Will children be beaten and scolded? Why?

I think that even if you don't beat or scold your child, your child will be very promising. If you beat and scold your child, it will make your child resentful and psychologically unhealthy, so parents must choose the right way to educate their children when educating them. Many children have the idea that they want to leave home and not want to go to school after being beaten and scolded.

After this phenomenon appeared, the child's heart was very sad. And after being beaten and scolded by the family, such children still have a lot of bad behavior.

They also grow up to be very cold, and this bad influence will stay with them for the rest of their lives. I think that treating children in a scolding way will make them have a psychological shadow. And the more you beat and scold the child, the lower the child's IQ will be, and the child will lose the ability to perceive things.

They'll let it go, they'll feel like they can't do anything.

Children who grow up in beating and scolding will have a very weak understanding of their own life. I think parents should lead their children with love, because if they keep educating their children in the wrong way. Then for the child, this is an irreparable consequence.

In daily life, parents must pay more attention to their children's feelings and pay less attention to their own needs for their children. Some parents have very high expectations for their children, hoping that their children can win this and that award, but they never think about what their children want in the process of demanding their children.

When children can't fulfill their requirements, parents will beat and scold their children, I think the damage that such behavior will bring to children is irreparable, parents only to educate children correctly, will let children grow up in love. And such children can better see what they do, so they will not be indifferent to society and indifferent to human feelings when they grow up. If you have something, you can ask your child for advice, so that you can also get closer to each other.

The child's scolding will be useless. Because the more you beat and scold your child, the more your child's self-esteem will hurt, and you should encourage your child appropriately so that your child will become more and more productive.

I don't think it's important to give children enough encouragement, and to beat and scold them often will discourage their self-confidence.

I don't think so. In order to make children promising, they should be educated well, not beaten and scolded.

When I was a child, I often beat and scolded my child, and my child could not receive a positive education, and his psychological problems would gradually arise as he grew older. They will no longer communicate with their parents, or even resist them. Children will be psychologically resistant when they are young, and as they grow older, they will slowly surface and evolve into behavioral resistance.

After leaving society, there will be a lot of inferiority complex, and there is no self-motivation.

Children who were too obedient when they were young will grow up to be unproductive, which is not uncommon in today's society, and we can often see it around us. When I was a child, I was very obedient to my parents' orders, and those children who were obedient to their parents entered the society, not only did not achieve achievements, but even those naughty children who were naughty when they were young, and the fundamental reason was related to the education of parents.

Introduction: Hitting and scolding children will not make children promising, but will make them not know how to do what they want to do correctly, and there is no way to control their behavior, and scolding will only stimulate children's rebellious psychology.

Filial piety under the stick, this is an educational concept of many people, feel that children do not fight can not become talents, but feel that scolding children will only hurt the child's self-esteem, but also affect the child's physical and mental development, so it is recommended that parents do not always dress up their children, not to say that the child will have a chance, to know that those really excellent people, really become sensitive and frank people, they are definitely not in the fight to spend, but to arrange their own time to learn to manage their own scolding children, He actually lives in the shadow of his parents, and is controlled by parents, such a child has nothing to do at all, although the child may have a better academic performance when he goes to school, but when the child enters the society, no one spurs him behind, for example, beating and scolding him in the back, it will only make them plummet, such children have no way to integrate into the social collective life normally, so parents should not always blindly beat and scold their children.

Scolding children can solve the problem for a while, but the actual problem is just buried deeper underground, after encountering some things, he is likely to break out, which will affect the later development of the child, I hope that parents will not always scold their children, to learn to use language to communicate, learn to use reason, so that children understand something, scolding will also affect the relationship between you, and may make the child become very inferior, and the child may also have some violence, None of these things can exist after the child enters the society, otherwise no one will want to deal with your child.

Children do not necessarily have to scold to have a chance, because this macro may scold the child to have a rebellious psychology, and the Sen Xian book also affects the parent-child relationship, so that the baby's sexual style is defective.

No. Because the behavior of beating and scolding children is very incorrect, such an educational method can lead to children being very rebellious, which is not conducive to the growth and development of children's good answers.

No, because children who grow up being beaten and scolded are more inferior and introverted.

No. I think encouraging children makes them very productive, because such children are very confident and willing to create something.

It's not like this at all, the child who beats and scolds will be particularly unproductive, because if you beat and scold the child since childhood, it may make the child's personality change and balance the mu to be special Gu Chi stop shouting monsters, and then be unwilling to associate with the yard savage.

I think that beating and scolding children will not be productive, children will become very cowardly, children will be very timid, and children will not have any interest.

That's because the parents have gone through all kinds of trials, including material scarcity, heavy labor, etc., to be honest, those who can survive and survive are the strong, and many people who die in the middle of the journey have no chance to teach their younger generations. Therefore, the fact that the parents who survive does not mean how well educated they are, but only that they survive as survivors.

It is true that there are no psychological problems, but this number of shirts does not mean that there is no problem with rough beating and scolding education, and it is undeniable that each child's characteristics are different. There may indeed be children who are more solid, thick-skinned, and have bigger hearts. Often beaten and scolded, he is still alive, mentally healthy, and positive.

