Students report that the school teacher does not teach well, what should I do as a parent?

<> every student is judged by their teacher, and if they are not satisfied, the best thing to do is to change themselves in the environment to improve their learning and ability to cope with setbacks. Since you go to this school, you should calm down and study hard, if you don't like the environment and classmates and teachers here, you can't change schools or classes for the time being, so the first thing is to feel at ease here, meditate, adjust your mentality, and devote yourself to learning.

First of all, ask the child what the teacher is not good about, whether it is his own subjective feeling or the feeling of most classmates, whether it is related to the teacher's personality or the teacher's teaching level. Evaluating a person is not good, you can't just decide that two people's personalities are incompatible, the teacher-student relationship is a relationship between discipline and teaching, an antagonistic relationship, it is difficult for a teacher to make dozens of students like it, but it is not difficult for a student to like several teachers. Reasonable reflection, try to accept, and have a positive attitude.

I think we can solve the problem by talking to my classmates more.

1.There are high and low levels of teachers, but we can't look down on ourselves. Each teacher's teaching level and teaching style are different, you think his teaching level is low, not vivid, and the knowledge is not thorough, it doesn't matter, as long as the teacher does not make mistakes in the knowledge points, you can study more by yourself, ask for more advice, and understand what you don't understand.

Even if you don't like this teacher anymore, you have to listen to the class hard, and you can't let yourself go, otherwise you will end up hurting yourself. So you can't look down on yourself.

2.Learn to take the initiative to communicate and communicate, and slowly get used to this teacher. We can't passively accept the environment, we have to be proactive.

For example, if you don't like what you like, or if other students are in the same situation as you, you can humbly suggest to the teacher with a few classmates, just say, "Teacher, I think we will be more efficient when you give a lecture like this." For example, if the teacher is fast, you can ask him to slow down. The teacher didn't like the board book in the lecture, so he suggested that he write it on the blackboard in detail.

3.Through the selection of subjects, go to other classes to study. Even if you can't get used to or even hate this teacher, you can change classes.

Our new college entrance examination is taught separately. In this way, you can choose subjects and study in the class you like, which will change the environment. But it depends on your academic performance.

First of all, parents can communicate with their children. Specifically, I feel that the teacher is not very good. Then I will communicate with the teacher. And talk to other parents about this issue as well.

You should discuss it with the principal. Then the principal is asked to make targeted measures. Find out if it's the teacher or the student who is having the problem.

As a parent, you should discuss with the teacher why such a problem occurs, is it the teacher's wrong way of teaching, or the student does not understand?

After the teacher reports the student's learning situation at school to the parents, the parents should sincerely thank the parents and reply to the teacher in a friendly manner.

For example, it can be expressed like this: thank you very much for the professional advice of the teacher, we will pay attention to the growth of the child, communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, effectively adhere to the excellent places, correct the insufficient learning methods in a timely manner, and strive to cultivate the child into an optimistic and excellent talent.

Therefore, it is very important for parents to continuously improve themselves and master effective forms of communication with their children to cultivate children

1.Learn to empathize.

When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.

2.Talk about what the other person is interested in.

When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.

3.Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart.

Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.

4.Learn to listen to others.

Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.

5.Affirmatively before making a suggestion in the conversation.

When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.

First of all, I would like to thank the teacher for reporting the situation truthfully.

Then ask about the cause and effect of the matter, discuss with the teacher, and ask for advice on how to solve the problem

Seek truth from facts, combine the strengths and weaknesses of your own children, and ask teachers what needs to be improved and what needs to continue to do well.

The teacher's feedback on the student's recent situation is as follows:

1. Talk to parents about the performance of some children in school, and inform parents of the child's various performances in all aspects at home, his shortcomings, I hope that parents can communicate with you often, educate their children, correct their children's mistakes, make up for their children's shortcomings, and hope that children can grow up healthy and happy.

2. Parents should actively cooperate with the teacher to correct their child's mistakes and deficiencies, watch the child complete the learning tasks that are not completed at school at home, reflect her learning situation at home to the teacher in a timely manner, and accept the teacher's learning shortcomings in school.

3. When the teacher communicates with the parents, he will first praise the child's strengths, as this parent should accept, the most important thing is to accept the teacher's shortcomings in the child's learning situation.

4. Be sure to actively cooperate with the teacher to educate your child, not only the learning situation, but also the child's personality and habit formation.

Parent comments can be written like this:

1. Thank you very much to the principal and teachers, who are particularly responsible for the students, and can grasp the students' personalities and correct the students' shortcomings during the home visits, which reflects the teacher's conscientious spirit.

2. After this home visit, I have a deeper understanding of the children, and I am very satisfied with the home visits.

3. I hope that during the class, I can often go to the classroom to listen to the class situation, understand the situation of the students, and be able to communicate with the teacher at any time.

Teachers often wronged children at school, parents must understand the situation in a timely manner, and also do a good job of communicating with teachers, but also to do a good job of children's ideological work, so as not to hurt children.

As a parent, you should communicate with the teacher, and then tell the teacher what kind of character your child is, and the next time something like this happens, I hope the teacher can ask the reason clearly before blaming, and you must protect the child's self-esteem.

