Why is my boyfriend s friend so anxious to break us up?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    My boyfriend's friend is impatient and wants you to break up, it's because he may have some misunderstanding about you and doesn't like you, so he will let your boyfriend break up with you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Your boyfriend's friend is desperate to break up, maybe it's because his friend likes you, or maybe your boyfriend has already found a home.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If your boyfriend behaves like this, it means that your boyfriend really wants to break up with you, or he has this kind of bad thoughts about you, so he wants to break up with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There is a saying that it is better to demolish a temple than a marriage, so your boyfriend's friend wants you to break up, either he just thinks that your boyfriend is not worthy of him, or you feel that you are not worthy of your boyfriend, in short, he has his ideas.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think there are two reasons, one is that he thinks it's not appropriate for the two of you to be together, and the other is that this guy likes you. I am impatient to tear you apart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Is your boyfriend's friend biased against you? He thinks you don't deserve his friend, so he wants you to separate from your boyfriend, for fear that you will delay your boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It must be because your boyfriend's friend, he likes you very much, so he is very desperate now, and wants you to break up, and then he will pursue you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My boyfriend's friend is impatient, and it's really weird to want you to break up. Maybe it's better to start with your boyfriend and see what's going on with this friend. Because normally, as a friend, you shouldn't meddle in your friend's affairs.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your boyfriend's friend is impatient to break up, maybe he thinks you're not suitable, or he is a little jealous of you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe he doesn't think you're a good fit. Or maybe he already has someone else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's selfish. It's also possible that his friends don't think highly of you, so they do it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of person who can't see the good of others must have an ulterior motive behind it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It could be that he has feelings for you, or that he finds out that your boyfriend has a problem and doesn't want you to get hurt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because your boyfriend's friend thinks it's not good for the two of you to be together, it will drag down your boyfriend, so she will be impatient and let you break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why is my boyfriend's friend impatient? If you want us to break up, it means that my boyfriend's friend is a person who can't see the good of others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why? My boyfriend's friend is impatient and wants us to break up, is my boyfriend's friend a man or a woman? Did he have another way of thinking?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everything has an effect, and there must be a cause.

    Have time to talk to your boyfriend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes love is much more fragile than we think, and people change as we walk, so please don't ruin the people who love you and lose the people who love you with your sharp mouth.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You。I'm sure you'll get a reply like this, and you should understand what to do next. The relationship between your boyfriend and you is superficially solid.

    And you love humbly. And it makes you look low. Maybe you want to simply tolerate each other and last for a long time.

    But what I want to tell you is that you are wrong.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When faced with a boyfriend who mentions breaking up without saying a word, I will be considerate of him at first, but if I continue later, I will break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I may be patient all the time, because the relationship between the two people is still relatively strong, and the other party is just talking angrily all the time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can teach him a lesson, separate for a while, let him wake up completely, and if he doesn't repent again, then say goodbye.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'll start by telling him that I don't like to hear him talk about breaking up so much, and if he still doesn't listen, I'll just break up with him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'll put up with it, because I think it's really not easy for two people to get to know each other, and it's very likely that they can enter the palace of marriage.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I usually break up with the other person because I don't think the other person cares about the relationship between the two of us at all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He may not be confident in himself, afraid that you will bring it up with him, so he took the initiative, we need to give him enough security, and then let him know that he likes him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My boyfriend used to love to say the word breakup, and then I told him, if we say it again, then we will really come to an end, I will never look back, since I said this he has restrained a lot.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I usually give him a real breakup. Let him realize his mistakes, or follow his wishes.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think the other party disrespects me too much, I may have a cold war with the other party, make the other party regret it, and let the other party take the initiative to reconcile with me.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First: Many people have this problem, including myself. There is always one between lovers who gives more and one who receives more.

    Loving someone is not necessarily a trivial matter, everything that should be done by yourself is to help him and rely on him. You say that there is not so much love and romance in life, so why do you still serve tea and pour water, can you pour it for a lifetime? Don't care too much about falling in love just because you're young, too spoiled.

    As usual, bland. In this way, you are not tired, and you can go further. Hold a handful of sand in your hand, hold it too tightly and nothing will be left.

    Second: I think you should at least ignore him now, separate from him, and try to spend more time with your friends. He usually makes mistakes without knowing it, which is what you are used to, and it is the result of your unopposed behavior.

    It can only be said that he is a person who cannot self-reflect, a person who does not take care of people. If he doesn't want to try to get you back, it means that he doesn't care about you anymore. It's been a long time coming!

    Third: Over time, if he tries to win back your heart. If you are left out in the cold for a while, of course, you can't keep having scandals with other men. Let's just say that I don't want to fall in love right now. Don't change your mind for three days, that's irresponsible to yourself.

    Fourth: A person who plays games, serves tea, pours water, and eats all the things you need to solve. If he can't change it, what else do you have to be nostalgic about.

    On average, a woman's status should be higher before marriage. That's all there is to you now. When you get married, you are still old, and you are busy with housework and children every day.

    How tired will you be?

    Think about it carefully, and look at the problem from the perspective of development. In fact, now many girls fall in love when they meet a man, you will be beautiful, young, and of course hot. What about five years from now? What about ten years from now? Find someone who is genuinely good to you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's okay to think about other things when you're most angry, like being happy, or breathing yourself, and not getting into the horns, and not being happy, and not being happy with both of you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Marriage just needs to find the right person, how can there be so much love and romance in life. Reality and facts are indeed so, divided, you will find better, estimate the next one, you and his character and the current one is the opposite, wait and see!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know how old you are, but your sobering up is 2 children who haven't grown up.

