Can I still look forward to this love?

I also believe in horoscopes, but I gradually understand that reality is not exactly the same as constellations, and what you see is the advantages of the other sign... The Taurus does not mean that he is the most beloved or the most realistic Taurus... They will think more about reality than they love... Don't be so obsessed, you'll be better.

Don't wait! Because it is difficult to find the word "breakthrough" in the Taurus personality, "enduring loneliness" in their lives is also relatively high in the zodiac signs.

But he probably won't be looking for a new girlfriend in the short term, but you have to think about how to move him...

I'm an Aries like you, and I've been in a long-distance relationship for five years, and I chose a place after work, hehe, coincidence... It's just that he and I are together now, and we cherish each other's hard-won feelings, so love is a mutual thing.

Aries dare to love and hate, and often get too hot. I don't think he's in touch with you anymore and won't come back, and you can either go to his place to live and save it, or you shouldn't be so stupid!! Don't delay yourself, maybe he's already ......

I wish you happiness, in fact, I think you know it in your heart...

No, happiness is not determined by horoscopes, he can't come back, do you have meaning? It is possible that there is someone around you who loves you but you don't know, cherish the fate around you.

It's better not to look forward to it, and I think since he doesn't want to come back, it's not that important to him, so.

The biggest difference between a long-distance relationship and a local relationship is that you can't be together every day, and it feels very far away. In fact, there are many modern ways of communication, like ** is very good, but even **, there are not enough places, that is, there is no skin contact, there is no real sensibility, which is not good for the development of feelings, but it is also beneficial, that is, like an actor, you can put on makeup well before every appearance. Usually I mainly rely on text messages to communicate.

It is necessary to pay attention to the efficiency of communication, to feel more about the other party, and not just to rely on some so-called dialogue to feel the other party, such as the other party is obviously unhappy, and is still saying, no. This requires considerable emotional intelligence. Of course, the most important thing is to be honest with each other.

Otherwise, a long-distance relationship is difficult. Even if you are in a long-distance relationship, if it is not too far away, it is best to go for a few months. Even if it's for one day, it's better than staying for several days at once.

Of course, it has to do with everyone's financial situation.

I will dissect the essence of "love" for you from a psychological perspective. There are no illusions here, only truth.

You ready?

The pigeon ---

Many people have been in love several times, or after a few years in marriage, they will have this confusion: why is the sweetness and heartbeat at the beginning always so short-lived? Squeezed out the juice of the passionate love, and chewed until the end was only bagasse.

No matter how gentle a woman is, she will become a Hedong lion, and no matter how much you spoil your man, you will eventually be paralyzed. Trivialities, accusations, disgust, justification, and indifference exhaust the last shred of expectation.

Can you only keep falling in love and never get married? Sentencing.

Alas, forget it, don't change people, don't toss, don't look forward to it, anyway, in the end, there is no love and only family affection, isn't the relationship just two people living together? Let's make do with it!

Does that make sense? Yes.

But isn't love really worth looking forward to?

Let's start with the four stages of love.

There are three major periods of occurrence, development and the end of any emotion.

The first stage is: the honeymoon period, like glue and paint, like a shadow.

There is a saying that "in the eyes of the lover", that is to say, the main role of love is "hypnosis", which can distort reality, originally your lover is not so good-looking, but in your eyes he is very different from him in the eyes of others.

This extra part is your own fantasy.

This is the essence of love in a short-term relationship: a filter, a layer of honey, an illusion: what I want, he can give me.

For example, you have lacked maternal love since you were a child, and your parents are indifferent to you and ignore you. You crave warmth, but you're used to your needs being ignored. Suddenly, one day, a man put a coat on you when you were cold.

That's when your innermost desire is aroused, you fall in love with him, and you think he's the most considerate and caring lover in the world.

But is he as perfect as you think he is? Probably not.

When will the illusions be shattered?

In the second stage, the period of power struggle.

At this time, we don't want to play the perfect lover anymore, we want me behind the mask to show me in this relationship.

For example, many times men will suppress many of their needs in order to pursue women: I want to play football with my buddies on the weekend, and I don't want to go to the mall with you and see women's products. In the past, I had to pretend to watch you change one outfit after another because I was afraid of losing you, but now I want to do something that interests me and has nothing to do with you.

In order to make a man love herself, many women have to dress up and prepare for two hours at a time, but now they are all their own people, they can face the sky, they can burp and fart in pajamas like a chartered wife, and those places that have no sense of beauty need to be released.

Hello. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a mutual fit in the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make each other's life better and silently dedicated, this love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is when you can't love, you know how to let go, because letting go is the ...... you have everything

Please love well when you cherish it.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, making promises shows that the God Splitter has no doubt about it, and never believe in sweet words.

Feel it with your heart!

Although love is sweet and sad, it is still very exciting! Raging