How to face the unfairness in love?

It's time for you to give up.

Remember that He is not the only one in your life.

You won't be able to stand it at first.

Time can really be diluted.

I've experienced it.

It's a common thing to cry alone, and I don't have a second to be happy.

It feels like your whole world is dark.

Wrong. That's just a period of time.

How much has your life just begun?

If he really doesn't like you.

It can't be forced.

Everything will pass.

Take it easy. Do something good for yourself.

He who loves himself can be loved.

Since he loves someone else in his heart, you should give up, if he comes to give up that girl to be with you, you have to wonder if he loves you? I'm still tired of finding a harbor.

I think you should follow your heart, perhaps, you can be friends, in fact, there is no need not to say a word!

I have tried this taste before, and the person I love does not love me. It's really hard to give up. It took me two full years to forget. Let it be, there are some people who will forget it before you know it.

If you give up.

Then you are the stupidest person in the world.

Just give up, and you will never have true love.

Even if there is no result in the process, as long as you love him, I believe that the process is also happy.

There is no absolute fairness in this world.

Ask yourself if you want to give up and start a new life, or if you want to watch him silently.

It doesn't have to be happiness to have.

Seeking kindness is also a kind of happiness = =,

Why give up, you're weird. Grab it.

Personally, I feel that I can't maintain the so-called fairness in the face of love. There is no right or wrong, right and wrong in the world of feelings. Each person's position is different, each person's pursuit is different, men and women think differently, their views on love, etc., each saying its own word, and it is impossible to maintain fairness.

Why?

1. Both boys and girls will think that it is unfair, they will suffer a loss, and the other party will take advantage. If you don't know the truth of giving, love can't maintain the so-called fairness.

2. Boys think rationally, girls think emotionally. The method of dealing with the problem, the boy pursues the result, and the girl pursues the process. Just like life travel, boys care about the destination, while girls care about the scenery along the way and the mood of seeing the scenery.

Girls pursue a touch of romance. Ask for boys. More time to spend with and reward financially.

Boys expect women to be caring, gentle and considerate, and empathetic.

3. Boys take the initiative to love and accommodate girls in order to gain the favor of girls. Girls have delicate feelings, and their material desires and emotional companionship are much greater than those of boys. I hope to be pampered and doted on by boys, and the sweeter the feeling.

4. Human nature is selfish, forcing others in their own hearts and cultivating themselves in the hearts of others. Afraid of losing, always want to take advantage. How can love be fair?

5. There is no fairness in love, only patience and tolerance. Be willing to give and not ask for anything in return. If you want to keep love fair, you have to pretend to be rock rock and change yourself, change your words and deeds with each other's preferences and habits, and change your personality and some habits in getting along.

The palace has changed, wanting to impress the loved one, cherish the loved one, and get the blessing of the beloved. Only in the face of love can the so-called fairness be maintained.

Whether it's family, friendship or love, all feelings are not equal. Just like now, I think that in the future, apart from myself, the first thing I should put should not be my children and parents but my husband, because he is the one who can accompany you for a lifetime. Generally speaking, parents will go before us, and we will go before children.

But when we were children, we just felt that all people, whether parents or other elders, always felt that they should take more care of us and should love us more. This is the case in my family, my parents chose not to divorce for the sake of us. I often quarrel with my mother because of my relatives, and at this time, I always hope that my father will come to me.

I used to just want my dad to come to me, but now I've learned to compromise and no matter how much mom is biased towards her sisters, dad should really be on mom's side, and I can choose to apologize or keep my mouth shut. Because Mom is married to Dad, she is the only one, and if Dad doesn't help her, she will be isolated.

So no matter what kind of feelings, there is always one who will pay first, and pay a lot, and in addition to family members and their own pillow people, few people will be good to you for no reason, we must learn to accept the arrival and departure of people around us, this is the law of this world, no one will always be by your side, life is like this.

When a woman is faced with feelings, she will always be very emotional, and if she really loves someone, she will give everything for the other person.

Knowing that the other party may not love her enough, or in this love, she has always been the more active party, she changes herself for him, and wrongs herself for him, which are all manifestations of "low self-esteem".

To put it bluntly, low self-esteem is to give up on yourself because you love someone, you only have him in your heart, as long as he asks you to do something, even if you are embarrassed, you will answer as before, even if you don't like things again, you will accompany him to complete it.

You think that if you change yourself, you will make him love you more, but is that actually the case? Maybe he has changed himself, and he will say to you, "I still like you as I was." ”

Even if a woman loves someone again, she must understand a truth: it is a very stupid thing for the scum to change for him, and he will not love you more because of it.