    Changing your boyfriend is actually what you should do. If you have time, ask him to accompany you for more shopping. This is also the case with my former girlfriend, but most of it is me who compromises, hahahaha. Although in the end we broke up, it was not because of feelings, but because of something else.

    Don't just worry about running in, call him, and let things go.

    If you think you can change him, or he can change, just take a look. If not, break up early. 2 people who only know how to play and don't know how to understand will not be happy even if they are together.

    Tell your boyfriend appropriately that you need to take care, you need to be gentle, and you need to be considerate.

    He's still a kid, and he doesn't know what to do. Tell, only tell him, he will know how to do it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Divide it.,He's still beating people.。。

    What kind of man is a man who beats a woman.

    Decisive points, fast points.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    For such a thing, I think it can be solved from two aspects, first of all, you have to consider whether you have a certain problem, don't put all the responsibility on the other party, since this matter can evolve like this, there will definitely be part of your responsibility in it, you should not be able to deny it, maybe you will feel that you have not done anything wrong in many places, it is the other party who does not understand, which led to the quarrel, but since you know that he does not understand, why not communicate with him well?

    You should know that you are two people, and two people will have two people to look at the problem, so there is no effective communication in a timely manner, and you can't understand each other, which leads to disagreements, so there will be quarrels, and it is easy to propose to break up, but at this time, he doesn't really want to break up with you, but he doesn't want to quarrel with you, is there any other good solution.

    You have to understand what your boyfriend wants to mention, what your boyfriend is pursuing, and when you know what men want and what men are pursuing, you can better prescribe the right medicine. Then how to chat with each other, how to communicate with each other, and then you can follow each other's ideas.

    Love is not a matter of one person, but of two people, so you have to respect him on the basis of expressing your thoughts, and tell him what you want directly, no one wants to guess the other person's mind. This is also a kind of growth, don't go and give others a problem, he can't guess. So if there's anything you want, you can express it directly to him, don't always let the other person guess.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If your boyfriend mentions breaking up at every turn, you have to figure out the reason to see if you are not good enough and always disappoint your boyfriend, or because your boyfriend has no confidence in you and is worried that one day you will break up and he will be passive, so you will talk about the breakup at every turn.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Break up, it's rare to see a boy break up at every turn, because if the boy really likes a girl and really doesn't love you anymore, first of all, you have to try to be financially independent, make him feel that you can leave his good life, create a sense of crisis for him, and he won't mention the breakup at every turn.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I feel like you can offer to break up!

    In order to break this waterless relationship, you have to learn to lose.

    We are often treated as friends by the people we like, but do you have the courage to express your heart to him (her), if you don't want to be friends with him (her) but want to be his (her) boyfriend, then you have to be prepared to lose this friend.

    It may be difficult, but it's worth trying for yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is the nature of a girl that your girlfriend mentions breaking up at every turn, and if your boyfriend mentions breaking up at every turn, that is, she really doesn't love you anymore, first of all, you have to try to be financially independent, make him feel that you can keep up with him if you leave him, and create a sense of crisis for him, so that he will not mention the breakup at every turn.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The man proposed to break up without moving, maybe he was not confident enough in this marriage, I suggest you still have a good chat to see if the two people are suitable, if it is really not suitable, you should break up, otherwise you will not be happy in the future.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Have a good talk with him and ask him why he keeps mentioning breakups, whether he really wants to break up or just said that he is used to it. Tell him that you can't always say that you want to break up, that it will come true if you talk too much, and if he doesn't really want to break up, communicate well if there is something in the future, don't say break up.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then break up, it's rare to see a boy break up at every turn, because if the boy really likes girls, he won't say that, so this kind of boy should not like girls, so it is recommended to break up.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You take the initiative to break up, no matter who the breakup is very hurtful, he mentions the breakup again and again shows that he really doesn't want to be with you, it's useless to tie up a person who is not here with you, the long pain is better than the short pain, and he also mentions the breakup once, waving the wrong talent and the right meeting.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A girl often mentions breaking up because she wants her boyfriend to coax her, and a boy mentioning breaking up may mean that the two people are not suitable, which needs to be considered clearly, don't be so impulsive every time there is a conflict, you must be calm and try your best to solve the problem.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then break up, don't get used to him, as a man, just say break up, put pressure on girls, don't have a bit of generosity, it's not a pity for such a boy to break up, girls should be kind to themselves.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hello, I personally feel this feeling.

    Love has been killed by you, in fact, you both love each other, and you know your shortcomings, why can't you change yourself for each other because of love?

    I don't believe in any bad character that can't be changed!

    Because I succeeded in changing for my wife!

    Don't you think your boyfriend loves you a lot?

    He doesn't fight back when you do it, do you really think he doesn't dare to beat you or can't beat you?

    He's afraid of hurting you, more than he hurts himself!

    If you really love your boyfriend, take the initiative to admit your mistakes, apologize, and tell him to break up resolutely if he loses his temper with him again! No reconciliation!

    If you don't love him that much, you don't need to go to him!

    In fact, there are not many good men like him, especially only children!

    I still hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  47. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Since you can't bear the violence against him, and you don't control your emotions well, then even if the two of you achieve positive results, it will eventually lead to divorce because of this reason, it is better to get together and disperse and leave a very decent impression on everyone.

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