Tell me what made you marry far away?

Updated on society 2024-08-09
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Nothing, the original family is not happy. The father liked to complain and scold people, in order to stay away from him. The consistent education of parents is to be self-reliant, not to rely on parents and other balabala.

    They don't feel sorry for marrying far away, they just think you're unfilial. There are n younger sisters in the family, and they don't have a deep relationship with each other. And my boyfriend is also a very good person, after marrying far away, I don't feel anything uncomfortable, but I will feel more comfortable and better than the original home.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I'm from Beijing and my husband is from Hong Kong. We met when we were studying abroad, and settled in Hong Kong after we got married. I can't talk about it, but it's probably because I love him very much and don't want to suffer from a long-distance relationship.

    I have made a very serious assumption that if two people are busy at work and quarrel because of various problems arising from different places, it should be unpleasant for both of them, so it is better to solve the problems directly when they encounter them face to face together. Another reason is that although many people have told me that Beijing has good development prospects and that as a Beijinger, I don't need to think about buying a car or a house, but I have been studying law in the UK for the past five years (and the common law system is also applicable in Hong Kong), so it is better to develop in Hong Kong than to return to China. My family has always been more open-minded and very supportive of my decision.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The reason I married away in the first place was because I wanted to leave home, away from that home, away from that person. Far from my nightmarish childhood, my father beat my mother for a long time, I don't know how many times, my mother didn't know how many times she cried, I don't know how many times she despaired, and I don't even know how many times I wanted to kill myself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because my original family influenced me, my father gave me to others to raise since I was a child, and others sent me back to my father's house, but my father was not good to me at all, and encouraged me not to go to school, not to spend his money, and not to expect me to raise him in the future, and to keep the two sisters in my mouth for fear of melting, so I have no regrets at all when I am married for 5 years, and everything is enough for my husband to be good to me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Before marrying far away, I promise to often go home to see, and when I get married, I may fulfill my promise in the first year or two, and I will stay until I have children, and even if I have the heart to go back to my parents' house to see, I am powerless, although the transportation is developed, but the woman will calculate the cost of transportation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A long time ago, my mother told me not to look for people from other places, and when I grew up, my mother asked me not to look for people from other places. But in the end, I still found a foreign person in a hurry, and I didn't listen to my mother. I insisted on my relationship with my current husband, my husband is a very responsible person, and I also believe in my vision.

    Later, I got pregnant, that is, I was pregnant out of wedlock, and I brought him home during the Chinese New Year, and my mother was so angry that she wouldn't let us in.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The vision of transnational marriage is based on the consideration of reality, such as a green card. Even if you stay in the U.S. to work after graduating from school, a green card is still something that many people struggle for years but still crave but can't get, let alone those who stay in the U.S. in the hope of becoming legal immigrants one day in the name of visiting or traveling.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's love, the love you choose, and the marriage you choose will make you feel happy no matter how far you marry.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is often time to think quietly about things alone, to think about the present, to think about the future, and also to think about the past, and to think a lot, a lot. Because you marry far away, you will have a lot less troubles, a lot less troubles, a lot less worries, and a lot less pressure in your life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    From the beginning of getting along with him, he was very frank and told me everything about him: personality, habits, life experience, family, feelings, hobbies, etc., no matter how big or small, and told everything! I'm sure this is a trustworthy man!

    He gave me enough security! To put it bluntly, I still love him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's the child in my belly and the B-ultrasound single.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What does it matter if you marry far away, now that the transportation is developed, it should be very convenient no matter where you go, even if it is a transnational marriage, there is no problem. But many times parents will mind this, and for most young people, they feel that distance is not a big problem, whether it is by train, plane or other means of transportation, it will be there quickly. There are a lot of people who marry far away, and they don't marry very far, and sometimes they go to the next province, but their parents just don't agree, I think this is a very feudal idea, because liking a person is liking, if distance is an obstacle, then this is too much to say.

    It's not easy to meet someone you like, if two people can be together, it's the fate of two people, if you have to break up two people you like because of this kind of thing, I think it's a very unreasonable thing.

    Although it is said that you will be far away from your parents, you can take your parents over and live with you, so that you can take care of your parents and be with your lover, is it also a good thing? I think that many of them are only children nowadays, and everyone will consider the question of the distance of marriage. In fact, if you marry far away and marry closely, you will eventually live with your other half, so I don't think it's a problem to marry far away, if your parents are really reluctant to let you, you can call your parents over to live in a city with you, I don't think it's a problem.

    But the premise of marrying far away is that you have to find someone who is worthy of you to go to the Yuan family, and it is worth you to go so far for him to marry him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If before I get married, I can be sure: I have the courage to marry far away! However, as a person who has married far away, I deeply understand the pain of marrying far away!

    When we were young, we only cared about love, and we never thought about the distance between the two families, nor did we think about the firewood, rice, oil and salt that we would face after marriage, let alone that we would need to take care of our parents when they were old. It wasn't until I got married that I understood: marrying far away is really an unspeakable pain.

