What changes have changed in a man in marriage that means he wants to get a divorce?

In the final analysis, married life is a win-win cooperation, and the husband and wife have become the overall interest body since marriage. However, if a man who wants to divorce is no longer in you, his mentality towards you will also change. In the past, even if the emotion was not very good, as long as he didn't want to divorce, he was jealous, and many things still had to pay attention to your emotions, and it was generally not easy to do too much.

But when you want to divorce, his mentality towards you will be worse day by day, until in the end, you can't bear him, just in the middle of his heart. He did this to pave the way for divorce, so that others would feel that everyone's divorce was a bad relationship, not that he was ruthless and unjust. Some men destroy their wives' popularity in order to shirk the obligation of divorce, or even some unfounded things, but they set up the character of a man and a good husband, and put the divorce obligation on the woman.

I have seen a man who said that his wife could not give birth in order to be divorced, and his wife knew that she would destroy her reputation, but she was helpless. After the divorce, the man turned around and married another woman, and the ex also married and gave birth to a son relatively quickly, so everyone can be regarded as understanding what the reason is. When a man wants to divorce, he will pick your most painful point, know your weaknesses, and hit a target, his mentality towards you will also make you unbearable and actively want to divorce.

When a man wants to divorce, he will cut himself out of his marriage, everything in the family has nothing to do with him, he doesn't want you to participate in everything, you are him, he is not willing to show his thoughts, treat you as someone else, not his wife.

Xu Bochang is not satisfied with his marriage, after getting married, he divided everything he had with his wife clearly, and he didn't want to say more to her, just like a doll at home, there was no temperature, no matter how his wife made trouble, he didn't reflect it, and he didn't speak. This kind of cold mentality makes Liu Shufen think that she is a very bad person, and when she can't bear it in the end, she chooses to die to get rid of it, which is embarrassing.

Couples with deep feelings will have a fateful friendship, and it is not easy to divide the "Chu River and Han Boundary" in the process of getting along, but to create effective communication associations, and then improve the marriage relationship. If a man wants to divorce, he is reluctant to communicate, because she has secrets in her heart, and the more she talks, the easier it is to expose the loopholes and be detected by his wife. He stopped talking about himself and purged his wife from his own life, taking the opportunity to snub his wife, and let the woman live as a widow after marriage, which in turn caused him and his married life to chill.

In marriage, if a man always behaves very perfunctory, always ambiguous with others, and always quarrels with you, then it means that he wants to divorce.

Emotional detachment and apathy. Men who really want to divorce will have less attention and enthusiasm for their wives.

Frequent use of mobile phones, frequent nights of not returning, unwilling to communicate, indifferent to the family.

1. He has no interest in you and has nothing to say to you. You both live under the same roof.

He doesn't even bother to talk to you, he doesn't even want to touch you. In marriage, if a man has feelings for you, he will often approach you and maintain spiritual communication with you while he is living with you. If your married life is more harmonious, he will often bring you romance and surprises.

Conversely, if a man is, it becomes boring. When he is with you, he often has nothing to say to you, and even if he touches you, he is reluctant to touch you. This suggests that he may have plans for a divorce, so he is very distant from you.

2. Suddenly attaches importance to his own external image, leaves you alone in the empty boudoir for three days and two nights, is indifferent to you, and often avoids you. Under normal circumstances, if a man notices your marriage, he will come home on time, he will spend time with you and his family, and he will take you out to play. On the contrary, if a man is indifferent to you, he will often avoid you.

No, he suddenly attaches great importance to Jane's appearance and likes to dress himself up beautifully, but he has been away from home for three days, and you often can't see others, which shows that he has someone outside that he values.

3. I no longer care about your affairs, keep my distance from you, often find reasons to hang up your **, or avoid you, take the initiative to separate, or separate from you. In marriage, if a man shows real affection for you, he will treat you gently when he is with you, and after breaking up with you, he will care about you and often call you and greet you. Caring about your affairs, deliberately keeping his distance from you, not contacting you for a long time, being too lazy to pick up your **, often avoiding you, this is a sign that he no longer cares about you and the idea that he may break up with you.

4. I don't want to spend money for you, and I am also very clear about your finances. in married life.

If a man wants to be at peace with you, he will not calculate clearly with you. He doesn't distinguish between you and each other, and is very obsessive and willing to spend money for you. Whenever he earns money, he will give it to you.

