What is the concept of a person who has not had social contact for 4 years? How do you slowly integr

First of all, you have to know that there is no big deal in this world, even if it is ****, there are always people to choose, secondly, what you said about 4 years of no social contact, I think there is no other way, you can only bravely face this society that is very gloomy in your psychology, because you are a member of our society, we can't do without you, the same reason, you can't break away from us, because we are all sons and daughters of the People's Republic of China, It is necessary and necessary for you to understand our great and powerful motherland. Again, you haven't had contact with society for 4 years, there must be a reason for you, the important thing is that you remember that there is no right or wrong in society, in fact, the root of right and wrong is thought, we can only say that our thinking is different, which is why some people say that this world is really colorful. The wheel of the car turns forward, people also have to look forward, the past is gone, those are no longer the most important to you, what matters is your present, and your future that sprints to the light of hope.

Finally, I know that in the process of integrating into this big collective, you will definitely have confusion and troubles of one kind and another, but in fact, if you think about it, you will know that it is these confusions and troubles that help you grow. That's why it's said that confusion and annoyance are the best teachers of man! That's all I can do, and finally I wish you happiness forever, every day!

I don't know what the concept is, I just can't believe it. It's actually very simple: do you have any hobbies now, or what you are more interested in doing?

Then search online, participate in some meaningful activities, and join a group. If you are not interested in anything, then you must have a job, and you can register for classes and study without working, so that you can also meet many people, communicate and communicate, and slowly adapt to this society.

Find a job unit with more contacts, such as an insurance company, which can quickly make you more social, and get a good income through the network, and many incentives will also make you grow.

I'm a little mildly depressed. Never mind.

First, you need to be bold. As long as you don't be afraid, you don't have any diseases.

Second, you have to get out of the house every day.

Third, dare to admit your weaknesses and watch more entertainment activities and entertainment news.

In the end, you undoubtedly succeeded!

Be open-minded, be kind to others, learn more from others' strengths, and be sincere to others!

Being in a closed environment for a long time and not being in contact with the outside world, people will naturally be withdrawn, and your psychology and performance are normal reactions. It's okay to go out and walk around more, and take your time to participate in more social activities, even if you feel unnatural and uncomfortable in social activities, it doesn't matter. Give familiar people, try to contact, make your life more fulfilling, and naturally people will be much more cheerful!

There will be a lot of discomfort at the beginning, but after a long time, it will be fine! Hope it helps.

Make more friends. Another thing is to find a job and get along with colleagues more. Otherwise, the more you close yourself, the more helpless you will be, and you may commit suicide at that time.

In fact, look at your words are very clear, than now those people outside the logic of the speech is clearer, although I don't know what happened to you to make you stay at home for three or four years, but such a long time to escape from the outside world must have happened very sad things, hug, you have the courage to come out is a good start, maybe you have not forgotten these common sense, but your heart is still avoiding to face the outside world, it is normal not to be prepared, don't panic, you can start by familiarizing yourself with the surrounding environment, Try to walk around the community first, then go to the restaurant at the entrance of the community to eat, visit the nearby large supermarket, go to a movie, go to the mall to buy clothes, go to the barber shop to make a new hairstyle, so slowly, gradually to contact the world, don't face the people you knew before, if you can, find a good friend to accompany you, and when you do all the things you should do every day, you will find that it is not so difficult to survive. Then you can find a simple job that can reach people, and everything will be fine.

Go for a job and you'll find that everything is cheerful!

Find a job you love and socialize with friends.

Go out and find a job, go to work, go out and talk more.

If you want to be good, don't stay at home, go to bed and get up on time every day, and go out for a walk when you get up. It is best to find a nearby scenic spot to take a walk, the scenic area is generally less crowded, and it will not be so noisy. It is of great help to both the mind and the body.

Ahem, there is another suggestion, find a place where no one is in the scenic area, yell a few times, and release the troubles in your heart!

Slurred speech, if you haven't spoken to someone for too long, find a book, read it aloud, don't read it silently, read it out, read it well, chew gum. If you really can't do it, just go to the hospital and have a look!

Then go to the lively places and take a look. Seeing how others are dressed can also solve the problem of dressing.

How to say it.........Find more classmates, friends, and relatives who have played better before, eat, chat, and don't stay at home, which is not good for the body and mind.

Happy to you!

Take it easy. Don't worry. Start by familiarizing yourself with your surroundings.

Watch more, listen more, learn more, talk less.

It doesn't matter if you have such a personality, take your time.

You need to let go....Because, you care so much...You play a game and connect in the game world first, and slowly when you don't care about it, you feel like everything is nothing.

