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I don't know much about the law, but he is a minor, he will be protected by the law, and he is not killing someone, he should not be locked up in a juvenile detention center, and he will not bear criminal responsibility, he is not an enemy of the people, and the enemy will bear criminal responsibility.
I don't know if he has been found before, he should have been caught by others more than once, because he even dared to steal his classmates' things, which shows that he has not taken care of his own face, and he has done too many small bad things and made a big mistake.
If you want him to repent from the heart, it should be difficult, but as long as he is enlightened and repents, he will definitely repent and become a good person.
Leaving aside what we should do, I'm sure he did it for a reason
It may be that the family is too strict, he wants to use the money, but he has no money to spend, and others laugh at him, so he does this (for example, I used to not be allowed to see any electronic products at home, so I went to play secretly and go to the amusement hall);
It may also be because he feels that he has not achieved anything in the past ten years, it is too bad, and his future will not be good enough, people live to be satisfied, since they have no ability to make themselves satisfied above board, they have to sneak around;
It may be that your friends are poorer and you don't have any money to spend, and you can't help it when you see your friends taking advantage of them;
Of course, it is also possible that I did a small ring thing before, and I was lucky, and I gradually got used to it, and the more I did, the bigger it became.
As for what we should do, because there is nothing to do all day long, people who have nothing to do all day are most likely to go astray, so let him find something to do, let him get his own interest (of course, it is a legitimate interest, preferably not an interest that requires too much money), with interest, there will be a gradual pursuit, but also let him gradually gain self-confidence, don't be too strict with him. His pursuit is best combined with face, which means that if he does a good job, he will have face and gain respect. If you don't do it well, you won't have face.
In fact, more specifically, how to make him gain interest and self-confidence, I may not give a good way, because I have not been in contact with the person you mentioned, I should find someone who knows him better to help him find interest and self-confidence.
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First of all, it is necessary to find out whether the "minor" is between the ages of 16 and 18 or under the age of 16, and those under the age of 16 are not prosecuted for the crime of theft, and those who have reached the age of 16 are subject to criminal responsibility.
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Negotiate with his classmates' parents in private! Ask the police, the police are the best people, and they won't embarrass you! Take the initiative, it's not as bad as you think!
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Even if you don't go to jail. The future is definitely gone. It is recommended that he learn a job that does not require a license. Specialized.
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I haven't studied well since I was a child, and it is estimated that minors will only be educated, and if the money is handed over, it may have to pay a little more, and it should be fine.
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Educate him well Don't let him develop the habit of idleness.
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It's better to settle in court or something.
If he doesn't change his ways, he may be arrested and sent to a juvenile detention center, right?
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Children will inevitably make mistakes when they are young, and sometimes a person who is not clear about his brain may make mistakes in principle. When some children get along with other children, they find that other children have things that they don't have, or things they really want, and when their parents are not satisfied, they will be very envious, and even think about stealing other people's things. If parents find that their children have stolen from others, they must deal with it appropriately to help their children establish a correct concept of ownership.
If parents find that their children have stolen other people's things, they must return other people's things back as soon as possible, at this time, they must stay calm, do not scold the child or despise the child, and must tell the child that such behavior is not advisable, let the child accept the lesson, and let the child have the courage to bear the consequences. When the child is returning something, parents must accompany the child to stop the turtle and ask the child to apologize, or prepare a small gift for the other party, so that the child can correct his mistake when he knows it, and let the child know the importance of compensation. Parents should not make a fuss at this time, raise the child's take to the level of stealing or punish and threaten the child, otherwise the child will be very uncomfortable.
After the child returns the things, the parents must choose a place where there is no one, carefully explain the reason to the child, and tell the child why he cannot steal. Children have no moral concept when they are young, so parents must make it clear to their children that stealing is a very shameful behavior, and let children get rid of this bad habit.
When educating children, parents must remember to maintain their children's self-esteem and not always hit their children. If parents always treat their children as thieves, the child's self-esteem will also be very seriously hurt, so don't easily charge the child with a thief, but after this incident passes, parents should not mention it to others, and do not always laugh at the child, so that the child can not raise his head, and try to maintain the child's self-esteem, so that the child can correct this behavior as soon as possible.
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After discovering this behavior, parents need to criticize their children, and they also need to tell their children that things that do not belong to them should not be picked up.
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Parents must let their children think about it, because this phenomenon is particularly serious, parents can hit their children, so that the children will be impressed, and then they will slowly correct it.
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To bring the child to apologize, to have a correct awareness, must not tolerate the child's mistakes, to let the child correct their mistakes.
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If you find that your child is stealing something, you must pay attention to it, even if it is a piece of candy, you must correct it in time, and parents can take the following methods:
Establish the right sense of ownership: Parents need to repeatedly tell their children that this is not right, and if other children take something from their own child, parents should not let others take it because they feel that it is not valuable.
Let your child know the consequences of stealing: Tell them that stealing hurts someone else's feelings and can also break the connection between themselves and others. When they steal from their siblings or their parents, they lose the trust of their families.
When they steal from their friends, their friendship is in jeopardy.
Learn to empathize and understand their motivations instead of labeling: Whatever the child's motivation for stealing, parents need to learn to understand their child with empathy. Try to say this when you communicate, you like this thing very much, you always want it, Mom and Dad understand you, but this is not right.
Help your child review things and bear the consequences after the process: When parents review things with their children at home, they should establish a basic sense of morality and discipline, so that they understand that stealing things is wrong, and that they need to pay money and get their parents' consent if they want to get things.
In short, after discovering that a child is stealing, parents need to take timely measures to establish a correct concept of ownership, let the child know what the consequences of wrong behavior will be, and help the child realize that the act of stealing is wrong and needs to bear the corresponding consequences.
At the same time, parents should also learn to empathize, understand their children's motivations, and avoid labeling their children negatively.
You yourself said that you only brought it after almost 11 months, so do you know how important it is for a child to take the first sip of milk at birth? So why should you be able to figure out and know what to do, but fortunately, as long as you are not more than 5 years old, you can change it.
It belongs to a child's thoughts, because his own things have been played all over the house, the meals are more familiar, and he always feels that it is the best when he sees other people's things, and he has a mentality of exploring secrets. At this time, parents do not need to investigate, and after arriving home, they can tell their children about the shortcomings, clearly point out the bad phenomena, and let the children correct them in time.
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