I broke up with my boyfriend because of depression, how can I repair the relationship if I want to g

Updated on healthy 2024-08-12
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    If you want to get back together now, you should go directly to your boyfriend, tell him that your depression is gone, and that he will never have a similar illness again, and ask your boyfriend to get back together with you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Your personality should first make a huge improvement, and you should think about some happy things when you contact him, and you also need to tell the other party about your situation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    First of all, you should go to the doctor, cure your depression first and then go to your boyfriend, and then tell him that he was too depressed at the beginning, and your boyfriend should also be considerate of you, and the person who loves you will not leave you when you are depressed, and he should accompany you to solve this problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you have depression, you must be uncomfortable and depressed, and sometimes you may lose your temper or neglect your boyfriend, because this breakup is a pity. If you want to fix, try to adjust your state first, and then try to control your emotions so that your boyfriend doesn't have so much stress and worry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you want to get back together, you should say something nice, and you should often communicate with each other in life, so that you can fix it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Apologize directly to your boyfriend, saying that if you don't do it in the future, you will change your attitude and see what your boyfriend thinks.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find a boyfriend and tell him that you have been cured of depression, and that you miss him a lot during this time, and hope to get back together with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Personally, I think you should communicate with your boyfriend first, if he can accept the current one, then maintain the relationship well, put all the energy into the relationship, if the boyfriend can't accept it, there is no need to redeem it, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, his heart is not in you, no matter how good you are, he will not accept you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Breakup caused by depression, first of all, you should ** your own depression, and at that time, you can break up, and your boyfriend can't accept you like this at that time, then you should pursue a new life now.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, depression comes from his fragile psychology, it is his own mental obstacle, he feels unbearable when he is hurt, and he is on the verge of collapse, he will be depressed, and if he wants to repair the relationship at this time, he must first become strong and confident.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It seems that you and your boyfriend are still very affectionate, although there are certain reasons for your breakup. But your relationship is the main thing. So your hope of getting back together still has a lot to do with it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be sure to take the initiative to apologize, let the other party understand your thoughts, and let the other party know your status, and slowly you can get your boyfriend back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your ex-boyfriend is depressed after breaking up with you, should you get along? Maybe he loves you too much and becomes depressed. Maybe he's a guy who can't stand a blow and can't dig back at the slightest setback. First of all, love is not pity, it is pity. Even if you pity him for a while, he has depression.

    And what about later? You have to think about it, if you still can't bear it, just leave, don't pull and pull, it's good for both of you. If you think that you love him very much and can't do without him, and you want to accompany him through this saddest time, then please be extremely determined.

    Girl, you have to remember that no matter what you decide, don't regret it, and you don't need to feel guilty, no one is sorry for anyone, life is so short, and the first thing we have to think about throughout our lives is to be responsible for ourselves. I hope your boyfriend's condition will be controlled as soon as possible, and I also wish the girl that you find a lover and be happy for the rest of your life, it must be reasonable to separate, such as not loving each other, for example, you can't accept each other's shortcomings, so you choose to break up. If there is not much conflict between you, just a quarrel and a breakup, I think the situation can be reconciled.

    But the premise is that you still love him, and if he is just depressed for a while, then don't reconcile, because after a while he will come out.

    If you still love him and feel sorry for him now, then don't hesitate to agree. Because you think that what you miss is just one person, only one day you will find that it is a love. Maybe I haven't met again in this life, and if I miss it, it's a lifetime.

    In love, everyone is full of pain, in one person's wounds, and in another**. Some people heal their wounds by themselves, crying secretly and licking their wounds quietly. And I don't know how long this painful period will take, and some of them are looking for it again before they can taste the taste of injury, and even turn around and take another person's hand.

    And some people can't extricate themselves for a long time and can't forget, which can't help but say that he "she" is really hurt seriously.

    Quarrel is the most common in love, because there is affection, it will be noisy, because love will say yes to leave, but because you will forgive because of a smile. So everyone's love is roughly the same, there are joys and pains. As for leaving or continuing, the most important thing is to love or not to love, and this is the best answer!

