How do you manage the emotions of a taxi driver who encounters road rage?

We often meet angry drivers in taxis or on the road because of traffic jams, scraping and other problems. Once, I took a taxi to work during the rush hour, and the driver didn't take orders in the morning, so he wanted to end my short-distance orders as soon as possible, and then he could take bigger orders. Therefore, when the traffic light is jammed, the driver has been scolding, and I have been very anxious when I sit in the back of the car, but I remembered the traffic accident I browsed on the Internet**, so I immediately persuaded the driver:

Safety first. At this time, the driver slowly calmed down and said: Also, going out safely is one, and it is much more important than making money.

Therefore, the most important thing to deal with the driver's anger is not to reason with him, at that time, the most important thing is to tell him that the hitchhiking map is safe and convenient. If you are in a hurry like the driver, he will be even more panicked and want to get your money to the destination as soon as possible, but you still have to adjust your pace according to the rules and the specific situation. If you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and too much rush can even cause more serious consequences.

It's like when I do anything, I can't forget my original intention, if I am swayed by emotions and difficulties on the way to my goal, I will lose my sense of purpose and eventually become blind. Originally, I wanted to realize my dream, but I didn't expect to be defeated by my mentality, and my life would lose its meaning. Everything depends on our mindset.

Traffic jams in big cities are very common, at this time you can see if yesterday's goal is still unfinished, what do I plan to do today, or call my parents and friends to ask about the situation, or listen to a song by yourself, are a good way to resolve your anxious mood. If your mentality is good, the driver will naturally be infected. No matter when you do it, you can't forget your original intention, so that you can reach the end happily.

In order to protect our own rights and interests, we must first install a dash cam in the car. Because if there is no evidence of the new car recorder, there happens to be no surveillance camera on this road, then the traffic police can only make a judgment according to the scene of the accident, after all, there is no evidence!

Secondly, after an accident, if the other party behaves further, we also need to remain calm! Even if the other party is weaker than you, don't hurt them, and escalate the traffic accident to a criminal case. Because of the occasional viciousness, China's determination of responsibility will greatly consider the degree of injury suffered by both parties, and weaken the primary and secondary responsibility of the accident itself.

If the other party is really more seriously injured than you, it is difficult to say who will accompany whom in the end. Therefore, everyone must stay calm, collect evidence on the premise of maintaining their own safety, and seek help if necessary.

I think the first thing to do when encountering road rage is not to make yourself angry, because there are many traffic accidents that happen in vindictiveness.

Let's talk about my experience first, it was me and my colleague driving, and then when we got on the bridge, we just accelerated normally to the right lane, but then a car followed, and then drove side by side with us, I saw him, a 40-year-old uncle, and then he accelerated in front of us and stepped on the brakes, and drove away, then of course we can't be inferior, but it's just side by side, we scolded, and then we went separately, in fact, after thinking about it, I don't think it's necessary at all, Because it is this kind of misunderstanding that will lead to road rage, in fact, what should be done is not to escalate the conflict.

I was thinking that if we two cars were to separate from each other, it would definitely cause a car to rear-end each other, but not necessarily someone. But no matter who it is, I think the interests of both sides have been harmed, so if there is a road rage, what we have to do is to dissipate the anger. As long as I meditate in my heart, I am not angry when others are angry, and whoever is angry when he is sick will be happy, and he will endure it and it will pass.

In fact, in another way of thinking, it is possible that he is not road rage, but what is really going on? So it's good to look at it with a tolerant mentality, if you meet a big brother who is road rage, you must not fight him, because your skills are not necessarily as good as his, and the other is the degree to which he plays a scoundrel, you may not be able to stand it. So I think the most important thing in driving is to travel safely and get home safely.

The road is not roadrage, as long as you drive a lot, you will encounter it. Because you can become a road rage too, be tolerant.

At such a time, you can't add fuel to the fire, you can be patient, you really can't find the police!

When you encounter this kind of person, don't be tough, but talk to others in a soothing tone.

