choose silence and avoidance. But don't talk about the other person's mistakes, and don't complain or have thoughts of resentment or revenge in your heart. In the future, get along with fate, do not slander or litigate, both ways are very good.

Then give up this friend, he doesn't deserve to be your friend.