What should I pay attention to when dating a divorced man?

Many people believe that divorced men are a treasure. A man will not reduce his worth because of divorce, but will increase his charm a lot. So many unmarried women don't care about dating a divorced man.

Divorced men may be mature and steady, or gentle and considerate, or women may feel that they have a lot of advantages, but when dating divorced men, there are also things that have to be paid attention to! Listen to what these three women have to say!

To figure out the reason for his divorce.

I don't really care if my partner is married or not, but I definitely care about the reason for his divorce.

I once dated a divorced man, and when I asked him about the reason for the divorce, he said that he was in a bad relationship with his ex-wife. He gave me the impression that he was suave and gentle, and I did like him at the time. The two of us also get along quite happily.

But I have a friend who happens to know him, and after knowing that I was dating him, he told me that the real reason for his divorce was not because of emotional discord, but because of many domestic violence, and his ex-wife couldn't bear it anymore so she took the initiative to file for divorce!

When I learned the truth, I suddenly felt that he was too hypocritical, and I was worried about my future life. So I proposed to break up!

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. His attitude towards his predecessor can be imagined as his attitude towards himself in the future!

Beware of him having too much to do with his ex-wife.

My current boyfriend is a divorced man and has children. Because of the child, I also know that he and his ex-wife cannot be cut off, and although I will also taste the contact within a reasonable range, I will also fully understand that I want to understand him, and I should be generous.

But what he's doing is a bit too much. The two of them are obviously divorced, but whenever his ex-wife has something, she always comes to him to help solve it, and he does not refuse to come, and he contributes money and efforts without complaint.

Naturally, I didn't accept his approach, but he still went his own way, which made me feel cold. I don't think he loves me at all, he still loves his ex-wife, so I'm ready to let go.

Be sure to pay attention to his family.

The messy family environment is also one of the killers of marriage. It wasn't until I married the divorced man that I understood why his last marriage was so short. He may not be wrong, but his family is very problematic.

Since I married him, my parents-in-law have been really critical of me, and no matter what they do, they always look disgusted. And I always like to find trouble when I have nothing to do, as a child, I can only continue to help them deal with the aftermath. I've never met such annoying parents before I met such in-laws.

We couldn't share our home with them, so for a long time, I struggled in my marriage. In the end, I couldn't bear it anymore, I chose to divorce, I don't think I need to compromise in marriage!

The truth of the divorce and the reasons for the divorce. Some people will cheat under the banner of divorce, but in fact they are not divorced at all. Some people may get divorced because of the man's character problems, so it is important to understand clearly.

It is necessary to pay attention to the reasons for the man's divorce, and look at the shortcomings of the man through dating. At the same time, it is also necessary to understand whether the current relationship between the man and the ex is completely broken.

It is important to pay attention to understand the reasons for his previous divorce. Because there are many people who divorce because of domestic violence tendencies or other serious problems.

Legal analysis: The divorced man should pay attention to: 1. The content of the divorce agreement must be legal.

The divorce agreement cannot be written as you want, it must meet the legal requirements, otherwise it will be invalid. 2. When divorce by agreement, the parties should also pay attention to protecting their legitimate rights and interests. Another factor is that if there is a dispute over the failure to perform the property, creditor's rights, debts and other issues in the divorce agreement in a timely manner, or a request for a change in child support, or a dispute arises due to the omission of property, creditor's rights and debts, the parties must file a lawsuit in court.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife voluntarily divorce from the socks, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1078:Where the marriage registration authorities ascertain that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt disposition, they shall register and issue a divorce certificate.

Legal Analysis: The caveat that the husband needs to pay attention to is that the woman cannot file for divorce during her pregnancy or within one year after childbirth. If both parties wish to divorce, the divorce can be registered or the wife can file a lawsuit for divorce.

If the child conceived by the woman is not the man's, the husband can file for divorce, but he needs to provide the court with proof that the woman became pregnant because she had sex with another person after marriage.

Legal basis: Article 108 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 12 The woman shall not file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.