What kind of mentality is a child who is still smiling after being criticized?

A cheeky child looks generous, and once he makes a mistake, he can really make people half angry. Cheeky children, when they make mistakes, will not beg for mercy, nor will they stupidly contradict adults. They are like gummy candy that will return to their original shape no matter how much an adult pinches them.

Sometimes, even if the words of others are a little heavy, they continue to smile at each other as if they didn't hear them. If you notice that the other party is really angry, you will say a few witty words to make people angry. Education is a two-way street, and it is really difficult to manage in the face of such children.

If people don't get oil and salt, they will hold you back, and in the end, you won't be able to do it.

The son is in the stage of full-scale revolt, and he will refuse all the demands of his parents. He wants to feel that he is an independent individual, does not take your wishes into account, does not fear the rules you set for him, and only thinks about his own wishes. He thinks he can do whatever he does, and he even thinks he is omnipotent.

This kind of mentality is especially common in children around the age of two. At this stage, it is not the children who need to change, but the father and mother.

This situation is because the child feels guilty but does not know how to deal with this negative emotion.

Be caused by. Guilt is a feeling that is buried deep in people's emotions and is considered one of the most difficult feelings for people to face. Different people react differently to guilt, some people will use avoidance to cover up the discomfort caused by guilt (such as lying, hippie smiley), and others will use overcompensation to release their inner guilt, all in order to avoid facing up to their true feelings.

Therefore, for children, it is not that they do not know that they have made mistakes, on the contrary, they feel very embarrassed and guilty in their hearts.

If the child's attitude after making a mistake is cynical, it is actually the parents who have not helped the child to build a bridge to release the guilt. In order to be quick for a while, parents will sneer or criticize their children after they make mistakes, which will only make their children close their hearts and avoid facing the uncomfortable feelings in their hearts. Smart parents do this:

First of all, when your child contradicts you and disrespects you, he is actually expecting your reaction. The key at this time is to let him know that he should not talk to his parents like this, and that his father and mother don't like him like this. At the same time, tell him how to express his feelings accurately and correctly state the reason why he is angry.

For example, "Mom, I'm not going to do that." Of course, if you are unhappy, your child may not express it so calmly and will speak in a different way.

Tell him not to shout, "I hate you!" "It should be said:

You want me to do it, I don't like it! This kind of child has the ability to influence the emotions of others, and when adults are angry, they can use their own unique advantages to make adults lose their anger and turn defeat into victory. In fact, if you think about it, this kind of child is really powerful.

I know that as long as I amuse adults, I will be out of danger. Therefore, with the help of hippie smiley face and flamboyant tongue to defend against the emotional attack of adults, so that adults can't get angry if they want to.

After being criticized again, the child who is still hippie and smiling after being criticized is a kind of dead pig mentality who is not afraid of boiling water. The children must have thought it was nothing, they didn't care at all. If a child is still smiling after being criticized, there is a good chance that they will make that mistake again next time.

Most of these children don't care after being criticized, and you have to punish them and let them know that they will be held accountable for their mistakes.

They simply don't recognize their own mistakes and don't face up to what others say. They are not well educated by their parents. When encountering such a child, it must be corrected in time.