What should I do if my boyfriend s family background is average, and my colleagues around me persuad

Many girls have encountered a problem, that is, their boyfriend's family background is very ordinary, and their relatives and friends around them are persuading them to break up. Although the boyfriend's family background will have a certain impact on the relationship between the two people, many girls are very difficult to choose. So what should you do if your boyfriend's family background is average, and the colleagues around him are persuading him to break up?

What you need to know is that a person's family background does not determine the person's future, and the family background will only affect the temporary life. Therefore, if your boyfriend has a successful career or is more motivated, you can choose to continue to be with your boyfriend at this time. And it is a very happy thing for two people to work together, which can make the relationship between two people deeper.

In fact, the influence of family background in the process of love is very small, and you should not pay too much attention to the other party's family background when you fall in love.

If your colleagues often interfere with your feelings, you can show your attitude to your colleagues at this time, so that the other party will stop pointing fingers at your boyfriend and stop interfering in your relationship. Because many people are in a relationship, their relationship is unstable and easily affected by external factors. If the words of outsiders affect their feelings, then it will be a great pity.

If your colleagues often persuade you to break up, then at this time, you can express your mind to your boyfriend and your boyfriend to show that you will not leave his thoughts, so that your boyfriend can rest assured. Because if the colleagues around you often interfere with your feelings and often persuade yourself to break up, your boyfriend will definitely know about these things, and if you don't fully communicate with your boyfriend, your boyfriend will also feel uneasy.

You should be firm in your own ideas, if your boyfriend is a very motivated person, you can bring some wealth or you can be together, don't be affected by the people around you Some of your choices.

I think it's good that you follow your own heart, although the family background is average, but it is not necessary that the boy will be brilliant in the future.

You have to follow your heart, don't be swayed by others, and do whatever you want.

If you really don't want to break up with him, you should do it, tell your parents that you really love each other and let your boyfriend work hard to win their hearts. Love needs to be touched, and maybe your parents need your boyfriend too. How you do this is up to your boyfriend.

I think you've told your boyfriend what your parents thought. Now that he knows, he should take all aspects into account. The first thing he has to do is to be put to the test by your parents, who both want their children to be happy.

Let your boyfriend prove that he can give you happiness. In short, you must let your parents feel your sincerity and know that you truly love each other. That way, even if they are unhappy with your boyfriend, they will see your actions and become soft-hearted and receptive.

Since my daughter likes her boyfriend so much, she shouldn't break up, and I'm afraid that after my daughter breaks up with her boyfriend, she will never want to contact others again, and she won't want to fall in love again.

If you really encounter this kind of situation because the other party's economic conditions are not good, you will be persuaded by your parentsThen it is purely the parents themselves who are making trouble, you should insist on what you love at this time, and consider it from an objective point of view, correct your parents' thoughts in time, and give some positive examples to analyze them. It is recommended to explain to your parents what the current situation of yourself and your partner is, and tell your parents more about your partner as a self-motivated person, I believe that your parents will never stop the two of you too much. After all, parents are from the past, and parents also know that it is the most correct way to live after marriage, because you are the only treasure of your parents, so they will definitely not let their daughter be wronged.

In this case, I suggest talking to your parents about what kind of person he is, what his attitude is to do things, etc., so that his parents can slowly accept and understand himI'm sure he loves you very much and will handle the relationship between him and your parents。If the parents do not agree, it is recommended to let their subjects and parents stay for a while longer, so that they can be completely reassured, and during this period, it is okay to observe and observe how long they will accept their partners.

The advice of parents is precious, because they are people who have never experienced these things, so they still need their parents to check the relationship.

You can choose to break up, or you can choose to continue with him, it all depends on the relationship between the two of you.

Look at the reasons for your parents' objections.

Let's see if you're a good fit together.

How is his character, how he behaves in the world, how he treats you, whether the family conditions can get by, etc., marriage is very important, and it is related to the second half of your life, so you must be cautious.

If your boyfriend's family background is very ordinary, and the people around you are persuading you to break up, then we should also listen to our friends' opinions at this time, and everyone must not make a decision blindly. Each of us has different choices, but others must also be good for you, so you must also listen to the opinions of others.

1. What should we do at this time?

Everyone hopes that they can get along with their boyfriends, and they also hope that they can meet true love, in fact, many girls hope to be able to go to the end with their boyfriends, and girls also want to be able to wear wedding dresses. If your boyfriend's family background is very poor, then others may think that your boyfriend is not worthy of you, and they are also very afraid that you will be bullied by others in the future. That's why others will let you break up with your boyfriend, we can also listen to other people's opinions at this time, and everyone must have a comprehensive judgment.

2. What issues do we need to pay attention to?

Everyone should also have their own judgment, because we are already adults, and we can't choose to break up with our boyfriend just because of his bad family background, and I feel that such a choice is also very incorrect, and it is also very unfair to my boyfriend. If the other party's family is very ordinary, and your boyfriend is not particularly good to you, then we can choose to break up with the other party, because you yourself will not live very happily, and your quality of life is not guaranteed, so you will also encounter a lot of problems in the future.

III. Conclusion. Each of us has a different opinion, in fact, I hope that everyone can choose carefully. We all hope that we can meet true love, if you are really unhappy, then it is definitely recommended that you break up with each other directly, because you will encounter a lot of problems when you get married in the future, so we must also think about it, and you can also ask your parents for their opinions.

