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In today's society, it is difficult to go on without bread love, for example, if you go out to take a taxi, you have to spend money, watch a movie, drink a cup of milk tea, have dinner, and you will have a few days' salary at the end of the day, and you are a big man if you have money; The second is the person who really loves you, you meet a person you love her (him), she (he) loves you, they will pay in both directions, love is mutual, will consider each other, not only consider themselves, understand each other, tolerate each other, find each other's shortcomings in the process of getting along, and never abandon the process.
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If that's not what you want, then why are you holding on? What if you catch it? Again, they will only be led by the nose.
Personal opinion: Give up, where is the grass at the end of the world, let alone a hammer on the other side?
I've heard the saying: you're going to meet yourself. Meaning, you'll only meet people who are your equal. So, please become stronger, when you become stronger, you will find that you have everything you want.
If you still want to change the way you go, then I suggest you turn to the people around her, build a good relationship with the people around her, and then change your own way, and the chances of success will be greater.
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Since there is always a one-way payment in the relationship, it means that the other party doesn't care about you and doesn't mean anything to you, so you should stop the loss in time and change to a girl is more in your interests.
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This thing is indescribable in a word. It's like a buyer's market and a seller's market. When supply exceeds demand, it is the buyer who has the final say. When demand outstrips supply. It is the sale of the house to lead**. Let's take our time.
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Love is a two-way street, in my opinion, only two-way love is the most meaningful, and one-way giving in love will only hurt the one who pays. Let me briefly analyze three reasons.
1. One-way giving in love will make the status of two people unequal in love.
Every love should be equal between men and women, if couples can't even achieve basic equality, then there will only be more and more conflicts between them, and the one who blindly gives will also be hurt. Only two-way is the most beautiful in love, two people can think about each other, pay for each other, care for each other, and care for each other, this is the most beautiful appearance of love, and one-way love is destined to be just a one-man show.
Second, one-way giving in love will only make the paying party feel tired and make the receiving party feel taken for granted.
There will always be an active party and a passive party in love, and the one-way giving in love is often the active party has been unreservedly pleasing the other party, and the consequence of this will only be to let the receiving party enjoy your service, and even take it for granted in the end. This kind of love is tragic, and it is difficult to move towards a happy ending in the end, and this kind of love should be avoided by us.
3. One-way dedication in love will only make the hearts of the two people farther and farther apart
There is such a silly girl by my side, she is always unreservedly good to his boy, but in the end this boy still failed her, she thought that she regarded the boy as her own sky, as her own land, her own everything, she could keep the boy, but the boy just said that you are too much, such a one-way love is really sad, and at the same time I really feel heartache for this friend of mine.
All in all, I think that love is run by two people, and once the balance of love between two people is tilted, then the inevitable end is to break up.
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I think one-way giving in love is fruitless, because no one can give unconditionally, and the other party does not respond, love is two people mutual, not one person's business, if it is one-way giving, then what's the point?
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One-way giving in love will not be happy, this one-way giving, one day the other party will feel very tired.
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I think that in love, the one-way giving relationship will not last long, and the one-way giving party will feel unbalanced after a long time.
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I think that one-way giving in love is an unequal giving, and it is also very unfair, such a pay will be particularly humble, and will make you lack self-confidence and security, if you just blindly give, then it is not love.
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Such a one-way effort will never end too well, and may be ignored by the other party, and eventually end in a breakup.
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I think that one-way giving, this kind of love generally will not have any good results.
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For the relationship, in fact, both parties need to pay together, if we only have one party to pay, then after a long time, their other half's attitude towards themselves will also change, so we must adjust our mentality.
Therefore, I have the following suggestions:
1. Heart-to-heart communication
For the problem between two people, in fact, it needs two people to solve it together, even if you adjust your mentality every time, but it won't be long before we will feel that our pay is very unworthy, so we must communicate with each other more, talk about some of our own views, and the other party has not done a good job, so that it is conducive to the relationship between two people to go further, and can also stop a lot of contradictions in time.
2. Divert attention
When we feel that we can't hold on, in fact, it is a good way to divert our attention in time, don't keep our thoughts in one place, otherwise after a long time, we will become more and more difficult to see such a thing, so when we are in a bad mood, we should think more about something that makes us happy, so that our mood can be improved.
The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you meet the person you love in ordinary times, it is best not to give one-way, otherwise you will only be hurt by yourself, after all, love is very fragile and hurtful. Once you are injured in love, the probability of being completely ** is also very low, so everyone must pay attention to it, and adopt such a concept, and then implement it concretely.
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In this case, I will tell myself that everything will be rewarded if I pay, so I will work hard to pursue my love and not give up, I must cheer myself up, and then have self-confidence.
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Correct your position in the other party's mind, let yourself get rid of the role of unrequited love as soon as possible, and if the other party is not cold to me, I must be brave enough to forget him.
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I will tell myself that as long as I work hard, then the other party will definitely be moved, so I will adjust my mentality, and then work hard to pursue my feelings and not give up.
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I will tell myself that as long as I work silently, I will be rewarded in the end, and as long as I persevere, there will definitely be results.