However, this is only a part of the children, and it is possible that they have not been negatively affected by the scolding. This does not mean that scolding education will not have a negative impact on all children, and it does not mean that scolding education is correct. And even if this part of the healthy child only sees that he has been beaten and scolded, we do not see that in addition to the beating and scolding education, he may have also received other ways of education from the upbringing members (such as gentle, encouraging).

For example, the care from grandparents and grandmothers, such as the influence and support from the external environment.

When such children grow up, they generally do not easily use beating and scolding education. Because his heart is positive, sunny, gentle and powerful. They can educate or dislike their children in more ways than by scolding them.

It can also be said that today's children are too hypocritical.

There is a traditional Chinese saying, "Filial piety comes from under the stick". Some people even say that children can't be talented if they don't fight. This is due to the parents, who accepted the traditions of the previous generation.

You just have to think about it, the mother-in-law's tattoo, its key dust is also simple and bright, and the limbs are a kind of mutilation of the child's body. He was here to educate. At that time, the shipping was already an adult.

But now, as a parent, the level of awareness has improved, and I know that hitting and scolding children is an act of domestic violence. is a violation of the law. But why do you do it?

In addition to the influence of traditional habits, it is more that parents cannot control their emotions. They often use other people's children as role models for educating their own children. However, they lack the means to educate their children.

The education of children is actually a system project. It is an outside-in system project. Parents will use their own standards to regulate their children's behavior, and children's active curiosity is their nature.

When the child disobeys the requirements of the parents, the parents will often be angry, angry, so the emotions will come up, so the world will stop the world from losing his mind, he wants to educate the child, but does not know how to start, so the simplest stick education. As a result of public education, some children are not satisfied. Children who are not convinced will anger their parents even more, which will lead to more serious scolding.

In today's society, parents are the guardians of their children. It is their duty and responsibility for them to educate their children. However, many parents have a high level of education, but they do not understand the psychology of their children in terms of educating their children.

What I want is not to let my child lose at the starting line, and take my expectations of my child as the goal of educating my child. Once a child has gone astray, there is a lack of effective child-specific education methods. In the mood of hating iron and not steel, a simple and crude method was adopted.

But it's often counterproductive. In fact, the hearts of parents and children are connected, and their aura is mutually infectious. When parents have emotions, children's emotions will also be stimulated.

This is called rebellion. The result is that the emotions of the parents are more intense.

Therefore, parents must participate in the study and control their emotions.

Why do children who get scolded a lot do this?

Evading responsibility, lying.

Children are not so comfortable controlling their emotions and limbs, sometimes they will accidentally break the dishes and chopsticks, will spill the rice soup, will make a mess at home, and it is inevitable to make mistakes.

When parents have to scold their children every time they do something wrong, they will choose to lie to cover up the truth of the mistake in order to protect themselves from being punished. Personality quirks.

Sticks, scolding, and negative education can be resistant to us as adults, and the same is true for children.

If parents scold too much, children will become timid and cowardly, they are afraid of making mistakes, and they are cautious about people and things.

Maybe many parents don't know how hurtful their children's words when they are emotionally out of control, "useless", "waste", "can't do this little thing well", "you see, other people's children" ......These words can make children think that they are worthless, become inferior and withdrawn, and even give up on themselves.

Very bad, in every sense of the word. Children who grow up like this always have some deficiencies in some way. Without the love of parents, they will not be psychologically satisfied, and if they are sent to the homes of relatives who are close to each other, who will give other people's children all their love and patience?

As a result, children can easily become introverted, withdrawn, and not expressive. The opposite will become short-tempered, brutal, rebellious, and disobedient. No matter how difficult it is, you must keep your children by your side and bring them up, otherwise, no matter how hard you work when you grow up, you won't be able to make up for the previous psychological vacancy.

If the foster family can be good to the children of Soonaiye from the bottom of their hearts and cultivate them seriously, it will be different. But the relationship between the child and the biological parents will never be so good.

Many parents like to expose their children's shortcomings in front of everyone, as if they are complaining to others, saying that it is not easy to educate such a child.

But who knows, he only cares about nitpicking and accusing his shortcomings, which invisibly makes the child feel that he is not good at anything, and no one appreciates him, such as not being good at studying, not good looking, not good at communication, not good at housework, so that his family suffers for the clan, and he also feels that his parents are dissatisfied with him, and he is gradually estranged from his parents.

The phenomenon that children often appear to be scolded by the group is likely to have a deformed performance on the child's personality, that is to say, if the adolescent child is often scolded, the personality will be abnormal. Therefore, it is not enough to write off the frequent beating and scolding of the child.

This makes the education of parents illegal, and the children have a rebellious mentality, have no feelings for their parents, and directly resist.

Just like at work, Shenye was scolded by the leader of the Xian Brigade every day for his brother's filial piety.

It can damage self-confidence and cause negative psychology and emotions, which can lead to self-doubt and worsening.

Scolding too much hurts his self-esteem and makes him feel like a useless person.