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Superstition aside, there is indeed karma in this world, the reason for this statement is very simple, if you do something bad, then there will be a series of chain reactions, and in the end it will be returned to yourself, which is a very normal phenomenon, and you will get the same good results if you do good deeds, just like we sow a seed in the spring, and it will grow in the autumn, and if we sow a watermelon, then we will harvest the watermelon in the autumn. When we sow corn and harvest it in autumn, we will also harvest corn, which is the most basic principle of planting good causes and reaping good results, not superstition as others say, superstition is unfounded, and karma is grounded. Since you have regretted abandoning the current for your ex, it means that you have a clear idea in your heart that the current one is more suitable for you. One of the several major mistakes that a man must not make in his life, never want to get back together with his ex-girlfriend, which is both a loss of dignity and a disgrace.
What is past is in the past. Since you and your ex broke up, it was because of the contradictions between you, loving each other and killing each other, that you could not continue to walk, which led to the breakup. With the incumbent, you should completely let go of the ex, cut off contact with the ex, and love the incumbent wholeheartedly, which is what you should do, instead of eating from the bowl and looking at the pot.
If you have good memories with your ex, it's also in the past, just let it pass, you shouldn't be nostalgic anymore. Abandoning the current one for the ex, you will continue to repeat the past with each other, both loving and killing each other, and the contradictions still exist, which cannot be solved or crossed. Now you regret it, but you can no longer get back together with your current position, you have lost something precious and can never get it back, this is retribution.
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Ingersoll said that happiness is not a reward, but a result; Suffering is not punishment, but retribution.
Do you believe in retribution in this world?
I believe. Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, it is not that it is not repaid, but the time has not come.
What you do today, sooner or later you will be punished tomorrow, it's just a matter of time.
Since it is difficult to escape retribution, I hope that when we do things, we must think clearly about the consequences, and do not waste our good youth for the sake of the momentary joy in front of us.
When you do something against your conscience for the sake of immediate happiness, even if you get your wish, your conscience is always uneasy.
In such a situation, we also want to have a moral standard and know what to do and what not to do.
Especially in marriage, there are countless examples of men abandoning their original partners after they have money.
For this situation, I just want to say that you can't control what other people do, and I hope you can manage yourself.
Maybe others don't get punished when they do bad things, but when it comes to you, it's not necessarily the case.
Everyone's fate is different, and their choices are different.
Good and evil will be rewarded in the end, don't have a fluke mentality, when you have a fluke mentality, it is very likely that your future will be buried because of your mentality.
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What does it mean that this man is still connected to his ex? We can't say that it must be some kind of relationship between the two of them. It depends on the specific situation, the specific analysis, if it is just to maintain a general friendship.
I think this is also normal. But if you have this kind of emotion with your ex-boyfriend. I think that's too much.
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As long as you don't do anything that wastes other people's precious time, you can have peace of mind.
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No. To be a man must be dignified, and to have his own bottom line. There is a saying:
Good horses don't eat back grass. Since the choice has been made before, and now there is the current one. The past has become the past, and what is needed is to face the present and the future.
It is to take on obligations with the current and love each other together. It's right to build a happy and warm home.
Since you are an ex, state that you have decided to give up on this person, and that he or she has become a thing of the past in your life.
It is impossible to cross paths with you again; Being able to be your current position means that this person is the one you have chosen to stay with in the future, and he or she has placed your expectations for the present and the future. How can one give up a nurturing relationship for the sake of a relationship that has been let go? Is that unfair to your incumbent?
To be a human being is to have a sense of obligation, especially in the attitude towards feelings, and you have to be responsible for every decision you make. If you have given up your ex, let him (her) be your reminiscence, don't break the thread again, hurt others and yourself; If you choose the present, you must love with all your heart and manage your future with him or her.
Since you have endured the current girlfriend, you have stated that you have let go of the previous relationship, since you have let go, why bother to renew entanglements, and when you separated, you must have unmanageable problems between you, unless you are single and continue to remember your ex, otherwise don't contact again.
On this issue, I think many people will continue to choose the incumbent. My ex was a thing of the past for us, and even if he is presented to me now, it will always make people feel that when they are left behind and picked up again, there will inevitably be flaws.
Since you once had a current one now, then you should be worthy of today's people, feelings are not child's play, how can you say that you can throw it away. What's more, what did the current incumbent do wrong, why should he be hurt like this. The past is the past, living in the present and living our own life well is what we should do most.
Besides, who knows what kind of scheming he had in mind when he came back, we can't think too badly of others, but we can't think too well of others. Besides, if you are very happy with the current one, don't contact your ex, live your own life is the most important thing, live in the present, live your own life, don't think about what you shouldn't think, don't do what you shouldn't do. Don't think about what doesn't belong to you, and hold on to what you have.
Forget the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future is the happiness we want!
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I regret it, because he is the same as before, there is no change, and he is still very attentive, so I regret it very much.