Parents should decisively go to the school to find the teacher, ask the teacher about the specific situation, and secondly, let the teacher give an explanation, or find the principal.

Provide evidence and talk to the teacher. Because having evidence can make the interview more convincing and ensure that the teacher can handle it fairly and impartially.

As a parent, you should protect your children's rights and interests, and comfort your children.

When it comes to educating children, every pair of parents is inexperienced, and they are trying to do their best in the process of groping. After all, children are relatively young, and parents need to worry about all aspects, so they must care more about their children. Sometimes parents have such a misunderstanding that children don't understand anything at a young age, so sometimes parents don't believe what their children say.

In fact, on the contrary, it is precisely because the child does not understand anything and is relatively simple, so the words that come out of the child's mouth are often true. If your child told you that his school was being targeted by a teacher, would you believe it? There are certainly a lot of parents who won't believe it.

They must think it's because the child is too naughty. The teacher said a few words that made him feel a little emotional. That's why he said that, teacher.

In fact, when the child really reflects the problem to you, you should not choose to believe or not believe. Instead, you should patiently listen to your child's talk and start the examination. In fact, it is not uncommon for children to be targeted by teachers at school.

Some teachers will. If your child reflects something like this, it may be true. At this time, all you have to do is believe what your child says and ask him to describe to you in detail how the teachers treat him, so that you can slowly analyze.

If you feel that you are likely to be targeted by teachers, you can visit a few more schools to see this. Don't underestimate this kind of thing. If a child is really targeted by teachers at school, it will have a great impact on him.

For example, children will gradually become inferior, dare not say anything, and dare not complain to the family after being bullied. Therefore, we must pay attention to the emotional changes of the child, and when the matter is serious, we must change the educational environment for the child, because what the child experienced when he was a child has a deep impact on them.

First of all, parents should communicate with students, knowing that students express their grievances, which are actually very vague, and should be monitored at the school, and then based on the monitoring of the investigation to determine whether the teacher has behaved against their children, and secondly, even if the teacher's behavior against the student is verified, they should also go to the relevant education bureau to report.

If you find that the teacher is particularly bad for your child at school, how can parents communicate with the teacher?

1. If it has been determined that the teacher has a bad attitude towards the child, you can call the relevant teacher first, or even make an appointment for an interview. 2. In the case of the teacher's cooperation, understand why the teacher's attitude is not good. If the teacher firmly denies it and has a bad attitude, it is recommended to report the situation to the school superior with valid evidence.

3. In addition to the teacher's side, the child's side also needs to pay attention to the child's heart, because the teacher's attitude may be a little sad or sad, and it is necessary to communicate with the child in time.

High emotional intelligence. In fact, the relationship between parents and teachers is very delicate, mainly because of the lack of understanding and communication, and the communication between parents and teachers is a very important knowledge and a compulsory course for parents.

I want the teacher to be good to the child, and there are some wordsNo, you can'tEasilysaid, for example:

Shirk responsibility: "Teacher, the child will be handed over to you", this sentence is very popular with many parents, but the teacher feels that such a trust makes people feel very disgusted, and this is a bit irresponsible. The teacher is responsible for managing forty or fifty people in a class, some children have good grades, some children are naughty, and some children are modest and sensible.

Obviously, this is the personality of each child, but personality cultivation is not something that a teacher can do, and it is obvious that personality cultivation is inseparable from family education.

Blind: "You treat the child like this, go to your principal tomorrow!" "Teaching is easy and difficult to educate, but what is the difficulty?

It is difficult to put pressure on parents and society, do not criticize and say that they are not responsible, criticism hurts self-esteem, parents oppose more homework assignments, and say that they are not responsible for the assignment of less homework, and do not build a group, parents can not keep abreast of their children's learning dynamics, build a group, and dislike mentioning students' grades There are dozens of children in a class, different children will have a lot of different problems, take care of everyone carefully, and the teacher's workload is very large!

If you want your children to be encouraged, parents with high emotional intelligence do this

Recently, the end of the child's learning is very big (very good), I heard the child say that you have encouraged him in the class recently, I hope you will encourage him more in the future, the effect is really good, than we said he is in charge".

Fear of discriminatory treatment of children, you can do this, the child comes back, ask the child, what is good about the teacher, write it down, see the homeroom teacher, you can tell the teacher, our child *** and I at home said you (put the child over the original words) is very good, the teacher heard this, are very happy in the heart, what is the most taboo for the teacher, like most people in the professional field, that is, their own professional field, was questioned, the layman pointed fingers at his professional field, if the child has something, do not be direct if you need the teacher's cooperation"Teacher, do you see what this child has (talk about it) problem, how to solve it, how can I cooperate as a parent to better solve the problem" So I will definitely try his best to solve the problem.

If we find that the teacher is not good to the child, we must think about how to communicate with the teacher in order to be good to the child, and how to communicate effectively with the teacher is very important. Every child's growth is inseparable from the help of teachers, and doing a good job of home-school cooperation and jointly undertaking children's education plans is an important driving force for children's growth. Every parent should learn and humbly ask the teacher about some children's education issues, which can also promote the relationship between teachers and students, so that children can have a strong sense of belonging in school.