My ex boyfriend is always obsessed with his ex girlfriend, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    First of all, you have to make it clear that since the other party is already an ex-boyfriend, it means that you have dissolved the relationship, and you have no right to interfere with other people's choices. Just because you've been in love doesn't mean you can control the rest of his life. After a breakup, what you don't want to hear is that your ex-boyfriend and ex-boyfriend have nothing to do with you.

    All you have to do now is:

    1. Adjust your mentality.

    Although it is already in the past tense.

    But maybe you have been thinking about your ex-boyfriend, you may want to use the breakup as a bargaining chip to make the other party pay more attention to you, but after you proposed to break up, the other party not only didn't care too much, but also ignored your feelings and thought about his girlfriend. This is enough to see that the other party doesn't pay attention to you at all. Now that your relationship has broken down to the state it is now.

    It is recommended that you adjust your mentality and get out of this nightmare relationship as soon as possible.

    2. Strive to make yourself good.

    During your relationship, your dedication to him did not move him, but moved yourself. In this humble relationship, you lose yourself. After the breakup, the other party not only did not recover, but also always missed his ex-girlfriend.

    A relationship breakup like this is not necessarily a bad thing for you, you can turn his hurt on you into motivation, make yourself shine, and one day you will meet someone who is more worthy of trust for life than your ex-boyfriend.

    3. Stay away from your ex-boyfriend.

    You've ended your relationship, and maybe now you're attached to him and reluctant to let go of this relationship. But since you have broken up, you have to be cruel to yourself, try not to have any contact with your ex-boyfriend, and don't take the initiative to understand the other person's living situation, so that you can get out of this relationship quickly.

    No one on earth can live without anyone, I hope you don't humble yourself to live in this reluctant relationship. Adjust your mentality as soon as possible and get out of this shadow as soon as possible, you deserve a better beloved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Preface: When a girl is dating her boyfriend, she finds that her boyfriend is always obsessed with his ex-girlfriend. And as a girl, if you see that your boyfriend is always obsessed with her ex-girlfriend, she should first ask about her boyfriend's feelings for his ex-girlfriend.

    If the guy proposes to break up directly with his girlfriend and is willing to go looking for an ex-girlfriend, the girl also has to learn to let go. After all, if you love someone who doesn't love a girl, it will only waste each other's time. As a boy, you must also know that after breaking up with your ex-girlfriend, you must keep a certain distance, please love deeply, and if you don't love, please leave far away.

    In love life, when many girls are faced with finding a boyfriend, they will first consider learning about their boyfriend's past history. And for girls, if they learn that their boyfriend is still in love with his ex-girlfriend, many girls find it difficult to bear. Because everyone in a relationship is selfish, they will hope that the other person can love themselves wholeheartedly.

    In life, most of the boys will not forget their ex-girlfriend after they are faced with breaking up with their ex-girlfriend. More often than not, they use the current to heal the damage of the previous relationship, and for boys, they should also realize that they must forget about their ex when they are in love, and then consider talking about the next love. Otherwise, this is also a harm to girls, if you think about each other, don't always think about your ex-girlfriend, after all, your ex-girlfriend is in the past.

    As a girl, if you always feel that your boyfriend's mind is still on her ex-girlfriend, the girl must choose to break up with the boy as soon as possible, so as to reduce the loss. As a girl, you must know that the reason why boys will never forget their ex-girlfriends must be that they love their ex-girlfriends more than their current girlfriends, so don't think of yourself as a substitute for others.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Your ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is you, and if he still misses you, it's up to you what you think. If you also have feelings for him, then get back together, there are many practical factors to consider when two people are together, not love each other and be happy together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In this case, you should completely disconnect from your ex-boyfriend, because such an ex-boyfriend is very irresponsible and has not let go of his past feelings at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Now that you've broken up, don't think about it anymore, if your ex-boyfriend wants to think about his ex-girlfriend, you should look forward and find your happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It has nothing to do with you, you're an ex-boyfriend anyway, just don't think about this person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The boyfriend always has a crush on his ex-girlfriend, and has a very big malice towards the current one, if this phenomenon occurs, there is no need to be together at all, and being together will only bring a lot of harm to everyone. And I think that if a man has not forgotten his ex-girlfriend, then why should he start a new relationship? This is not only disrespectful to the ex-girlfriend, but also disrespectful to the trust in oneself and can cause us to hurt both of us at the same time.

    There are some guys who are very uncomfortable after the breakup, but they don't know how to reconcile with their ex, so they find a new girlfriend, thinking about making themselves feel better by starting a relationship again. But at this time, there is no way to forget his ex-girlfriend, and there is no way to be with his current one. Therefore, if you find out that your boyfriend, if there is such a phenomenon, then we must choose to break up even if we can, only in this way can we avoid ourselves from being hurt, and we can avoid ourselves from falling deeper and deeper.

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, we must empty our hearts before accepting the arrival of the next relationship, if you are still immersed in the previous relationship, do not choose to hurt others. When we want to accept a new person, then we must understand that there must be no one in our hearts, and after falling in a new relationship, we can also put 100% of our thoughts on the current one. In this case, there is no need to think about trying to redeem each other, because it is completely irretrievable.

    If this kind of thing happened to him, he would definitely choose to break up. may have a certain cleanliness for feelings, and if a man does this, he is unfaithful to his feelings, and this will also become a place for the two of you to quarrel. I also hope that everyone can pay attention to the emergence of these problems, and don't let go of their bottom line because of a man.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can take the initiative to break up with the other party, which means that the other party doesn't like you at all, the other party likes the last girlfriend, and you are with the other party, just to help the other party come out, there is no need.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that breaking up as soon as possible, the boy who is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend shows that he has no love and is not single-minded, so break up quickly.

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