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In the face of one-way emotional giving, I will choose to keep comforting myself, and then tell myself that the other party will one day find out that he is good, and when he has experienced too long, he will slowly persuade himself to give up!
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This kind of one-way payment of feelings is particularly difficult, if it is only a one-way payment, you must calm down, don't always care about your own gains and losses, don't care.
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When it comes to one-way giving, the most important thing is to understand one thing: your giving has a certain purpose and is voluntary. Thinking about your own efforts around this point can be comforting. If you feel like you're giving too much, you need to revisit the relationship.
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I will first think about whether this person is worth my efforts, and at the same time, I will also talk to him to clarify the problems between us.
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Affection is not a one-way giving, when others love you, you also have to love others. Writer Yang Daxia revealed that love is the achievement of giving to each other.
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Love is given in both directions. How long can one-way love last?
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Love is a story of two people, not a one-man show. We can do everything for the love we longed for, but we also have to stop it appropriately. If there is only one person in love, there is only one person who blindly givesSo is this love a love between two people, or an inner monologue of one person?
I think that in the story of love, both protagonists are the protagonists, and there is no one who is not outstanding. If only one person pays unilaterally, then an unequal relationship will be formed in the relationship, and if you pay alone for a long time, you will unconsciously put all the burden of the relationship as heavy as a thousand pounds on a person's body, then the time will slowly pass, and the burden on the body will become heavier and heavier, until you can't straighten your waist, can't open your legs, and can no longer walk. Then when that time comes, this relationship will also come to an end.
In fact, no one doesn't want to get a sweet love, but when we really get it, we may gradually lose ourselves in love and forget why we want it in the first place. Maybe it's because we want it so much that we don't know what to do with it when we actually have itAs a result, we only have to blindly pay in the relationship, and finally we gradually lose ourselves in love
I remember that Mr. Tu Lei once said such a sentence in a program, seven points are enough for lovers, and the remaining three points are enough to love yourself. No one is born humble, no matter when, no matter where we are, I want you to remember that if you are not good to yourself, what right do you have to expect others to be good to you. Only on the basis of taking care of ourselves can we be qualified and have the capital to protect and take care of others!
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Of course, it is a two-way effort, two people work together, and the relationship can be happier.
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The love of two people is two-way giving, and one person can't last long.
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It must be a two-way effort, a one-sided effort, and there will never be any result.
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I think it should be done in both directions, so that the love between two people can last longer.
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Of course, it is a two-way giving, so that the relationship can exist for a longer time, and it can last a little longer.
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Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.
True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.
It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.
It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.
This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly heartsTrue love is a kind of care and care from the heart, no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, the promise speaks of its uncertainty, never believing sweet words.
A true love for a person will want to grow old with him (her) and be with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness
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Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain, calm love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of love is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not do to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long!
To love someone is to trust each other.
To love someone is to understand each other.
To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.
To love someone is to be open-minded.
To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.
To love someone, you need to support him or her behind your back, not to block them.
When you love someone and you have to face that he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.
If you love someone, don't always hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, let him (her) know, know that what you want to share is not just happiness.
Love someone There is too much love, maybe some people can't do it.
The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important!
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If my station stops here.
I'd feel sorry, but I wouldn't be trying to catch the same train back.
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One-way giving is the most unstable mode of getting along in the relationship, the more you pay, the less you will be cherished, and in the end you often just move yourself, while the favored party always has nothing to fear, and enjoys it as a matter of course.
Some people in love, always think that to love a person is to give everything for the other party, obey, on call, as long as they can make the other party happy, even if they are wronged, there is no complaint, but how long can the unequal love Wang Hall last?
Xiao Wang once fell in love with a girl at first sight, and then pursued passionately, but the girl did not feel for him, but Xiao Wang felt that Bi Wei loved a person to persevere, as long as he insisted on being good to her, there will always be a day when two people may come together, in the three years of pursuing the girl, Xiao Wang is not only her warm man, but also her flower messenger, unconditionally gave everything he had, and finally did as he wished, the girl agreed to him, but this hard-won love did not last long and ended in a breakup.
After dating, the girl has never been moved by him, the two people get along without that sense of intimacy, and they can't open their hearts thoroughly, the one-way love is not strong, and they will feel tired after a long time in love, especially after becoming a couple, they still can't see the return of continuous paying, and they will be disappointed when they can't feel each other's love, and their feelings will begin to fade.
When one party slacks off in the relationship, the other party can clearly feel it, as long as they perceive the change, they will begin to feel dissatisfied, they have long been accustomed to enjoying the other party's contributions, and naturally they can't tolerate a trace of perfunctory attitude on the other party.
Therefore, in the relationship, what is more needed is the interaction with each other, only the two-way payment mode can have more communication, to be able to deeply understand each other's thoughts, rather than when I work hard to pay, you enjoy peace of mind, unequal love will only usher in a breakup in the end, only know how to interact, two-way pay, the relationship can remain stable.
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True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsYou will be happy when you see the person you love happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!
It is said that if you pay, you will gain, but this is not necessarily. It depends on the opportunity you seize, not necessarily you will get what you give, sometimes you are unlucky and you encounter a bad opportunity.