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Anonymous users2024-02-16Why do children disrespect their parents?
1. Parents' own problems.
Parents are a mirror of the child, what you do, the child will imitate how to do. If a family respects the elderly, loves the young, and is warm and harmonious, the children raised will also be sunny, upright and kind. On the other hand, if parents often quarrel and dictate to their elders, then children will follow and disrespect their elders and speak out of proportion.
2. Parents are too doting on their children.
Nowadays, families are mostly child-centered, and the family revolves around the child, and it is the little sun in the family since childhood.
There is no principle to respond to requests, regardless of whether the requirements are reasonable or not. After a long time, the child has developed a willful, selfish, and arrogant character.
3. Occasional behavior in the special stage of the child's growth period.
When a child grows up, there are several rebellious periods.
If the child in the rebellious stage will suddenly have a strange temper, irritable, or abnormal reaction, it does not mean that the child has a problem with his behavior, and parents should guide them correctly to help the child successfully pass the rebellious period.
4. Attract the attention of adults.
Some children live with their parents for a long time, it seems, than left-behind children.
To be much happier, but in fact, parents nowadays may be more busy with work, running on the road, even if they have time at home, they are busy with mobile phones, looking at computers, and there is not so much emotional companionship for their children, and children often feel insecure.
When they deliberately talk back to their parents, adults will be more focused on reversing their children's thoughts and talking back, and children get the attention of their parents in this process, so as long as they feel bored and have a low sense of security, they will use this way to get the care and attention of adults.
How can children be educated if they do not respect their parents?
1. Don't spoil your children.
Children are the meat in the hands of parents, and there is no parent who does not love their children. But loving children must pay attention to ways and means, and doting is absolutely not feasible. Most of the ** that can often be seen on the Internet about children beating their parents are the result of spoiling their children.
Such a child not only does not know how to be grateful and filial to his parents, but the most important thing is that when he enters the society, as long as he encounters setbacks, he is likely to make some impulsive behaviors.
2. Respect children and treat them equally.
Parents should recognize that each child is an individual, not an appendage. No matter how young a child is, they need to be respected by others who respect their individuality, ideas, and privacy.
Parents should not impose their will on their children. Communicating with children is like communicating with friends, so children will treat parents with the same attitude, communicate equally, reduce scolding, and help strengthen the parent-child relationship.
3. Teach by example and lead by example.
Parents should set an example for their children and have manners to follow in the world. While asking children to do it, they should do it first, so that children will imitate and learn.
Fourth, continue to learn and make progress together.
The times are developing rapidly, and children have a strong ability to accept new things, and parents must continue to learn to reduce the generation gap with their children.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15If the parents are doting on their children, then the children will not have respect for their parents; In addition, if the parents themselves do not have a sense of respect for others, then the children will also be affected and have no sense of respect for their parents.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Parents are too doting on their children. Nowadays, the family is mostly child-centered, and the family revolves around the child, and it is the little sun in the family since childhood, and it is responsive, regardless of whether the requirements are reasonable or not, and there is no principle. After a long time, the child has developed a willful, selfish, and arrogant character.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13I think it's because of the child's adolescent rebellion, and the children at this stage feel that they have grown up, feel that they know everything, and then their ideas are not very mature.
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