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Hello, friend. It's really good to listen to your voice and share your sadness, this world is not big, through the online platform, communication is so smooth and convenient, and any aspect has no effect. The reason I'm here to complain is because I used to suffer from depression.
As a person who has come over, let me have some heartfelt words. It's nice and brave to be able to realize that you might be depressed, and to post it. I have been very fond of literature since I was a child, I am very sensitive to some flowers and trees, and I like to think alone.
What is the philosophy of life, the world is full of things, etc., the definition of good, evil, beauty and ugliness is very strict and clear. I always want to mold myself into a very idealistic, perfect person. As you said, I also like to watch Dream of Red Mansions, and I'm still a lover of red studies.
It's not me bragging, I can write Lin Daiyu's funeral rhetoric silently, and I can also sing the twelve songs of the Red Mansion. Because I thought of myself as Jia Baoyu, my later experience made me feel that I was really wrong. Why do you say that, the reality is very helpless and incomplete after all.
There are not so many wind and snow, and the poetry is formed. Especially when I read the Buddhist scriptures (Diamond Sutra), I learned a truth. People who are obsessed with being high are themselves very vulgar.
Tao Yuanming can write chrysanthemum poems, and there are people who help him farm, and I heard that he also went to the neighbor's house to ask for food. Later, after listening to Yi Zhongtianpin's Three Kingdoms, I realized that college students are a fart, and Han Han and Wei Hui came out to shout, what cheesy and high, all of them are rubbish. Cao Xueqin also said that the world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article.
When I left home and went to work in a distant place to earn a living, I finally knew who I was. It is better to travel 10,000 miles than to read 10,000 books, and it is better to travel 10,000 miles than to read countless people. To hell with that bullshit writer.
Especially like Lao She, Sanmao, Haizi, Gu Cheng, Hemingway, Nietzsche and other guys. They all died of depression. Simple is the best, and more knowledge is annoying.
Zhuangzi also said that the capable work and the wise are worried, and the ignorant have nothing to ask for. Hurriedly counted the words, the words did not reach the meaning, embarrassed. If you're interested, you can communicate with me.
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100% of people's troubles are given to themselves, in fact, I have also felt like you, maybe more serious than yours, I cry every day when I have nothing to do, and now I am fine. In fact, people who are more emotionally attached are prone to depression, because they think too much and have a lot of things on their minds, which makes their emotions very bad. Don't be like this, be kind to yourself, life is precious, why not live happily in a limited time?
Introduce you to my method, close your eyes, listen to what you like, think about the happiest thing, and then do what you like to do. Teacher Fan Wei's recent CCTV performance of "The Happiness of the Boss" is okay to watch, you will have a lot better!
I don't know if I can help you, I hope you will be happy soon!
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Life should be tasted all the ups and downs, so as not to be in vain.
I recommend you to run, ten kilometers a day.
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Hello, friend Although Plutonium can help you, Plutonium is willing to be your audience, because Plutonium is the same as you, and it will be much better to say plutonium happily! When you encounter setbacks or plutonium happiness, always believe that it is short-lived! Friends, bless you.
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I'm also depressed, and like you, I'm very concerned about myself right now. No one knows me, hehe. I think this is the second stage of the devastating effect of the disease.
The big truths that others say can't help us, it's good to have such a simple brain. I'm just enjoying this pain right now, and it's not bad, I don't care if people don't understand me.
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Hello. First of all, it is necessary to say that life is precious, "Even if you die, you can't change anything, but if you live, you can change something." This sentence is given to you, I hope you can actively adjust your mentality, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you should try to face and solve, and cherish life.
And depression is not just what people often call "heart disease", on the contrary, many depressive emotions are pathological, that is, due to the failure of the body's hormone glands, you can go to the relevant medical institutions for examination**. We sincerely hope that you will recover your physical and mental health soon.
But from another point of view, being able to imagine that some people and some situations may really be more painful than death does not support you to choose extreme solutions, but you can fully understand the suffering you are experiencing. Therefore, I would like to offer you another solution: if you are over 18 years old and have been able to determine your extreme intentions, and this intention determination cannot be solved by external objective substances, you can contact me by private message, and perhaps you can try to solve your problem through another unconventional way.
In addition, because each person has different reasons for extreme thoughts, there may be more people who need help at the same time, and the limited ability cannot take care of everyone, so I can only choose some of the cases that are very suitable for trying, please understand in advance.
Disclaimer: The solutions mentioned above are unconventional and experimental in nature, and we will inform you in advance, and the specific information will be explained to you in detail at that time. )
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I'm going to have a breakdown, I seem to be depressed, should I die? In fact, you have already given the answer yourself, in the face of such difficulties, you are so strong and you are an admirable child, your parents are irresponsible, they don't care about your studies, and they quarrel with your teacher, causing the students in the class to isolate you. These are the difficulties you will encounter, and as long as you get through them, you will definitely have a great future.
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Don't think about it, most of the people who attempt suicide are disabled and disfigured, you can go to a regular hospital or find a professional psychological counselor for consultation. Restrain your pessimism and misanthropy and other bad emotions every day, and adjust your mood to make yourself happy and sunny.
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