Love is mutual, only one-sided giving will be very tiring, after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be emotions, it is inevitable that there will be complaints.

If in a love, you have always been humble and flattering, no matter what you do, you have done it well, and then tell him, and he has always enjoyed it, and never thought about your feelings, what kind of love is this!

This is like Zhang Ailing's words: "When she saw him, she became very low, low to the dust, but her heart was happy, and flowers bloomed from the dust." ”

I used to like this sentence very much, and I thought that this kind of love was too great, but now I don't recognize this kind of love, love is so humble, and even to the point of pleasing each other, is it really great? Maybe it just touched yourself, but the other party was indifferent!

Unilateral humble flattery is never love, it's just your wishful thinking, when the other party has time to pay attention to you, they will play with you, and they don't want to pay attention to you, maybe they will leave without even saying hello.

Third: give everything for him.

In the face of love, women often behave impulsively, and if they like someone, they will feel that they have to give everything for it, and you will not like the second one except him.

Such a vigorous love is certainly touching, but it has to happen to someone who also loves you, if you love more than him, then, even if you give everything, it does not necessarily make him cherish you more.

Therefore, no matter how much you love someone, you must also consider repentance clearly, no matter how much you love someone, don't have "low self-esteem" love, remember!

People with low self-esteem are usually not confident enough in themselves, or feel that they can't meet a better love, so they will change themselves for the other party, humble and please, and will give everything for him.

But even if you do a good job, he won't be grateful to you, he will only think that it's normal for you to do this, and you should cater to him, and this kind of love is suffocating to think about.

The most feared thing in love is not that no one loves you, but that you don't know how to love someone. And later I also realized that there is no need to be ashamed of those cheapness in love, it can not only prove your ability to love others, but also make you understand that your bottom line can be so low, although it will make people temporarily lose their self-esteem, but it will also make you understand yourself better. Love, either know each other better, or know yourself better, these are all obtained.

Some people, it's not that they don't understand love, but.

Thank you for the invitation, there are different opinions on love in society. I believe that true love should be a collision of hearts, and a psychological reaction of mutual admiration.

Love is, in a sense, selfish and exclusive. Only the imitator Jane's true love is the call of the heart, there is no flowery language, and there is no grandstanding action.

Love is a kind of care and dedication, so there is no fairness in love, only love! When you love someone with your heart, do you tell them fairly? Do you just care about it in love? True love, there is no truth at all, you need to show your heart to cherish and guard!

So true love is pure, immaculate, sweet, happy, serious, selfless, and trustworthy. Therefore, love does not need to be fair, does not need the so-called truth of love, and does not need love in return! This is "fairness" in the world of love?!

I believe that the fairness that can be found in the world of love is relative rather than absolute. Because there is no such thing as absolute fairness in the world. As far as love is concerned, its most essential basis is the word "love".

"Love" is understanding, tolerance, maintenance, giving, and dedication! The heart is full of love, trivial things are fun, and work is motivated; There is great love in the heart pants, the family is the warm nest, and the world is heaven! With love in your heart, you will be willing to give and give for the people you love, regardless of personal gains and losses, and do not care about rich or poor.

The heart is full of love, your love can make the family last, and life can be full of vitality and sunshine! As the saying goes: everything is fair, it is impossible, there is love in the heart, everything is peaceful!

From the man's point of view, some people believe that they should be fair in the face of love, should not treat each other as their accessories or tools, should give each other enough space and freedom, and abide by the principle of respecting each other. Men should also learn to tolerate and understand, not blindly pursue their own interests and desires, but take into account the feelings and needs of the other party. In addition, men should assume family responsibilities and obligations and provide material and moral support for the family, and should not shift family responsibilities to women or ignore the family under the pretext of their own careers.

From a woman's point of view, some people believe that they should also be fair in the face of love, and that women should insist on their independence and autonomy, and should not pin their lives and happiness on men's bodies, nor should they give up their careers and pursuits for love. Women should also have their own bottom line and principles of bending, and cannot allow men to arbitrarily violate and oppress. At the same time, women should also learn to understand and support men, respect men's choices and decisions, share family responsibilities and obligations, and establish equal and harmonious family relationships.

However, whether or not you can maintain fairness in the face of love also depends on many factors, such as the cultural background, social environment, personal experience and personality traits of both parties, etc., and different people may have different views and practices.

Therefore, the key is to build an honest, understanding and supportive relationship, with mutual respect, tolerance and consideration, and work together to maintain the fairness of the love relationship.