Do you have to be disconnected after a breakup, and after a breakup, should you disconnect or not?

If the broken up lover is no longer in love, don't contact him.

Breaking off contact after a breakup is the main manifestation of mutual commitment.

If the two are still entangled after the breakup, then proposing to break up like that is not called proposing to break up, at most it is a kind of warmth.

Some propose to break up because two people do not agree on the three views, some propose to break up because two people are tired of each other, and some propose to break up because of one reason or another and excuses. The coming and going of feelings or all emotions is not controllable in itself.

If you fall in love with someone, you can always love them sweetly. However, this kind of thing is not up to you.

You can control your own mentality, for example, if you fall in love with someone, you can pretend to be deaf and dumb, and you are trapped in a cycle of secret love and unrequited love; Or you can have the audacity to confess to the other person, state your point of view, and then ask the other person for advice to see if the other person loves you just as much.

If the person you love the most loves you loves you too, then of course Burning Ambition3. If the person you love doesn't love you, then you can't help but worry about it anymore.

There is no reason in the case of affection, only in the case of love, will you have to find all kinds of reasons to create a strict ladder for the breakup, so that the mutual person who proposes to break up can avoid embarrassment as much as possible.

It's embarrassing to bring up a breakup, even if you are given 10,000 reasons to separate, but this can't deny the years of love from everyone. If you blindly deny the past because you want to break up, your life path will become more and more dismal.

Breaking off contact after a breakup means that everyone's connection is here.

After that, everyone became two parallel lines, and it was never easy for everything to intersect. If two people have to keep in touch after the breakup, then the past experience will come to mind voluntarily or unconsciously, and it will be difficult for the two people to start a new life from scratch after the breakup.

After the breakup, the path of life still has to be adhered to. Everyone has been overly anxious for quick success, and the goal of life is locked to a specific goal, which may be the main manifestation of single-mindedness, but it is inevitable that it will seem too opinionated.

Everyday life is very simple, and if you take a heroic step, the path of your life will be turned upside down.

It is proposed that the lovers must cut off contact after breaking up, and the two have not had any contact since then. It's like spilled water, which is never likely to be retrieved. Deep love is such a big truth.

After two people break up, they will be divided neatly, and they don't have to be divided into procrastination, which will make each other embarrassed and embarrassed. The old ones are gone, and the new ones are not. It's the same with feelings.

An emotion that proposes a breakup is unlikely to show signs of a comeback. If you break up, then you will resolutely give up, easily learn to let go, move forward lightly, and start again.

After breaking up, confirm your intentions and don't want to have any more intersections, of course, it's better to disconnect. After all, there has always been a connection and entanglement with each other, and the other party may still have expectations for you, which means that he thinks that you are not really breaking up, and there is still the possibility of getting back together. Don't mislead him, let's disconnect.

After a breakup, you will definitely have to disconnect, and if you keep connecting, this situation will really bring a lot of trouble to life.

Xia Xia came into contact with some girls and brought up the breakup because of emotional impulsiveness, thinking that the boy would coax himself as before, but the boy agreed to break up.

The girl suddenly lost her mind, because she never thought about the result. After the boy left, she thought of him frantically and couldn't adjust to his disappearance. Urged by reluctance and remorse, she tries to redeem herself, but the relationship deteriorates further.

If you want to redeem the missed love, you must take the initiative to take it into your own hands.

This initiative does not mean taking the initiative to contact the other party after the breakup, but mastering and controlling the steps and rhythm of recovery by yourself, and not falling into anxiety and fear because of the other party's every move.

Two days ago, we talked about the wrong actions to avoid in recovery. Now, let's see what needs to be done on the road to recovery.

The first and most important step to do is to disconnect.

Many sisters worry that if they don't get in touch after a breakup, they will forget the relationship between the two people, forget the sweetness of being together, start a new life on their own, start dating someone else, and so on.

In fact, it is not easy for anyone to forget each other, and it is not easy to move on after a breakup.

Since you still have feelings for your ex, how can he forget that he doesn't have feelings for you?

Even if he seems calm and aloof on the surface, in reality he can be hurt to the same extent as you.

When it comes to disconnection, although you haven't done anything, you will still miss him and remember how good he is to you.

And when he can't see you, he will gradually think of your goodness and your strengths. As the disconnection increases, your strengths will be magnified, and he will start to think about whether the decision to break up was the right one.

If you keep in touch with him without disconnection, you won't give him time and space to reminisce about your goodness. Constant pestering and pleading will bring more stress and negative emotions to the other person, and will make him more and more sure that breaking up with you is the right decision.

From the moment you cut off all contact with him, it may be a week, a month, or three months.

You don't have to take the initiative to tell him that you don't contact him, and you don't have to ask for the other person's consent to contact him directly.

If you work in a company, because you have to meet or even communicate at work, the most you can say hello when you meet, and you should be tight-lipped outside of work and don't communicate.

Through the passage of time, the impression that he is causing trouble for you, those bad impressions fade away.

At the same time, Disconnection is also trying to buy time for itself to transform.

Therefore, only disconnection can increase the possibility of reorganization.

The respondent suggested that it is better to disconnect first.

How long does it take to disconnect and how long does it take? This must be determined according to the conflict between youThe general cycle is two to three months, because,Three months will culminate in his impression of you, if the rush between you is not very big, then it can be shorter, and if there is a major conflict, it will take at least three months.

At this time, you need to be cruel to your feelings, don't return to him in less than two days, make him feel that you are not lethal at all, three months is enough to make him remember all the good things between you and make him panic after losing you.

1. Will he take the initiative to come to you: If a boy rarely or never takes the initiative, most of the time, you go to him, then at this time, can you believe what he says to you I love you? You have been snubbing him for a while, he is still not in a hurry at all, and rarely contacts you, then you should know that you are just a dispensable person in his heart, if you don't take the initiative, at this time, even if you are in heartache, he will ruthlessly let go and let you become his ex, if it goes on like this, it will only hurt you.

2. Will he find a new love: his girlfriend is obviously angry with himself, he doesn't want to coax you, but wants to hook up with one outside, at this time you are just in a cold war, and you haven't come to this step of breaking up.

In love, many people will have this experience.

When you are together, you don't know how to cherish it, and when you are separated, you realize the importance of the other party, and only then do you remember the good of the other party, and sometimes the more you are good to him, the more he takes it for granted.

Whether it's a boy or a girl, when you don't contact him for a month or a long time, he will think of your goodness and feel that he can't do without you, men are like this, he won't show too much concern or care about you when they're together, but when you're not in contact with him, don't call him, and don't send him a message.

At this time, he will feel very scared, provided that he likes you, under normal circumstances, 20 to 30 days, this man must be desperate, because he loves you, he will treat you as an indispensable part of life, then when two people are separated, he will be very disappointed, and it will be very painful, when you leave him for a month, he will be very broken, he will have such thoughts, he will feel that he has completely lost his loved one in his life, and he will not be able to have you again for the rest of his life.