Why are some women willing to give away their children? If it s me, it s like I m going to die?

It has something to do with the measurement that everyone makes in their hearts!

1. Children are the most important, children are the root of life - no matter how hard and tired they are, they will not give their children away, and they will accompany them to grow up together!

2. Give your child a better place and don't let your child suffer with yourself - maybe because your child has a better place to go and better conditions, and your own ability is limited, I hope your child will live a better life! However, this may ignore the spiritual upbringing of the child and attach too much importance to the material conditions, so that the child may lack something in his life and leave some regrets.

3. Children are a burden - this is an extremely selfish understanding, thinking that children may affect their own lives, or that children are not a person's and are not a desirable choice.

Since you have brought your children to this world, please be kind to your children, every child is an angel who will bring endless changes to this world, with children there will be a future, and if you have children, you will have a world!

Please love our children!

Let the little angels be happy!

Most of them feel that their children will suffer if they follow them, and some may just feel that their children are a burden.

Why are some women willing to give away their children? If it were me, it would feel like I was going to die now. Who doesn't love their own children? The child born to the eldest girl will not be distressed.

Reluctant. Although it will be difficult to remarry with a child, sometimes even if you don't have children, you may not be able to find someone who is good to you, so why bother to abandon your own flesh and blood to cater to the unknown next one.

Marriage is unknown, but the trust and love that children give us is known. If a man really loves you and won't mind the children and the past, the person who gives up on you because you have a baby will also leave you in the future when there are difficulties. If you can't have a perfect marriage, you can live well by yourself with children!

Yes, whether to have children in a divorce is not a choice question at all for mothers. The child chooses the mother, the pregnancy is ten months, and the child grows up little by little in the mother's body.

Mother carefully watered it with love and patience little by little, and this little life slowly grew up. All the hardships in this cannot be measured by words and money, the child is a woman who gave everything in exchange, the child is not a thing or an object, how can you leave it behind?

Marriage has come to an end, the former safe haven is gone, as a mother, you must give your children the warmest support. Don't ask again whether I should have children after a divorce, I haven't thought about it at all. Because I'm sure I'm not going to give up on my children.

In marriage law, many countries pay attention to the protection of women's rights. In Germany, as long as a divorced woman is no longer married, the ex-husband has the responsibility and obligation to bear their living expenses until they remarry.

The Texas Family Code stipulates that the minimum amount of alimony per month after a divorce is $2,500, or 20% of the payer's average monthly income.

In France, divorce is based on the principle of "punitive" distribution of property, and if the woman has proof of illness, the man may maintain his wife for life. The cost of divorce in our country is too low, which may be one of the reasons for the high divorce rate.

It is most correct for a child to follow his mother, but the reality of society makes it difficult for her to remarry. Many times it is not that we choose to be strong, but that reality forces us to be strong.

Even so, if I get divorced one day, I will still be alone with my children, and even if I am no longer married, I will live a decent life with my children.

To marry a second-married woman, you must first see how the family in front of her was dissolved, and if she divorces and does not have children, this kind of woman can give up her children to prove that she has nothing to be nostalgic for, and you have to be ready for her to give up your children again.

I'm fed up with this person's cold violence, I get angry and ignore people at every turn, I'm lazy and don't have a big temper, my monthly salary is less than 4000, everything I do is wrong, I find fault with me everywhere in life, how to live with this kind of person.

Others dare not say it, but my ex-wife is a scumbag, selfish and irresponsible, only asking for her own ease and freedom, of course, she will be willing to leave her own children, and she doesn't want their brother and sister to be separated.

Divorced! The agreement that the two children belong to him, he can earn money, but he just doesn't have time, so I keep it, and he pays child support.

Who would be willing to leave their children, I was lucky, I met an ex-husband who disliked the child, took the initiative to give the child to me and ran away, if he didn't have a unit divorce, you wouldn't be able to find someone, almost 50 people learned young people eloped, hehe!

I used to be so persistent. I joked with my boss that you must not divorce me before my daughter graduates from college, otherwise I will definitely leave with my children and leave you alone. I always thought this way until my child was five years old, but now I have given up on this idea.

I divorced no matter what, I wanted children, and if I couldn't fight for custody, I would get sterilized, and as long as there was a glimmer of help and hope, I would work 100% hard. Anyway, I don't plan to remarry, let alone have another life.

Who is willing to do it, can a woman with low education and no job support her children, if the child is two or three years old and has no house and no one to help her, how to go to work and raise children.

Marriage and children are two different things, often people will be morally kidnapped, and when we really take that step after the divorce, I believe that children will become a problem for the new family. People are not so noble, but the degree of selfishness is different.

I divorced and left the house, the reason for leaving the house is that I chose my children, at the moment I am very tired with my children, but very happy, I will not give up my children, even if I don't want anything, nothing, as long as I have a lot of children.

Reluctantly, a woman gave birth to her child when she was pregnant in October, and the child is the meat that fell from her body, and she will not give up her child for any reason, so that the child's psychology will be affected.

It depends on the specific situation, a large percentage of me should be reluctant, after all, I was pregnant and born in October, but if the child doesn't like me and prefers his father, and can have a better life with his father, I will give up.

Divorce is impulsive. Children are the flesh of their own bodies. Never give up. Since you are born, you have to raise it to adulthood. The responsibility of motherhood cannot be broken.

Everyone has their own hardships, and maybe she has her unspeakable secrets. It seems that it will be better not to have children to find a partner in the future. Don't have children, just don't want from the marital relationship, you can still visit after divorce, etc.

It's no wonder, there's nothing big in the world.

