Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes tells us how a mother destroys a family?

In "Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes", people deeply understand a truth that a mother's character will ruin a child's growth. When Wang Qinglai's mother married into Wanjiazhuang, she originally had the same personality as happiness. But after experiencing domestic violence, he didn't dare to resist easily.

Because for her, resisting will inevitably be beaten, and when Wang Qinglai was bullied, she did not choose to go out to protect her. It is precisely because of this weak character that the family is humble and timid. Seeing such a phenomenon, I can't help but feel a little sad in my heart, parents have no way to set a good example for their children.

Wang Qinglai's mother has a serious patriarchal mentality, and always hopes that her son can mix better than her daughter. In life, children should be on an equal footing, and there should be no such feudal thinking. When Wang Qingzhi was admitted to university, his brother worked hard to farm and took all the money to his younger brother's schooling.

The younger sister also gave all the money she earned to her second brother to go to school, but her daughter's parents never supported the child to go to school at home. Because only by letting the child marry can he get a bride price for his son. <>

The mother-in-law seems to be a very reasonable person, but she is very stingy in her heart. Because when Wang Qinglai and Xingfu entered the city, her mother-in-law secretly stuffed some money for Qinglai. Seeing such a phenomenon is actually very sad in my heart, after all, the daughter-in-law will never become a relative of the in-law's family.

The mother-in-law repeatedly told Wang Qinglai that she must not be able to let happiness have an outside heart. It can be seen that the mother-in-law did not put happiness in her eyes from beginning to end, but felt that her son had suffered a loss. <>

In general, the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women in rural areas should be dismantled in a timely manner, so that women should no longer continue to suffer. Both boys and girls have the same rights to go to the university of their choice. There should be more warmth between family members, rather than instilling some bad thoughts.

What girls need to understand is that no matter whether their family supports them or not, they must work hard to move forward.

What a mother does has a great impact on the child, and if the mother is cowardly, then the child will also be cowardly and unable to do things, thus ruining a person and finally a family.

As long as this mother is very cautious, selfish, and of low quality, no matter what she does to her children, she is unreasonable, and this will definitely ruin a family.

The mother is constantly involved in the marriage of the child, and constantly says that the daughter-in-law is not good in front of the son, which will lead to the intensification of the problem of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and at the same time, the son will become more and more dissatisfied with the wife.

He Xingfu's mother-in-law was similar to Xingfu's personality when she was young, but after encountering domestic violence, the whole person became cowardly and timid, which also affected the child's personality.

First of all, his mother is a very timid and fearful person, and he only cares about immediate interests, and then he is afraid of offending anyone in this village, so he also sacrifices his daughter.

Everyone expects to have a happy family, where both parties are working in the same direction, tolerating each other, and understanding each other.

The reality is that there will always be all kinds of things that affect the relationship between the husband and wife. Husband and wife on the issue of children's education, Mu oak is a major contradiction, in the education of children, each has its own point of view, recently the author encountered such a problem, the two people have different views on children's education, both sides have a very bad impact on the growth of children, one, the child's behavior is procrastinating, in the arrangement of his meal and study into a shouting behavior, is very unfavorable to the child's growth; Learning problems are one of the most important survival skills for children to face in the future society, and the consequences can be very serious if they are not dealt with at this time.

Husbands and wives are less and less likely to communicate with each other in their lives due to work, which is another major reason affecting family life, and both parties do not communicate with each other, which can only lead to unfortunate results.

Husband and wife are honest with each other is the best way to solve the problems of both parties, but there are really few couples who can really do this, so it is also true that there are few happy families, what do you think?