Ask for an ancient saying, which roughly means that man cannot act according to his own nature 30

A person who is too casual is a manifestation of insufficient self-control and self-discipline, and is destined to be unable to get things done. We often say, "What can a person do if he can't even control himself?" This is what the ancients told us very early on that we should not be too casual, and "follow" will destroy a person.

A person is too casual - that is the beginning of chaos. For some reason, I wake up in the middle of the night lately, and then I can't sleep, and I start scrolling on my phone - can you imagine that a bad day starts when I start scrolling on my phone?

I woke up at 3 o'clock in the morning today, as usual, I couldn't sleep on my mobile phone, and at 4:00 o'clock, the mobile phone suddenly sent a message, and it happened in Taiwan; Actually, I don't know what I'm brushing, whatever.

Three. Seven. Twenty-one, continue to swipe the phone until 4:30, or plan to squint for a while, because my alarm clock is at 5:30, there is still an hour to get up, I am afraid that the energy will not be able to keep up during the day, so I squint for a while.

When I woke up, it was already 7:30, and I began to get anxious, even panicked; It's too late for the daily morning reading greeting; Today's computer keyboard is insomnia, the computer seems to be virus, today's traditional culture sharing is too late to share, and the things prescribed every morning seem to be in vain: early reading, *** update.

It's messed up, today's rhythm is all messed up, I didn't expect that today is 2 hours late, and I disrupted all the itinerary of today's day, and even at noon, I was still panicked, it was really "a mouse broke a pot of soup". I've seen this happen before, but I've never really thought about why this happened. What causes it?

How can I avoid it later?

Now that I think about it, I was a casual cause of myself, and I did whatever I wanted. It has been said that "if you want to learn self-discipline, you must first know how to control and control your desires." Sometimes I find that I am like "a monkey carrying a bun of grain, picking up a watermelon and losing a sesame seed", which also leads to my inefficiency in doing things, and many times I can't even get it done—I can't concentrate on it.

In our life, once you develop a good rhythm of life or good habits, please don't easily disrupt her, even if you have too many desires, you must know how to control and master, sometimes, a kind of "delayed gratification" is more worth our wait.

All words and actions must be peaceful, nine out of ten mistakes, just for panic.

Stand quietly, speak calmly, don't be frivolous, make people laugh and scold.

Learn to be patient first, take a quick break to make you angry, irritable and coarse, and your life is not good.

can have a few sentences, see people talking nonsense, the bell is silent, and the bottle is full of no ringing.

There is no need to cover up your own mistakes, you can't cover them up, and you add another shortcoming.

Unintentional mistakes, say start, half wrong, which one does not.

You must admit your mistakes, don't panic, teach people to see through, who is willing to support.

If you want to be a good person, you must find friends, and if you are sour, how can you get sweet wine.

Talk to people, look at people's faces, don't have the same intentions, don't force them.

Breaking people in front of you will cause the most trouble, yes or no, just say it.

If you make things happen, who is not afraid of you, you must also beware, the king is right.

I hit people back, I beat myself a few times, I scolded people back, and I scolded myself.

If you are a living person, you will have physiology, and you will be virtuous, who will feed you.

The art industry in the world must be one thing, sometimes poor, save you from trouble.

Full of food and clothing, talking nonsense, and fainting all day long, not as good as cattle and horses.

Bear the head and tail of the car, the poor man makes a living, the day seeks to rise and meet, and the rest and fight.

It's not enough to force tricks, and you have to bear the things that come sideways.

Be merciful, be convenient, cruel and mean, and make people resentful.

Slave under his command, calmly recuperate, if he is talented, he will not serve you.

One does not accumulate wealth, the other does not hold grudges, sleeps peacefully, and it is convenient to walk.

If you want to know your kindness, look at your son-in-law, ask Zishun, and be filial to your grandmother first.

The temperament of others is the same as mine, and they are always considerate and lenient.

Humble and talented, hiding from the elders, outsiders laughing and scolding, and parents praise.

