My friends always complain to me about their partners, do you want to persuade me to break up?

I think you should not persuade you to break up, when the time comes, others will not share, but blame the responsibility on your head, and then it will really be impossible to argue, and other people's affairs should not be mixed up too blindly.

I don't think you should persuade your friend to break up, although your friend always complains to you, which means that he hasn't let go of his heart and still loves each other, otherwise he won't bother to complain.

I suggest that you don't dissuade you from breaking up, because feelings are not something that you can decide with a word or two.

Most girls will break up because they are persuaded to break up. Under normal circumstances, when you are wronged in love, you will talk to the closest person, and when a person vents his emotions, he will talk about the problem very subjectively and absolutely, as a girlfriend, he will naturally maintain you, if you listen to too many bad words, I naturally hope that you can be sober and break up in time to stop loss.

But you are in a relationship, your feelings about the relationship are all-round, and your girlfriend's opinion or opinion is just a judgment made by your girlfriend with your fragmented information, which is very unobjective. But because she is your best friend, you will trust this person more, so it is inevitable that the other person's opinion will affect your opinion on the relationship.

My best friend kindly proposed a solution, but you didn't, and the next time you encounter a problem and talk to your best friend, you are undoubtedly consuming the feelings that the other party has paid for you. I believe that if you come to complain about a boy who is in love, you don't break up after you finish, you persuade you to break up and don't take action, and the next time you are injured and come to you to complain, you can also feel that your emotions are being innocently consumed.

So I think the best way, at the moment of emotion, don't rush to complain to your girlfriends, first you can calm down, look at the problem more objectively, and after communicating and reconciling with your boyfriend, you can come to ** with your girlfriends. At the moment of the quarrel, complaining about your boyfriend with your girlfriend will deepen your sense of negation of the relationship. If your girlfriend is angry and upset for you, it is easy for you to make emotional choices impulsively.

In a relationship, even if there are other negative voices from the outside world, we need to have an objective and sober understanding of our current emotions and partners. Seeing the essence of the problem clearly, understanding your real needs and being willing to reflect on yourself, and objectively reviewing your feelings can help you be more assertive in dealing with your feelings. When I complained to my girlfriend, my girlfriend persuaded me to break up, and I must ask myself:

Is what your girlfriend says the truth? In addition, if you decide not to break up, it is best to express gratitude and apologies to your girlfriend, express your thoughts and plans, and let the other party feel that your feelings are respected.