In the relationship between two people, only they are the clearest, and now many women value the material conditions of boys. But I think you should choose from your heart.

You shouldn't listen to others, if you like each other very much, you should stay by each other's side, and you should keep working hard in life, and in the end there will be everything.

When a man and a woman fall in love, the boyfriend's family background is very ordinary, first of all, it depends on the situation of your own family, and then consider whether your boyfriend is motivated and hard working in work and life, whether his parents have a job, and whether his personality is easy to get along with. The main thing is, whether it is good for you or not.

I believe that many of us will encounter such a situation, after all, many times everyone is in love with the purpose of marriage, so everyone will pay more attention to each other's family conditions, especially for women, may pay more attention to the economic situation in the south. Of course, it can't be said that all women value this aspect, they may value emotions more, but there are still many people who value the economic aspect. <>

In fact, I don't think there is anything wrong with women valuing men's economic conditions, I can only say that everyone has different pursuits and desires for different lives, so I can't blame others for their choices. I've seen such a sentence before, whether everyone wants to choose love or bread. As the saying goes, you can't have both, it's really difficult to have both, so you have to make a choice between the two, there are many people who will choose bread and give up love, I don't know what others think, but I can understand these women.

In fact, when I was still relatively young and full of yearning for love, I would also feel that I had to find someone I liked in love, and I didn't care about the other party's family conditions, but as I grew older, I slowly understood the thoughts of those who choose bread. Because marriage is really a very simple life, all aspects need to spend money, and when the marriage time becomes longer, once the relationship becomes weaker, there may be all kinds of conflicts because of money problems. In your case, you really need to think about your future.

Let me now share my opinion.

First, see if this man is self-motivated.

Although I think bread is important in love, sometimes economic conditions are not so important. If your boyfriend's family economic conditions are not very good, but he himself is very good, capable and self-motivated, I think this kind of love is necessary to persevere, and you can accompany him to slowly get better. <>

2. Have a good talk with your family. Of course, you also need to talk to your family, you have to know what your family really thinks. Of course, if you choose to follow your parents' advice and break up with him, then there is nothing to worry about; But if you choose to continue to be with him, you need to do your parents' work well, and you must not dislike your parents because of emotional matters, after all, your parents' original intention is also for you.

Of course not. Because the boyfriend's poor family conditions are the fault of his parents, he has nothing to do with his boyfriend, as long as your boyfriend is capable and self-motivated, he can get married.

I don't think you should listen to persuasion and choose to break up, because we don't have to talk about a boyfriend who is particularly rich, as long as the boyfriend is honest, sincere, and self-motivated, we can be with him.

I don't think so. You can't deny your boyfriend just because his family is not in good condition. Think about why you were with him in the first place, didn't you know that the conditions in his house were not good the day you were together?

The days to come are spent by the two of you hand in hand, his family conditions are not good for a while, if others are self-motivated, they will definitely be able to give you a happy life in the future.

The boyfriend's family conditions are not good, if the boyfriend is a potential stock, he is also very self-motivated, and he is more talented, I don't think he should break up, such a man is worth entrusting for life.

It is necessary to break up, because love has a shelf life, and the quality of life is especially important in marriage.

The man's family conditions are not good, you have to look at your own feelings, whether you care about your boyfriend's personality, or more concerned about your boyfriend's family conditions, and then think carefully about whether to choose to break up.

If you can't accept such an environment, you can choose to break up, but if you are ready to endure hardships, you can continue.

The boyfriend's family conditions are not good, but you can't just look at this aspect, if he is really hard-working, and has the determination to fight hard and the ability to endure hardships, you can choose not to listen to persuasion and not break up.

It depends on the individual's conditions, if your financial ability is okay, then you can not choose to break up, if your financial ability is not good, you can listen to the opinion.

You should listen to persuasion, because this is a lifelong thing, and you must choose a person with a good family who is worthy of entrustment, and you can't make decisions blindly.

Introduction: Some people may like their boyfriend very much in the process of falling in love, but their parents or friends are not very optimistic about the relationship between two people. There are even some parents and friends who will persuade girls to break up with boys, so what should they do when they encounter such a situation?

Many people may feel that their boyfriend is very good in the process of falling in love, and they also like this boy very much. But at this time, parents or their friends will be particularly opposed, and when they encounter such a situation, many people will feel more conflicted and do not know how to choose. In fact, it seems that if you encounter such a situation, you must first know why people say this.

Because there are many girls who do not have the ability to think in the process of falling in love, there may be some small details that are easy to be ignored by girls, but parents and friends can see some clues. Therefore, you can calm down and think about why your parents and friends would persuade you to break up with your boyfriend. <>

If you encounter a situation where both parents and friends are opposed, try to communicate with them. Because everyone's personality is different, there may be some small misunderstandings in the process of communication. At this time, we must make the misunderstanding clear, and maybe after some misunderstandings are resolved, parents and friends will no longer object.

Sometimes parents and friends object because they think you could find something better. At this time, you must show them your attitude, and at the same time, you must tell them that you like this boyfriend Yan Ming very much. <>

I believe that after encountering such a thing, everyone is more entangled in their hearts and does not know how to make a choice. In fact, you can calm down and listen to your inner voice, many people have no ability to think in the process of falling in love, and they are easy to be deceived by boys at this time. But when you calm down, you will find a lot of small details, and at the same time, you will know why your parents are opposed.

If the boy likes himself very much and has no other problems, the girl can also try to convince her parents and friends, but this premise is that the boy is more responsible.