As a person since childhood, he has been a little worse, it is difficult to recover the water, and it is too late to regret it.

Those who are greedy for money will not stop until death, and they will receive unrighteousness, and they will pay for their losers.

I want to be cheap, I don't win people, it is a curse to lose others, and it is a blessing to lose myself.

A righteous man and a gentleman, the wicked man does not like it, and you hate him, and he is willing to spare you.

Today's use, the day before yesterday, the day before yesterday, today's exhaustion, the next day begging.

There is nothing to do, as long as you live in peace, you will complain and be impatient, and you will become sick.

They have had their own homes, people say they want to listen, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders wake up.

What you do during the day and come to save yourself at night is evil and shocking, and it is good and happy.

Angry and arrogant, happy and wild, anxious for a while, and ashamed later.

Life in the world, it is really difficult to keep oneself, blindly be careful, and protect it for a hundred years.

Reading the books of the sages, experiencing the words, learning by the mouth and ears, and eating in dreams.

Modern meaning: Man cannot act according to his own nature.

Famous sentence in the literary language: If you are happy, you will stay, and if you are disgusted, you will leave, and the husband is responsible.

Both self-conscious and self-serving, melancholy and sad!

Tianxingjian gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

Ban Gu, Book of Han, vol. 65, Dongfang Shuo Chuan 35.

Although, Ann can not be self-cultivation! "Poetry" cloud: 'The drum bell is in the palace, and the sound is heard outside.

The crane rent is infiltrated in Jiugao, and the sound is heard in the sky. 'If you can cultivate yourself, why don't you be honored! Taigong body practice benevolence and righteousness, seventy two are set up for civil and military affairs, and they have to be believed and said, sealed in Qi, seven hundred years old and endless.

This gentleman breeds day and night, and is agile and does not dare to slack off. Like a wagtail, flying and singing. Biography:

The sky does not drop out of the winter because of the evil cold of man, the earth does not drop out of the sinister of man, and the gentleman does not change his way for the villain's Hun and Hun Huns. ''The sky has a constant, the earth has a constant, and the gentleman has a constant; The gentleman is the norm, and the villain calculates his merits. 'Poetry' cloud:

Etiquette and righteousness, what kind of words of compassion? ’

Therefore, it is said: 'When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives.' The crown is in front of it, so it is hidden; The ears are filled , so the cong. 'Knowing what you don't see, being smart and not hearing something, exalting great virtues, forgiving small mistakes, and not asking for the righteousness of one person. In vain.

And straight, so that self-satisfaction; Superior and soft, so that self-seeking; Spend it and make it self-demanding. The saints are so enlightened that they want to be self-satisfied; Self-satisfied, sensitive and wide-ranging.

Another said, "The Great Dai Li Ji Zizhang Asks to Enter the Official Chapter": "When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no disciples." (To be examined).

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and there are no disciples when the people of Tsaitan are observed.

I only think of this sentence Zhen Qi Chun Yu Nai.

There are times in life that you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't force it.

The melons are ripe and falling, and the water is a matter of course.

There are times in life that you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't force it.

Those who know are not confused, those who are benevolent are not worried, and those who are brave are not afraid.

The son of a daughter, he can't sit down. - Historical Records

The dangerous state does not enter, and the chaotic state does not live. —The Analects

A gentleman is not suspicious. The melon field is not acceptable, and the plum is not crowned. - Gentleman's Walk

1.The Analects are: People do not know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen

People don't understand me and (blame me for hailing), and I don't resent it, isn't it also a person of moral cultivation?

2.Repay grievances with virtue and sell them.

3.I want to stand up and stand up, and I want to reach and grind with people.

1.—The AnalectsYes: People don't know and don't know how to pretend.

Not a gentleman

People don't understand me and blame me, and I don't resent it, isn't it also Liang Zhen or a person with cultivated morality?

2.Render good for evil.

3.I want to stand up and stand people, and I want to reach people.