In your opinion, how do you understand love at first sight?

The long-term love is that these two people have been together for a long time, and no one liked anyone at the beginning, but after being together for a long time, they got to know each other better, and slowly had feelings, and slowly had a heart of love for each other. Over time, they came together. This is called long-term love.

And love at first sight is when the two of them have a good impression as soon as they meet, and they die and live in love, this kind of feeling is the death and life of love at the beginning, and the end of the time together, all the bad habits and bad problems have been shown for a long time, and they are not tolerant of each other, you dislike me, I dislike you, and in the end, it is a shot and two apart.

When people meet the other half of their hearts for a long time, they are instantly attracted, which can be described as love at first sight. Arms as someone has"Marrying a wife should be like Xue Baochai", when he meets this type of beauty, he will fall in love at first sight, and he will be moved by her initial appearance and temperament. It is said that love at first sight is that in ancient times, Liang Zhuhua and Butterfly depended on each other in life and death; Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan, who are willing to be winged birds in heaven and Lian Lizhi on earth; There is also a song "The Wind Seeks the Phoenix" of Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun; The modern Lu Xun and Xu Guangping.

The list goes on and on. Let's take a look at the long-term love, the long-term love refers to the faint relationship in the first acquaintance, with the continuous deepening of understanding, over time there is a feeling. The arms are like Zhou Weiguo and Xiao Ya in the TV series Snow Leopard, from the initial rejection, after slowly getting along, they appreciate each other.

Overall, I think it's better for the two to catch each other. A generation of writers Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang met each other at first sight, and the love story that they never got tired of for a long time is the best interpretation.

Over time, there must be a fate. What is this relationship, and the in-depth understanding between people, can only be fully understood through a certain amount of time and friendship. Sometimes, the initial understanding between people may not necessarily feel good, but after in-depth understanding, new feelings and evaluations may be obtained.

Intellectually, this method is actually more objective and stable, and it can avoid people's blindness and psychological dazzle and misjudgment of initial understanding. Many emotional relationships between men and women have missed many causes because of the lack of in-depth understanding and interaction opportunities, and because of the preconceived psychological habits of men and women on the surface. Love has its way, the law is amorphous, the purpose is the same, and the routines are diverse.

A mature person does not have to refuse love at first sight, nor deny long-term love, which are nothing more than two ways for people to get good feelings, and that's it.

The existence of these two feelings will be encountered in real life. Love at first sight is only the beginning of fate, and long-term love is the foundation of happiness. In fact, young men and women meet at first sight, just to find the right person for each other, and the emotional exchange will have a good start.

But love at first sight is not a lifelong decision at first sight, and the beauty of the relationship is due to the tolerance of both parties' personalities and the fit of future goals. Love is the continuation of love at first sight, any of us love can not be kept fresh forever, but also need to live a down-to-earth life, use life to accumulate the truth of love, and use common responsibility to extract the ups and downs of love. Over time, love at first sight has become the sweetest memory, and the family affection that has been in love for a long time has become a lifelong stay.

Love at first sight, the time is too short, there is no way to get to know a person well. Especially if you want to get married, it's even more unreliable. When two people get married and form a family, they need to understand each other, tolerate each other, and adapt to each other.

Love at first sight has too much instability. As the old saying goes, "if you want to hurry, you can't reach it", in today's society, flash marriage, this kind of fast-food marriage is a testimony of love at first sight. Marriage is not love.

Falling in love is a matter for two people. Marriage is indeed two families, and there are responsibilities.

I believe in love at first sight and love over time, which are just two common ways of love between men and women, there is no good or bad, only suitable or not. Making good use of both ways can make people reap beautiful feelings. Love at first sight must have a reason.

What is the cause of this? Different people have different reasons for induction, Zhong Qishen who attaches importance to appearance, Zhong Qishen who attaches importance to temperament, Zhong Qide who attaches importance to character, and so on. There are many factors that cause people to be emotional, because of their likes, they will feel feelings in their hearts.