Of course, it is to let the other party do this, if the other party has any overreaction, it can be called to the police.

Of course, stay away from each other, can't afford to hide, safety first.

That is, hide if you can or call the police directly, and don't have an argument with him.

Just ignore him, you won't see him in the future anyway, and there's no point in arguing with him.

If you can dodge, you can dodge, and if you can, you can dodge, such a person is not easy to mess with.

If you think you can beat him, stop hitting him and call the police.

It's best not to have a direct conflict, and if there is, call the police.

There are a lot of people out there who have encountered some big and small problems when taking taxisOne of the problems that most of them have encountered is that taxis have detours, and everyone has a different approach to this situationThere is no fixed standard for specific matters that should be determined according to the circumstances at the time.

The first reaction to finding a driver taking a detour should be to kindly remind the driver。Because some drivers just bully you don't know the road or are in a hurry and won't keep an eye on the road conditions, they will take a detour to make a little more money. If you remind the driver, he will know that you already know that he is taking a detour, and the average driver will correct his mistake.

Of course, there are also some drivers who you remind him of, and still drive their own cars and ignore our wordsAt this time, we can make our position loud and angry with the driver, and if the driver continues to detour like this, he will directly ask to get off the car or call a complaint**, so that the driver will generally have some scruples, so as to reach our destination in the nearest direction.

I estimate that the vast majority of passengers will choose to remain silent when they see the driver taking a detour, because they will think that more is better than less outside, so with the mentality of forgetting to forgive the taxi driver's behavior, but this behavior just fuels the arrogance of the taxi driver's detour, and it will appear that the driver detour has become the norm.

It is true that it is good to treat others with a mindset of taking a step back and valuing the sky, and it also reflects the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but this practice damages not only our own rights and interests, but also the rights and interests of passengers, so I hope that the majority of passengers can actively protect their own rights and interests, and I also hope that individual taxi drivers will reduce this behavior of detouring and making the world a better place!

In fact, you can point it out in person, and you don't need to get used to it at all.

This kind of detour phenomenon can actually pay him first, and then complain**.

You can remind the driver that if he doesn't listen, you can complain directly.

You can tell the driver which way it is better to go or directly call ** to complain.

You don't have to ask for it directly, remember to ask for a small ticket when you get off the bus, and then call ** to complain.

Say it out, or take extreme measures to report him.

In this case, you can directly reason with the driver, and complain if it doesn't work.

Just tell him not to take a detour, and say that you know the distance.

When I encounter a taxi driver who takes a detour, I will ask him directly, why the detour?.

In fact, taxi drivers have a bad temper, driving all day has turned them into road rage, usually they drive faster than anyone else, they like to drill cracks more than anyone else, press the lama at every turn, don't worry too much.

1. Riding too fast is indeed prone to traffic accidents.

2. The taxi driver didn't scold wrong.

3. Pay attention to it when traveling in the future.

Pay attention to the traffic, the driver is also good for you, just angry.

Anyway, you're used to being scolded.

Be safe. The mouth grows on him, why pay attention to him?

In fact, drivers with road rage must learn to control their emotions.

Because of your mood swings, getting angry, hurting your own body. Even if you scold someone, the other party can't hear it, so why bother?

In our society, the pace of life is too fast, to be honest, if everyone can think about each other, there will not be so many traffic accidents.

Recommended for drivers with road rage:

1.I'd rather take a step than grab a second.

2.When encountering others who are unruly, they are reasonable, and if the other party is arrogant and unreasonable, we don't need to be true. He has his own cause and effect.

If you want to start everything, it's not a big deal.

According to reports, "road rage" is a psychological disorder caused by stress and frustration when driving in a traffic jam. "Road rage" is medically classified as "paroxysmal rage disorder." For drivers, after driving for a long time, drivers are often in a state of mental tension and emotional depression, and once they encounter a red light or have an argument with other vehicles, the suppressed emotions are very easy to explode.

People with "road rage" can suddenly burst into anger and begin to curse and act aggressively, often with unexpected intensity. Road rage is a by-product of the automobile society. The increase in the number of vehicles in China's cities has led to an increase in emotional conflicts caused by driving.