Take care of it, you take care of his property, and he can rest assured. On the contrary, if a man suddenly gets stingy with you and is not willing to spend money for you, he obviously cares about everything about you, and he has transferred property and built a small coffers privately.

acts. Meaning he may be planning a divorce.

First of all, he will definitely be very different from the emotions and behaviors he had before. There will not be too much nuclear intersection with his wife, and he even said that he would not have too much communication with his wife, and he wanted his wife to take the initiative to file for divorce.

He may be indifferent to this woman, and he will not come home often, and he will not want to maintain the family, so he will not do some superficial work anymore.

If a man is going to divorce, he will show that he is very indifferent, and there will be a cold war, which I think is very bad.

What a man thinks after a divorce depends on the specific situation. If the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down and the man takes the initiative to file for divorce, the man after the divorce will generally be happy in this case.

If the husband is very good to his wife, and the wife suddenly files for divorce, which surprises the husband, in this case, the divorced man generally can't figure it out in the short term.

Of course, if it is an ambitious man, after the divorce, after knowing his own problems, he will face the reality again.

If you really love him, and you also feel that he loves you very much, then you should take good care of their father and son, get along with them well, men like the warmth of home the most, there is no need to eat those dry vinegar, the better you treat him, the more reluctant he is to leave you, the more you care, the more friction between the two couples, the more friction there is, it will affect each other's original good feelings, and over time, it will naturally lead him to stay away from you.

A man's mentality after divorce will still think about his wife, which of course has an impact on remarriage, and it is easy to think of his ex-wife unconsciously, and there will even be comparisons, except for the ex-wife abandoning him, maybe in his heart, the ex-wife is still the best, such a man is of course a little stupid and roundabout, but there are indeed such men, who are more nostalgic, and they can't always get out of the shadow of their ex-wife, and they naturally have concerns about remarriage.

Don't dare to let go of the common mentality of loving men after divorce. This is a kind of comprehensive psychology at work, the distrust of women is adjusted, but the subconscious always has some doubts, some of the influence of the ex-wife also exists to some extent, and there may be a little unconfidence, in this case, even if the man starts a new relationship, but the love is a little restrained, the love is not enough to let go, the love is not enough to drink, this is certainly not what the later woman wants, the conflict occurs again, and the man is sometimes afraid that this marriage may be unstable, so he may simply choose to give up another chance to get married.

Marriage is always a constraint on people's freedom, after a long marriage, whether it is a man or a woman, more men, if the other party leaves for a period of time, although there is a miss, but there is always an inexplicable sense of relaxation in the heart, this is the freedom psychology of people. The mentality of a man after divorce is a kind of helplessness, but the departure of his wife makes a man appreciate the many benefits of being single again, especially after experiencing a failed marriage, men have a sense of liberation.

The mentality of a man after divorce may be that he becomes distrustful of women from now on, although this is unfair to other women, but it is also a very normal psychological reaction, most people can adjust quickly, and they will not really have a resentful attitude towards all women, men are strong, but they are also very fragile, for a man who values feelings very seriously. Even after a period of adjustment, there is a certain suspicion of women in the depths of the heart, and there will always be a subconscious of the existence. If the next woman does not do a good job of breaking this distrust and suspicion with true love and loyalty, then it may be quite difficult for a man to remarry.

Divorce will bring harm to the physical and mental health of the parties and their children, once the marriage breaks down, the first thing to do is to adjust their mentality, and then to maintain the physical and mental health of the children, both parties to the divorce should maintain a rational state of mind, for the sake of the family, for the children, as a last resort, it is best not to choose the way of divorce, since we choose to form a family, we should all be responsible for the marriage.

Those who take the initiative to leave but have children, are free and concerned at the same time, and those who are passively divorced, some are unwilling, but they are helpless.

Free, sigh, and busy.

Men are different, of course the ideas are different, otherwise how can there be good men and bad men, it depends on what kind of man your man is.

Will a man be happy after a divorce?

1.After the divorce, the man will face a new environment, he will meet a new woman, he will start a family again. 2.

After the divorce, the man will become stronger because he knows that no woman will always wait for him in the same place, he will work hard, work hard to earn money, and make the woman regret it. 3.After the divorce, the man will become more mature, he will cherish what he has now, he will work harder, work hard to earn money, and let his woman live a happy life.

4.After the divorce, the man will become more successful, because the man knows that only if he is good enough, he can meet a better woman, and he will cherish it more and work harder. 5.

After the divorce, the man will become more aggressive and confident, because he knows that he is divorced because of his own problems, because he is not good enough, he will work harder, work harder to earn money, and make the woman regret it.