What kind of tendency a person has, what will be attracted, this is human nature, is the basic way of feeling between men and women, sometimes it coincides with a good first impression.

Love at first sight is when she suddenly feels that a person is very suitable for her in the vast sea of people, and her speech, behavior, and appearance feel like her favorite type. At first glance, I felt like the person I had been looking forward to, pursuing, and cherishing for a long time. Jiang Guizhi, the protagonist of the Henan Opera Flower Gun, fell in love with Luo Yi at first sight, and then got married and had children.

It is said that Luo Yi went to Beijing to catch the exam and fell ill at the gate of Jiang Guizhi, Jiang Guizhi's father saw it and then helped Luo Yi into the house and took care of it, the little maid saw it and reported to Jiang Guizhi, and then Jiang Guizhi and the little maid went downstairs to see Luo Yi from the window, and fell in love at first sight, achieving a mandarin duck.

It was love at first sight with my husband, I was introduced by my husband and my husband, but we had a good impression of each other as soon as we met, and one morning my colleague came to tell me that he wanted to introduce me to a boyfriend, and he was very resistant and didn't want to see him, but as soon as the words came out, the colleague left angrily, and then I had no choice but to go. But the result didn't disappoint me.,The object of the blind date.,Not to mention the handsome.,Even dressing up is the type I like.,Now listening to my boyfriend.,He used to have the first feeling for me.,I think I'm a very clean and pure girl.。 In fact, when I was a girl, I longed for love at first sight.

I believe that love at first sight, every boy and girl will have her (him) in their hearts, I fantasize that he is personable and extraordinary. When the prince charming, who has fantasized countless times in his heart, appears in front of him, meets by chance, and the heartbeat feeling is very wonderful and romantic, which fits the artistic conception of "suddenly looking back, but the person is in the lamplight", what a wonderful feeling. What attracted him at first sight must be his handsome appearance, love at first sight can also last, with the foreshadowing of love at first sight, it is more natural for the heart to be closer to the heart.

If love at first sight is more than love at first sight, I think I believe in love at first sight more. I think in this day and age, it seems that people's love has mostly become a fast-food relationship. Now people are appearance associations, and it seems that a girl just needs him to be good-looking and beautiful, and seeing that his personality is very good and gentle, I want to get to know her, and then you get to know each other, and it doesn't take long for you to be together, eat together, chat together, go to class, and do some things that young couples often do.

Then you will soon find out the shortcomings of the other party, feel that the other party is not suitable for your personality, and then you will immediately break up and enter the next paragraph, which is called fast food love.

But now most people are like this, they will only look at each other's appearance first, if the other party is good-looking, then there will be an urge to continue to understand, but most people are the kind of mediocre appearance, not the type that is stunning at a glance, and this type of person is more disadvantaged in this fast-paced society. I said that I believe in love at first sight because if a person I think is sloppy at first sight, and I don't like someone at first sight, then even if he likes me, I won't pay attention to any kind of conversation with me, because I don't want to know her desires, which destroys all the possibilities that follow.

A person will not want to know a person he doesn't like at first sight, so there is a high probability that this fact will not be changed no matter what, but if you feel like him at a glance, and feel that he is very suitable for you is the person you are looking for, then you will have a desire to understand him, want to get close to him, and understand his inner impulse, then the probability of the two of you being together will be very high. But I don't deny that you have been in love for a long time, maybe because many people have been in love with your partner for a long time, he likes you for some reason, and then you have always known each other, and finally chose to be together. So there's no right answer to that question, I'm just expressing my opinion.

I think love at first sight is unreliable, just because of the attraction of appearance, love over time is the real like, able to accept the other person's shortcomings.

I think that long-term love is about a person's psychological and physical liking for a person, but love at first sight is only on the surface, and there is no real emotion.

Love at first sight is just a matter of lust, and it will be more reliable to fall in love over time. When two people are together, they rely on quality to attract each other.

The premise of love at first sight is that the boy is handsome and the girl is beautiful. The premise of long-term love is that boys and girls are rich and have been licking dogs.