    From the moment I got married, I had to face the difficulty of language communication, and the people on their side couldn't understand what I said, and I didn't understand what they were saying. Every time I don't dare to take the initiative to get close to their relatives, I am said to be high and ignorant! Every time I go back to my parents' house for the New Year, it is also an inexplicable sorrow, the road is too far, it is really not easy to go back to my mother's home, drag my family back and forth on the road, for families with cars, it is convenient to drive a car, for me who do not have a car, and it is the festival of the second and third days of the first year of the first year that it is difficult to find a car, it is really a kind of torture.

    If you don't marry far away, you can walk back on two legs if the road is too difficult. What's more, I married far away, left the homeland where I was born and raised, left my relatives and friends, left my social circle, and came to a foreign country where I was unfamiliar. There are no relatives or friends here, and the only one who has it is him.

    He can be at ease if he is good to you, but if he is not good to you, he really wants to cry without tears, and there is no one around you who can wipe away your tears.

    Therefore, before marriage, for the sake of love, a hundred are willing to marry far away. After getting married, I will swear ten thousand times in my heart that if there is a next time, I will not choose to marry far away! I think that if you can marry not far away, try not to marry far away.

    The biggest difference between marriage and love is that it is a matter between two families. Marrying away from home means that you have to leave your homeland, go to a strange place to live alone with a man, or even die in old age. When you decide to marry away from home, no matter how much your parents dissuade you, you still choose true love when you are carried away by love.

    The experience that parents have spent most of their lives summing up in time looks so pale in front of you.

    When you say goodbye to your hometown with a man, maybe you still think that true love is invincible. So you leave the place where you grew up, and you leave the friends and classmates you have made for many years, and even cut off all the interpersonal relationships that have been accumulated so hard. When you marry in a foreign country, the night in the distance is so terrible, and you don't have a friend to talk about, or even a job to support yourself.

    When you have children, all your life focuses on your children and husband, and at that moment you have no job and no economy. So, you put all your hopes on the man you love deeply. You simply think that as long as there is true love, Shenma is a floating cloud.

    But you ignore the fact that men always like the new and hate the old. When the sweet love of the full moon finally returns to the ordinary life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the man who loves you deeply will also be tired. The words and scheming of you in the past have changed from doing your own thing, and the gentleness and thoughtfulness that used to be to you have also turned into barbarism and rudeness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. No, so far away, there is no sense of security, this has nothing to do with trust, human nature can't afford to gamble, everyone has their own story, sad or happy or helpless, don't touch deeply, you never know what the people who pass by in their hearts, whether there is a sigh in the windows with the lights on.

    2, no, my mother is married far away, and I can only endure it by myself if I am wronged**Although I can complain to my mother's family, the general first stupidity is to report good news and not bad news.

    3. Pull it down, it's good if I can marry in the future It's impossible to marry far away.

    4. Don't think about it, I am a family treasure, I love my family, and it is impossible to marry far away.

    5, I am married far away, I married a Wuhan person, except for him who can eat spicy food and go out to eat hot pot and refuse to order mandarin duck pot, everything else is very good, I am very happy now.

    6. No, where is my dad, I can't leave my hometown, my friends, my family, and my dad.

    7. I even think about not getting married, why do I still think about marrying far away? That's impossible!

    8. No, I'm afraid of being bullied, so I can't slam the door and go back to my parents' house.

    9. If I want to get married, I will choose a city that I like, I will not marry into the man's family, and I will not ask the man to come to me, why do you want me to come over, I am not familiar with my life Most of them say no, because there are many people around me who come to marry far away, they all say so, don't marry far away, I don't know what you think.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I am married far away, but before I got married, I discussed with my husband to return to my hometown to live, and he agreed that now we are 6 years old, and my husband is in the city except for business trips.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I won't. First of all, it is inconvenient to marry too far away from your parents. Although the transportation is developed now, it is not easy to go back to my parents' home.

    First of all, we have to consider the cost, it costs hundreds or thousands of dollars to go back to my mother's house, and I can't afford it if I have too many times. Secondly, the journey is long, most of the time is spent on the road, and it will not be long before you go back. I really feel tired.

    How good it is to take care of anything at home. If you have nothing to do, you can often go to your mother's house to eat, and you feel happy when you think about it. Why don't you think about marrying far away?

    Secondly, if you marry far away and are not familiar with the place, you don't even have a friend. I can only rely on my husband, and after a long time, I will feel bored, and my husband will also find you annoying. Husbands and wives must be equal in order to go far, and they will always rely on one party, and both of them will feel tired.

    So I still want to marry closer. In this way, I will have a happier life with familiar relatives and friends in the familiar crater.

    Third, it is said that marrying far away is a big gamble, but I am afraid of losing. I don't believe in eternal love. If one day we no longer love each other, or even come to the end of a breakup, then I will completely lose this distant marriage and have nothing. So I won't choose to marry far away.

    To sum up, I would not choose to marry far away.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether I choose to rent a front and marry far away mainly depends on the other party's city hail and the relationship between the two people. It is true that marrying far away brings a lot of inconvenience to the family, but it is still worth it if it is for the sake of love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, when you are young, you will be desperate for love because of stupidity, but the real love knot is promoted to Zheng and married, that is, it is trivial, and there is no so-called love after a long time, and when you are helpless, you can only laugh and be able to leave your hometown, have no relatives and no friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on whether the person who marries far away is worth marrying far away, and whether their mother's family is worth marrying far away.

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