I was like that when I was in school, and I still am, and I don't know how to communicate with people.

If you can't have a normal relationship with this person, how can you know what kind of person he is? So trying to live with him is a must. His personal cultivation can be seen from his small movements and her speech.

That is, two people will get to know each other when they get along more.

Humboldt said that a language is a worldview. Due to the different ways of thinking caused by language and the deep-rooted ideas brought about by cultural traditions, it is difficult for one person to enter the social system of another language and culture well and think in the way of others. For example, talking about "sex" in public is definitely taboo in China, but it is not the same in Western countries.

To integrate is to be accepted by the other party and to be able to get together.

Polydactyly refers to the integration and acceptance of the spiritual hierarchy.

Since I can't fit into other people's circles. Don't get too hung up, either. Organize your time and keep yourself busy.

Students are still academically oriented. The rest goes with the flow. Participating in class group activities is also an opportunity to prove yourself to your teachers and classmates.

People who are rotten and pedantic, unwilling to face reality, evade responsibility, and live a negative life, but heaven and hell are actually very close.

The one who is forced by life.

He may feel lonely. Because his spiritual world revolves around him, but maybe he doesn't care about that, and that's fine, and I think it's good to live like this. It is indispensable to integrate into society, even if it is to open a ** store to support yourself, you have already stepped into society.

But personally, I would like to have such a life, free and easy.

Sometimes I feel free and free (because I don't care), and sometimes I am depressed and depressed (in fact, sometimes I envy the communication of others, and this feeling may be stronger and some lighter). Living in your own world, after a long time, you will lose the courage to contact with the outside world, resulting in severe autism; Thinking that you will never grow up is actually to avoid growth and the responsibilities that come with growth, which comes at a price, such as not learning and not being skilled.

If you are eliminated by society, you will suffer like Tang Seng, you must try to integrate into the society and adapt to the society, the society will not adapt to you, don't escape, don't live in your own world.

It will be seen as very different by others.,And it will be very difficult to integrate into society in the future.。。 Or no way at all.

It's not bad to be drunk in a small corner, and it seems that an author in Xi'an wrote a book about your thoughts, which is more than nine years old. That's probably how the LOHAS people are.

It's not bullshit, you're using the Internet now to get in touch with society, don't wishfully say anything that can be slapped and dragged down by society.

Be strive.

If you don't follow the rules of the game, you'll be ostracized, adapted, or perished!

From what you described, people have a familiar process from familiar environment to unfamiliar environment. In this process, adjust your mood and integrate into the collective circle as soon as possible, go to the ** with your classmates, learn more to consolidate, and solve those who don't understand it immediately, and when other problems are piled up, then you feel that it doesn't matter if you learn or not. There will be no estrangement between classmates, just because you are afraid that your own personality will isolate you and communicate more with your classmates.

If you can't adapt after half a semester, it's a problem with your personality. I recommend seeing a psychologist.

You don't have to deliberately integrate into the collective, just entering the first year of junior high school It's a normal phenomenon, it's best to have your own personality, don't need to change Let others make a collective centered on you It's a great benefit for you in the next three years, come on! The class teacher is older, indicating that he has rich teaching experience, and he knows your situation very well Don't be afraid if it looks difficult to get along This kind of teacher generally only establishes the majesty of the class teacher, and it may be very easy to get along with in private. Let's do it!!

Loneliness is not a problem. People who think deeply are always lonely, and the so-called lonely and unfathomable people are also lonely.

Loneliness does not affect reading or learning, but because there is no interference, learning is better.

Adjust your mood and integrate into the collective circle as soon as possible, go to ** with your classmates, review and consolidate more, and solve those who don't understand it immediately, and don't wait when the problems are piled up, then you feel that it doesn't matter if you learn or not. There will be no estrangement between classmates, just because you are afraid that your own personality will be isolated, you should communicate with your classmates more, and if you can't do it, you will hold cram schools.

Look handsome, haha or make yourself a little better, sometimes a person is very good, what is wrong with studying alone, if it is not good, ask the teacher to learn the tyrant, if it is to find someone to play, then do what he likes, talk about the same topic with others, and get along well with common hobbies.

Be brave enough to socialize, slowly get acquainted, don't think too much, and open your heart.

Exposure to a new environment requires a slow adaptation because the people around you in elementary school are very familiar with each other after years of contact, and it takes a transition period to change to a new environment. You also have to open your heart and make some friends, and when you have more friends, you will become cheerful, and friends will bring you laughter.

Buy a pack of toilet paper and put it in the corner of the table.