What if you have a good idea of a person?

I think you're glad you can say that, at least you know that your hopes are "good illusions." There are many more people who don't even know that they are dreaming, but are just immersed in the dream, so you can realize that you are falling into the illusion of beauty, then it is even better.

Now that you're aware of it, you're going to have to list the reasons. What are the things that dislike this person with, or what are the deficiencies, and which of these things do you think he will change, and which ones you think he will not change, and which ones you are not sure about, and look at the proportion of these factors in the whole personality of him and the examples that exist in society. Also, find out what your illusion is.

For example, a gambler's girlfriend thinks that her boyfriend will definitely turn back. All I can say is, unfortunately, I'm afraid not, after all, I really don't see any gamblers who actually give up gambling, and see more people fall deeper and deeper.

As for why you have a good appearance, I think a big reason is because that person made all kinds of promises to you. We often say that the eyes can deceive, let alone just listen with the ears. I don't quite understand people who can believe sweet words, after all, for myself, I still pay the most attention to results, except for doing practical things, otherwise I don't believe all statements.

Having said all this, you still can't help but believe this illusion, and I suggest that you set a deadline, which can be three months, six months, or even a year, and set the longest period that you can accept. This gives both people a buffer period and gives themselves a reason to die, but remember that this is only once, and it cannot be extended indefinitely.

Hypothetical is hypothetical after all, so wake yourself up as soon as possible! Getting too drunk on assumptions will make you unable to live the truth!

If imaginary things make you happier and better, don't worry.

Then think more about your family. You can't live for yourself alone.

The following remarks are a summary of my experience in making friends:

Make a friend of dog meat to take advantage of it and treat it leniently.

Make ordinary friends and vote for virtue and treat them peacefully.

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy.

Finally, I will send you a sentence, "can be separated and can be combined, it is said to be a great virtue". "Make friends, life, and do things according to their intentions, and taste them carefully! ）

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy. Remember this sentence! I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make.

Baby, if you are interested in something early, and then divert your attention, you won't think about it. You can go out to play, change your mentality, change your environment, and see the outside world, you will feel that the world is so beautiful, but I am like this, not good!

And pinch, think about your relatives, their expectations of you are certainly no less than your own expectations of yourself, everything is possible in this world, you have to learn to look forward.

If there is a person who has been living in the past, he misses the good things of the past and the people who can't get out. That's very sad, it's good now, this kind of person should find a psychiatrist to enlighten her, so that she can face the reality.

I'm still too wary. Or don't want to open your heart to others. If you have anything on your mind, tell your friends.

There's nothing you can't say. Because a friend is someone who will support you no matter what. Unafraid.

I'm not afraid of this. Be happy. People should live happily every day.

After all. Every day, every day, in a lifetime. Only once.

I used to have this numbness too. In fact, the most important thing is the mentality, be happy in life. Don't overthink it. Life is still very good. In fact, it would be nice to think in a simple direction in everything.

Just cherish the people around you who should be cherished, because they still care about you.

It's okay to be normal.

There are many people who are kind.

Don't take it too seriously.

There's a saying I don't know if you understand.

When we have.

We always complain that we didn't write anything.

When we lose.

But we forget what we had.

Well, maybe disappointed with the reality of things.

So this mentality is generated.

In fact, it is very simple to regulate this mentality.

If you look for the sports that you like very much now, or maybe other hobbies, go crazy, and your self-confidence will come back so easily.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. Don't push yourself too hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent?

Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life. People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily.

Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you.

It's really about fate between people. Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?

To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down! No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, d is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, and I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality and live, work and study well.

I also believe that the god of luck will come knocking on your door at any time.

For some reason, I also had a shadow in my heart. But I think it's important to look at it like a normal person, even if it's to force yourself to imagine that you're normal! Look at it with a healthy attitude until it can't affect you anymore!

You can even choose to take revenge on it and tear it apart in any way you can, but only if you defeat it and don't let it affect you!

Think about what you thought before you experienced it, and see them as your current thoughts, that is, thoughts that are completely unaffected by it. You can even complain to others about the harm it has caused you, but remember not to just complain, but to learn to use violence in addition to righteous words, so that it can taste the price of hurting you!

Finally, when you've done that, you can go back and think about how much it affected you, what losses you had, and what you needed to make up. As for the harvest, it is better than others to understand the harmfulness of shadows, and everything else is false, because you don't want to remember it at all, so where does the harvest come from?

Finally, hopefully you'll come out of it!