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I feel sorry, because the current one is also very good, and the two of them didn't respect him in the process of getting along.
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Yes, because the other party is a scumbag who has had bad memories before, there was a situation of repeating the mistakes of the past, and then he regretted it very much.
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Many people start a new relationship, the ex comes back, at this time, if there is no ex in the heart, you can directly refuse, but if you have not completely forgotten the ex, it will inevitably be very entangled, so will you give up the current one for the ex?
Since it is an ex, it means that you have decided to give up on this person. He or she has become a past tense in your life and it is impossible to meet you again. Doing your work now means that you have chosen to be with this person in the future, and you are pinning your expectations on him or her for the present and future.
How can a person give up a relationship that he is cultivating for the sake of a relationship that he has already let go? Is it unfair to your current position?
Be responsible, especially with an attitude towards feelings. You should be responsible for every decision you make. Give up on your ex, let him or her be your memory, and don't try to hurt others or yourself.
Choose the incumbent, love with your heart, and manage your future with him or her. If you have a current one, don't rekindle your old relationship with your ex. This is irresponsible and unkind.
Before starting a new relationship, make sure you have broken with your ex-wife completely. If it's still a broken relationship, look at the possibility of getting back together first, rather than worrying about a new relationship. A person who gives up his job for his ex is irresponsible for love and does not deserve it.
In a relationship, you can never linger the shadow of the former, especially the former who is in love for the first time or has spent a lot of time together. Sometimes it's really hard to get out of the shadow of the former without going through something. Even if you already have a new partner.
In fact, the person in your heart is still the person you used to be, and you can't deceive your own heart, so sometimes you accidentally say what happened in the past, which makes the current one very incomprehensible, although some people are very good now, but as long as you have the current one, it is irresponsible and unkind to rekindle the old relationship with your ex. Before starting a new relationship, make sure you have broken with your ex-wife completely. If it's still a broken relationship, look at the possibility of getting back together first, rather than worrying about a new relationship.
A person who gives up his job for his ex is irresponsible for love and does not deserve it.
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I think I'll regret it. Because two people are together, if they are separated in the end, it means that the two people have really reached the point where they can't bear it. But then they were together again, and this may only be a temporary beauty of distance.
The real problems have not been solved. In the end, it will still come to the point of breaking up.
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I really regret it, because I feel that my ex doesn't love me at all when he's with me now, and he's getting worse and worse for me, and I miss my current one so much now.
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I regret it, because my ex is indeed a scumbag, and if time could be repeated, I wouldn't choose my ex.
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I don't regret it, because the current one is also very average to me, so I chose the ex.
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Basically, it will be miserable, but there may be an exception.
In fact, generally speaking, if the ex will turn back, it is just because he has not found the right person to take over, and it will be a while later. After all, after the breakup, you have already found another one, and you broke up with him again for me, so who knows if you will break up with me again for whom in the future? This is actually the same reason as the junior.
Therefore, there is a high probability that giving up the current and former reunion will be scum, and the damage will be very great, because it is to give up the original relatively stable environment to reunite with TA. And since it will be reunited, it shows that the relationship is still okay, so if you are dumped again, it will be really very sad.
A loss may not be a big deal, but repeated losses, even snowballing bigger and bigger, can really make people despair.
Of course, it may be really suitable to separate the yin and yang by mistake, but if this is the case, there will be no current one, so this situation is very rare, and there should be no luck.
So in my opinion, giving up on getting back together with your current and ex is definitely one of the most dangerous things you can do in a relationship, and you must not do it unless you are absolutely sure.
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Now that I've given up on my ex, I don't think I'll regret it, cherish the moment, regret is useless.
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Whether or not you will regret giving up your current and ex reunion depends on your inner feelings and emotional changes. If you still have feelings, you may not regret it if you can find the feeling of loving each other after getting back together. But after getting back together, you find that there are still problems and you may regret it.
If a person gets back together with their ex out of inertia or helplessness, or if they find that there are still difficult side questions between the two people after getting back together, then they may regret the decision. In general, whether you will regret giving up your current and ex reunion is a very subjective question that needs to be considered by many factors, including the emotional state of the individual, the relationship with the ex, the ability to solve problems, and so on. Whatever choice you make, you should think carefully and minimize future regrets.
The right way to get along with your ex:
1. Smiling is more cordial than turning a blind eye: Even if you completely disappear from each other's lives after the breakup, there is no chance or reason to intersect again, this does not prevent you from giving each other a simple smile or nodding when you meet by chance. A friendly smile when you get along with a stranger:
Reduce the embarrassment between each other, so that the awkward atmosphere is suddenly and skillfully resolved.
2. Be clear about public and private, and still be good partners in working together: If you start your relationship through the office, you should be mentally prepared to take responsibility for the consequences of the relationship at the beginning of the relationship. In an office romance, the trickiest situation is to face the ex-boyfriend after the breakup, put aside the emotional factor, and still <> with him as if nothing happened in the same office
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