How to solve the influence of cultural differences between the North and the South on marriage?

The cultural differences between Southerners and Northerners don't have as much impact on marriage as they might think. And this cultural difference will not have any impact on the nature of marriage, as long as two people truly love each other, these so-called cultural differences will not only not become an obstacle between two people, but can promote both parties to learn the advantages of each other's culture through each other's cultural differences. Achieve the purpose of teaching and learning.

My wife is a southerner, and I'm a northerner, and we're happy together. Although there are regional differences between us, we are able to respect each other's habits in most cases, whether it is in food culture, interpersonal communication or customs, we can understand each other and learn from each other.

In terms of diet, my wife's family advocates the habit of being light and supplemented by meat. And as a native of the Northeast, I like to eat meat in large chunks and drink in large gulps. In the beginning, whenever I cooked, I liked to cook a table of big fish and meat, and it was very greasy.

My wife always complained to me that I didn't have any appetite for the things I made, and that they were very unhealthy.

In order to respect my wife, every time I cook in the future, I mix the ingredients reasonably, put less oil and salt, and make a vegetarian dish every time. Our contradictions in eating are resolved.

In interpersonal interactions, the customs and habits of the wife's parents are also very different from ours. For example, they call their aunt grandma and their aunt grandpa, although it sounds particularly awkward, but every time I go to her house, I also follow the local customs and call her so. Because I think it closes the distance between me and them.

Therefore, I think that when two people from different regions are together, they should respect each other, and as a man, they should also properly accommodate the customs and culture of the woman, so as to love the house and the house.

At this time, two people must first understand the differences between the north and the south, and each other should take a step back to find the unique mode and way of getting along with each other.

This problem, generally speaking, varies from person to person, and specifically, the impact of the differences between the north and the south on marriage: the phenomenon is relatively large, but in essence, it is nothing.

The so-called phenomenal point of view refers to the grinding and withering of the surface, and refers to the key wheel of things that can be seen, touched, heard, and smelled. For example, diet, daily life, customs, dress, opera preferences, personal hygiene, volume decibels, and so on.

The so-called essence refers to the individual's personality, ideological quality, degree of responsibility, three-view orientation, emotional structure, and so on. Among them, the most critical essential factor is not wealth, not geography, not the right match, but the emotional structure. Is it a blind cave soil and grass structure or a brick and tile structure?

Is it an all-wood structure or a color steel structure? The intrinsic raw materials of the emotional foundation determine the length of the marital lifespan that lasts in the years.

Southerners must take a shower every day, regardless of winter or summer, but northerners may only take a bath once in two or three days in winter, not that northerners don't like to be clean, but because the heating in the north is too dry in winter, and if you take a bath every day in winter, you will be dry and unbearable! Although the times have changed, the rapid development of the Internet, there is basically not much difference between the north and the south, but there are many differences in language. However, it will not affect the exchanges between the entire North and the South.

Cabbage is bought in one winter, while southerners buy vegetables every time they buy the same day or a meal. Because it snows in the north in winter, there are basically fewer vegetables to sell, but not in the south, and there is no shortage of vegetables all year round. In the Spring and Autumn Period, it may have been like this, such as the Min language in Fujian, the Cantonese language in Guangdong, especially in the areas near Yunnan, Guangxi, and Guizhou, where there are many ethnic minorities, and it is impossible to tell how many languages there are.

Of course, the so-called "Hu" and "barbarian" are just the definitions of the ancient Central Plains civilization, and today, there is no need to delve into the connotation of such concepts. In fact, when I was at home in the north, I would occasionally eat rice, and after coming to the south, I often ate rice and occasionally noodles, and I will not be unaccustomed to it slowly, and I feel that my adaptability is still okay, (because I am not a picky eater...).Northerners meet to talk about the situation in the country, and southerners meet to talk about where to get rich. I will give just a few examples to see how different the cultures of people from the North and the South are.

The northern part of the <> has a long history and culture, a long cultural heritage, and ancient capitals are full of fascination. Now more and more northerners have received a good education, and the development of cities in the north is also changing with each passing day! Charging ahead, this is the courage and responsibility of the northerners.

In order for a country and a nation to unite and create a prosperous civilization, it is necessary for every member of the country to make joint efforts and for different cultures and races to work together in order to bear a brilliant national flower. Southerners take names, combined with the eight characters of birth, and the genealogy is sorted. Southerners pay attention to personal hygiene.

No matter how lazy you are, you won't delay it for too long) Many southerners pay attention to the 24 solar terms and festivals, and the wedding southerners pay attention to the number of people in the grand team banquet and the recipes.

Because the South attaches more importance to the custom of marriage. So it's more cumbersome than the north.

There are many ethnic minorities in the south. Ethnic minorities have more traditional customs and ethnic characteristics.

There is an unwritten rule of the northern wedding banquet: "At the auspicious time of noon, the newlyweds enter the table and the guests eat", and the northern brides are immediately divided into two types. The first one gets up earlier than the chicken, starts to put on makeup in the early morning, rolls his eyes and makes people draw eyeliner and eyelashes; The second is even worse, this girl doesn't sleep tonight, and she plays mahjong and cards with her sisters, just to use up the last second of being single.

What are the differences between the south and the north?