Everyone thinks differently, and what she says is not what you think, discard, not at all. It may be that she thinks that the child will live better with her father, but her conditions, economy, and ability are limited.

Everyone, first of all, lives for themselves, not for others (children), her approach is very normal.

I know a mother who killed her own child. Not all parents love their children.

That's completely understandable.

Because if you are divorced and have a child.

Then it will be difficult for her to find a good home.

It's a selfish mother's practice.

She only has herself in her heart.

This kind of woman is no different from **, she hates the poor and loves the rich, has no love, and has no sense of responsibility. It's terrible, whoever meets such a person is unlucky, very sympathetic to you, but, the problem has to be solved by yourself, you think that you have been together for seven years, and you are not reluctant, in fact, for a person's life, the remaining days are still very long, you must plan your own life well, and calmly consider how to go in the future. What should be discarded, everything can be discarded, and everything can start again.

Good luck and meeting a true love in the future.

It's also your misfortune to meet such a woman, you have been together for seven years, you should understand her character and temper, your tolerance everywhere, she feels that it is a matter of course, which fuels her bad problems and stinky temper, this kind of woman must have a person who can control her, everything can be heard, if you feel that you can't live with her anymore, just divorce your son and let your parents help bring it, and the child is handed over to such a woman who doesn't care about the family and the child, you don't feel at ease, let alone work with peace of mind, although there is reluctance to leave, But you have to worry about her more than you go to work, worrying about the child is much more worry-free, and you are fated to meet a good woman to accompany you for a lifetime.

Twisted melons are not sweet. Also, in general, you will meet whatever kind of person you are.

Marriage is managed by both parties, if one party is no longer in business, it is difficult to maintain it by only relying on the other party's operation, they are persuaded and not persuaded to leave, but the idea is still to take it yourself, after all, it will take a long time.

Take care of your own kids!

Let's break up! This kind of woman is too selfish to raise!

It doesn't look like a person to live by!

If you want to divorce and are reluctant to have children, you can negotiate or sue for custody of your children. If the custody dispute fails to reach a successful negotiation, it can be resolved together when the court sues for divorce.

Favorable conditions for fighting for child custody:

2. Income status: prove that your economic income is good and there is a difference between you and the other party.

3. Working environment: see whose working environment is better, which is more conducive to children's education and growth.

4. Better living conditions: Submit evidence about the living situation, such as being close to the school, the community is mature, and it is most beneficial for the child's school and life, then it will be more likely to get the child's custody.

5. The nature of the work of both parties: If one party is setting up a stall to sell breakfast, and the other party is the contractor of the housing project, it is obvious whose work is more conducive to raising children.

6. Character cultivation: The character cultivation and ideological quality of one party are particularly important in fighting for the custody of children, because the character cultivation and ideological quality of the direct raising party will directly affect the healthy growth of the next generation.

7. Education level: Higher education is more conducive to children's education.

8. Other family members: such as the basic conditions of both parents. Especially for preschool children, it is usually one of the parents who take care of them, so the child's previous living environment, as well as the opinions and physical conditions of the parents who have been with the child for a long time, are often also an important aspect that affects the child's custody rights.

The marriage is no longer happy, and anyone wants to get divorced, the question is how to live with a child after the divorce.

If the subject doesn't want children, go out to find a job by himself, and start a new life, but the subject is reluctant to have children, then he has to find a way to manage the children and have time to earn money.

My suggestion is not to divorce first, but to separate, think about how to settle the child, for example, let the parents-in-law help to take it, and then send it to kindergarten, the subject wants to live the life he wants, he must go out to work to earn money, and he must go home to accompany the child after work, and he cannot alienate the relationship with the child.

In this way, first of all, you can see if you have the ability to raise children alone, second, you can also see if your husband can change by temporarily not paying attention to each other, and third, only when you go out to work, your thinking may change, and now you feel that your marriage is unhappy and sad, but it is not easy to raise children alone! Of course, there is also a third situation: there is a man who loves you and he too, does not mind everything about you, accepts you and your children unconditionally, and gives you a happy life.

Although I know that the right thing to do is to bravely give up the life I don't want and pursue the life I want, with the current reality of the subject, if you are not financially independent, you will not have the right to choose freely, so you can only take it step by step and work hard to move towards the life you want.

I'm telling you by the feelings of people who are going through it, not people who have come by, that this is an unanswered question, really!

Ask yourself the answer in your own mind, and don't let anyone give you the answer, because you will regret it in the end, no lie!

I used to ask the question to convince everyone: Is the child seriously hurt in a single-parent family or in a problematic family? I especially hope that others and I are the latter, in fact, are all wrong, did you find out about the question itself, and the result is that the child was hurt, isn't it?

Maybe you should think about how to minimize the damage? How to stop losses in time? That's the most important thing!

I'm sorry I can't give you an answer, but I can give you a feeling!

In fact, there are many couples who have died in name only, but they have to spend it for the sake of their children, in fact, this is not necessarily good for their children. Two people have no love, and they are tormenting each other together, divorce will undeniably have a great impact on the children, and long-term parental discord will also cause some negative effects on the children.

There is nothing in the world that cannot be solved, do you think that divorce will be liberated, have you ever thought about the pain of children, children will live in pain for the rest of their lives, and when they grow up, there will be a psychological shadow, some children's parents have become a lot worse after divorce, if you remarry after divorce, it is impossible to guarantee happiness, there are many people who divorced two or three times, this is the lesson, you are reluctant to have children to show that you are still a conscience, think about it, you must know that Chinese marriage, Ninety percent is improvised, can't you be made up if people can make do with it, don't think about it, communicate more with your lover, live a good life, I wish you happiness.