In what aspects do you choose yes or no that determines whether a man dislikes you or looks up to

Nowadays girls have been pampered for a long time, and it mostly depends on the person to develop a habit. For example, staying at home, being taken care of by my mother, not cooking or cleaning the house, sleeping lazily every day and going down to eat, eating and playing. As a parent, even if you persuade and educate you, you won't care about it in your heart, but when you get married, you maintain the way that you have to serve you when you have nothing to say to a man, and all you get is disgust.

Since life is a matter of two people, you are all pushed to a man, and you are idle every day, and no matter how much you love you, you will become more and more unaccustomed to it over time. But if you choose not to, run the family with the man in a division of labor and cooperation method, and take on the responsibilities and obligations you deserve, what you get is to look up to you. Don't choose not to do housework, in case you don't have to do too much, naturally, you can't do it all by yourself, after all, two people are invested together, a family will have a greater sense of trust and belonging, which will help enhance the relationship.

It is the responsibility of a man to make money to support his family, and a woman can choose to be inside or outside the home, but she has to remind everyone that **there is an economy**, who has a big say. If you choose to rush at a man with your palms up and need money, you will gradually take it for granted, and then you will need to look at the other person's face, bear his complaints about you, and encounter his growing dislike.

Most of the reasons are two points, one is that men work outside under too much pressure, earn money hard, see you lying at home and feel unbalanced, and the other is to give you more and more unkempt at home all day long. It can be seen that choosing the woman you want can't escape the end of being disliked in the end, so you don't have to choose here or not, you should do a good job and don't have to be raised. Find a suitable job, even if the salary is low, you have to have your own income, not so much that you have been earning money, but that you have been accumulating self-confidence, and when you do this, men look at the substitution and dislike.

A man earns money to support his family, and you are responsible for earning money to make yourself as beautiful as a fairy, then he can't find a reason to dislike you.

There are many women who are extremely strong in marriage, and they must be listened to by men before they give up, and in this way, they establish their family status and win the high opinion of men. But I don't know that a woman who is overly strong in marriage is usually more likely to be disliked and disgusted by men. She has lost face without respect in you, she can't feel admiration and admiration, and she has been waiting for you to get along for a long time, and everyone's needle-to-needle competition with Mai Mang can't escape all the strong disgust.

In life, no one wants to be above anyone's head, so put your reputation at the bottom, soften your tone, and get along with men who are at least respectful.

Don't choose to be strong, exude a soft atmosphere, but you can get a man to look at it, just like a strong master of martial arts, usually ordinary, a shot is extraordinary. Don't be too strong, if you are strong and he is weak, the marriage cannot be stopped, once the man completely dislikes the strong person, he may also do something to betray you.

When faced with choices, when faced with family problems, when faced with money. If you can discuss these aspects well, it means that the other party still thinks highly of you.

Whether you want to do housework, whether you want a man to support you, or whether you want to be very strong, you can decide whether a man will dislike you in these aspects.

I think in a relationship, two people should be clear about their division of labor, run the family together, assume obligations and responsibilities, and must choose economic independence, ensure their own economic income, in the relationship The level of economic income determines the level of the right to speak, and don't let men support you, it will be very despised by men, don't don't do housework, and don't don't give men time and space.