The impulsive personality exhibited by road rage people is accompanied by aggressive driving behavior, and when impulsive behavior is blocked or criticized, there is a tendency to sudden anger and violence, and there is no self-control. When driving, people's psychological fulfillment can be satisfied through the operation of machinery, but once this control is broken, such as encountering a red light or a traffic jam, it will cause another instinct, that is, aggression. In fact, in addition to traffic jams and people driving in queues, pressure at work and life, personal personality traits, etc. are all potential causes of road rage.

People with milder road rage can self-regulate**. Tension should be discharged and released through relaxation exercises. Be careful not to drive when you're feeling high, or drive again later.

The more emotional people are, the more attention should be paid to the psychological balance when driving. In fact, as long as we realize that any of our emotions are related to cognition. That would be tantamount to finding the emotional root of "road rage".

Seeing others merge in a mess. You understand that he is in a hurry to get to work, not a malicious provocation. Maybe you'll forgive him; If you see the car in front of you moving too slowly, you understand that he is a novice and not deliberately trying to get in the way, and maybe you will not feel angry.

Changing the attribution method is the most effective way to control the emotion of "road rage". 2.For your own driving behavior, you can also try to consider your own behavior from the perspective of others, will you still merge and honk at will?

The other cars on the road are your mirrors, and if you smile at the mirror, the mirror will smile at you. 3.If conditions permit, you should participate in safe driving psychological training and assessment.

4.If you have severe symptoms for two consecutive weeks, you should pay enough attention and go to the hospital in time**.

What should I do if I encounter someone with "road rage"?

Roadrage is a term of anger that can be caused by the stress and frustration of driving in a traffic jam, and the "road rage" occurs when people attack someone's car and sometimes innocent passengers.

Typical symptoms of "road rage":

Running a red light and being stopped was not happy to see the traffic police

Generally speaking, the conflict between the driver and the passenger or other vehicles is mostly due to small friction and small collisions, but due to the greater pressure of the taxi driver, the environment around the day is relatively noisy, and there are indeed individual drivers who unconsciously show irritability, love to swear, speak very impulsively and other emotions, especially when the taxi driver has something at home. The person in charge of the complaint handling center of the Nanjing Municipal Customer Management Office said. Master Chen, a self-employed driver in Nanjing, also told reporters such a thing:

Once he ran a red light and was stopped by the traffic police, but his emotions suddenly broke out, and he quarreled with the traffic police, "I always couldn't control my emotions in those days, everything looked unpleasant, and the slightest thing would make me lose my temper, and the business was not good, and I didn't care about it when I ran the red light, and sometimes I unconsciously smashed the steering wheel." Master Chen said.

Pedestrians jaywalking want to give some "color".

Ms. Du, a 30-year-old manager of the planning department of a company, has made it easier to travel after buying a car, but troubles have also followed. Recently, when driving, I am always in a bad mood, especially when pedestrians jaywalk, and I can't wait to give them some "color" to see. Yesterday, she came across a taxi overtaking and immediately scolded, startling her friends on the side.

I'm not usually like this, but now I'm more and more good at scolding, and I can't get along with ladies, what 'sick', 'nerves', etc. can blurt out, especially for non-motorized vehicles and pedestrians who suddenly burst out, they can make me angry all of a sudden, is it because my quality has become lower? Ms. Du asked such a question.

Driving and scolding, as soon as the road is blocked, it is urgent

Before the baby was born, Ms. Yan's husband hurriedly got the driver's license, "it will be much more convenient for the family to go out to play or the baby will go to school in the future", but what Ms. Yan didn't expect was that her husband, who was usually very good-tempered and unhurried, seemed to be a different person when he drove a car, "When he was driving, he not only scolded and scolded, but he was anxious when he encountered a road blockage, and his temper seemed to be getting bigger day by day. While Ms. Yan was worried, she now routinely advises her husband not to lose his temper while driving, and helps her husband reconcile his mentality.