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Personally, I think that since friends who have known each other for a long time are together and are always photographed by family, this is the best choice. The family must think about yourself, and the bystanders are clear, and the consequences of the things that the family believes will be better, then the family has been matching with friends who have known each other for a long time must be a happy experience, getting the blessing of the family is a happy experience, life encounter is fate, thank you for all the encounters that are self-satisfied. A family matchmaking is indeed a happy experience.
Nowadays, although they all hope to be free in love, many people, due to the nature of work everywhere, social circle of friends, personal temperament, etc., are not easy to find or can't find the favorite half, parents are anxious, and they will launch their own relationship chain to help their children find it! If both parents bring their children to meet, and if both children feel good, the marriage may generally be decided! This is the case in many parts of our country!
Including big cities!
<>As for whether they are happy or unhappy after marriage, judging from China's arranged marriages for hundreds of years, most of the couples who have been introduced by their parents are still very harmonious (there is also the oppression of women in feudal society, even if they are unhappy, they dare not speak or be angry)!
Parents should first consider their children, and children should also be considerate of their parents' good intentions, they are the type they like, they can try to socialize, if it is not suitable, then explain to their parents, and do not have to do it against their parents. Today's parents are more open, there is no blind marriage and dumb marriage in the past, and now children also have their own right to choose, unlike the previous parents' orders, they dare not disobey. Therefore, many things can be properly resolved, and there is no need to make family relations strained.
There are no absolutes, there is no absolute good and no absolute bad, there are many bad things in free love, and the same introduction is not much known to get married, and there are also good ones, of course, from the perspective of life, it is better to decide to get married after enough understanding, but if you have to understand each other, I don't think there is anything impossible to accept, the key is to be roughly clear at the beginning what kind of person the other party is, including the person you want to marry and her family, as long as these are not too far away, can inquire that there is no big problem with the family and people, and there is a value of adventure, otherwise if you know that the other party and the family have many problems, then there will definitely be trouble later,
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If it were me, I would tell my parents that I don't have any feelings for my boyfriend, so don't get me wrong.
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Personally, I think you can make it clear to your parents that there is no love between yourself and your girlfriends, only friendship. Secondly, you can tell your parents that if he is forceful and matchmaking, it may lead to dissociation or other things. I believe that after the parents understand, they will not match again.
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We have to tell the truth to our parents, after all, such a misunderstanding is very embarrassing, and we will never be together, and it will also disappoint our parents.
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