    At last. Girl, you have to remember that no matter what you decide, don't regret it, and you don't need to feel guilty, no one is sorry for anyone, life is so short, and the first thing we have to think about throughout our lives is to be responsible for ourselves. I hope your boyfriend's condition is under control as soon as possible, and I wish you a happy lover for the rest of your life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I should agree, if I agree, he will feel even more that his **you, or to measure his feelings for him, if you don't want to continue, you can give him some kind comfort, I hope he can be positive**, early**.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this case, I don't think you should agree, because he got back together not because he loved you, but because he was diagnosed with depression, and two people have no love together, how can they live.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think if you break up, and it's some reason why you don't think you can reconcile, you can guide him to become her good friend and accompany him, and you can't say that you get back together with him in order to cheat him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think you should agree, but it's up to you to choose, if it's not your fault, then you don't have to be with him, but you can save him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It shouldn't be agreed because you've broken up and your ex-boyfriend has psychological problems, and he doesn't love you anymore, it's just an extreme idea.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think so. Both of them have already broken up, and everything about the other party has nothing to do with you, so there is no need to get back together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, because people with depression have very unstable personalities, and since they have broken up, they are okay with each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You shouldn't agree, it's not smart to jump into the pit knowing that it's a pit, and you should take it when you see it, so that you can stop the loss in time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It should not be agreed, since the two have broken up, then there is no need to force both parties. Otherwise, it will only become unhappy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Kiss, do you love your boyfriend? Or if your boyfriend who loves you wants to help him get through the difficulties, here is also a suggestion that you can still redeem it.

    Kiss, do you love your boyfriend? Or if your boyfriend who loves you wants to help him get through the difficulties, here is also a suggestion that you can still redeem it.

    Dear, the most important thing is that your boyfriend is good to you? If he really loves you and is very good to you, I suggest that you can redeem him, if he is not good to you and has this disease, I suggest that you break up early, it depends on whether you really love him? Does Qingzhi really love you?

    Do you still want to be with him?

    Hello dear to you, when your boyfriend breaks up with you, are you ruthless? And what did he say to you? He sometimes broke up with you, and he made up this depression?

    is still pure potato He does have this disease, if he does have this disease, you can accompany her well.

    Whether or not to redeem the late years of the current clan, I think it depends on the feelings of the two of you, if the relationship between the two of you is very deep, and then you have talked for a long time, and you also have feelings for him, if he is good to you, the suggestion is that you are still ready to redeem once.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you just don't want to be out of the world for him, don't make a decision lightly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    broke up with the previous man, he has depression, if you don't love it very much, don't go and reconcile!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can't let go of the relationship, then reconcile.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think the psychology of the depressed boyfriend who proposed to break up is because he feels that he has depression himself, so he is afraid of affecting you. I didn't want to hurt you, so I proposed to break up, I don't think it's appropriate to be with such a sick person, so breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing, I think this is good.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When the depressed boyfriend mentions breaking up, he may be cranky in his heart, but he still can't guess the specifics, so it's better to ask him directly for good communication.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How do you say this? I think since it's my boyfriend, you must love her very much, and she is in such a special period now, I think you should help him, not leave him.

    Locking oneself in one's home and avoiding contact with people is a common symptom of people with depression, and this is first and foremost what they need to change.

    People with depression often show negative symptoms such as low mood, low self-esteem, not being as good as others, and not being able to do anything, which leads to a lack of interest, withdrawal from things, and reduced social activities, which makes depressed people in a vicious circle.

    The premise of changing this vicious circle is to force yourself to contact more friends, participate in social activities or travel, although it may be painful at first, but after a period of time, the negative emotional feelings will slowly melt away by the external environment, and your self-confidence will be rekindled.

    Depressed people sometimes think that their thoughts or emotions are unreasonable at the level of their cognition, but they are still powerless to get rid of it, one of the ways to really change this understanding is to organize their feelings in a special notebook, no matter how ridiculous or in your opinion is ridiculous, all you have to do is to organize it completely in the notebook, don't rush to analyze it, recognize it, you can go to see it after exercising or the physical and mental state has been relieved, you know, Just look and don't have to analyze, because it's not an exercise in your ability to analyze and know, and you don't lack that ability, and you will definitely feel differently.

    Reading more books on medicine, philosophy, science and technology can improve our wisdom, gain a deeper understanding of life, and transcend the limitations of our past thoughts.

    If you can complete the above self-** action plan, you will definitely be able to get out of your depression. If it makes sense, then take action, because only doing it is the only way you can get out of depression.

    Food**. Diet can be a support for mild depression. Depression experts also pointed out that reasonable and nutritious dietary measures can not only enhance the physical function of patients with depression, but also effectively alleviate some uncomfortable symptoms of depression and enhance patients' confidence. Let's take a look at what foods are better for mild depression**!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Did you ask him why? Either I'm afraid of hurting you, or I can't control myself because of depression sometimes!

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