What should I do if my child has low self esteem at school?

Introduction: Children are very inferior in school, when this situation occurs, parents must pay more attention, to reflect on their own education methods in a timely manner, do not always compare the child's shortcomings with other children's advantages, because the comparison will make the child become very burdensome, and will also make the child doubt that it is easy for the child to lose himself, so parents must correctly understand the child, encourage the child, and carry forward their own advantages, And don't give the child relatively high expectations and requirements, which will make the child become very tired, parents should respect the child more, look at the child correctly, so that the child can become confident, usually when choosing to praise the child, but also praise the child in the right way, for some things to have a reasonable statement, do not praise the child without any basis, usually ask the child more feelings, so that the child can learn to meet their own needs, will also begin to learn to encourage themselves.

Parents should consciously help children broaden their horizons and enrich their children's knowledge, usually when children are at home, parents can be based on role models, children are very inferior because children have different knowledge, children do not understand some things, it is easy for children to have inferiority complex, so parents should consciously help children learn more knowledge, broaden children's horizons, so that children will become more confident, but also be able to express their thoughts and feelings in public.

Parents should respect their children, help them and build their self-esteem.

And self-confidence, some children are very sensitive, once they do something wrong, they will be very guilty, at this time parents are criticizing and accusing their children, it will make the child's self-esteem seriously frustrated, and the child will become worse and worse, so parents should correctly understand the child, to understand the child, respect the child, understand the child, so that the child will become more and more confident.

Finally, if the child has low self-esteem, it is very detrimental to the child's growth, and will make the child become very sensitive and shy, if the child is filled with inferiority for a long time, it will affect the child's future physical and mental development and ability to communicate with others, which is not conducive to the child's growth.

Parents should talk to their children more, but also give their children enough sense of security, parents should not fight in front of their children, do not quarrel, should take their children out to play more, and should also give children to learn a skill, you can change your child's inferiority complex.

You should choose to encourage your child more, and you also need to enroll your child in some interest classes, so that he dares to show himself in front of many people, and parents also need to praise their children more.

In this case, parents and teachers need to work together to encourage the child, praise some of the child's strengths, and give the child more opportunities to show.

My child is confident at home and humble at school, what is the reason for this? For people who are not familiar with it, it is normal for children to behave introverted and not be good at expressing themselves, and they will generally be cheerful after being familiar, although the personality of introversion and extroversion varies from person to person, but it is not a good thing to be too twisted in front of outsiders. If parents take their children out to ignore unfamiliar people and do not actively communicate, then over time children will learn from the same.

On the contrary, if parents are active and enthusiastic in communicating with others, then children will inevitably be able to communicate with others without squirming

In this case, parents should cultivate their children's self-confidence, take their children to participate in positive social interactions, encourage children to express their thoughts in front of everyone, and give more encouragement and rewards in daily life, improve children's self-confidence, and do not use violence or verbal attacks when children do not do a good job, and use an encouraging and encouraging attitude, otherwise children will become more and more timid and unconfident If the child is naturally introverted and timid, the easiest way to starve the limbs is to train the child to take the initiative to call others politely, let the child take the initiative uncles, aunts, relatives and friends, etc., which is the first step to get acquainted with people

In this regard, if a person has just arrived in a new environment, he will have such a situation. The unfamiliar environment is one thing, and the other is that the baby has to learn to communicate, interact with other children and teachers, and communicate with each other. In this regard, it is recommended that parents let their baby play more with other children before he goes to school, and go out more outdoor activities to meet other children.

In school, on the one hand, there are certain rules to be followed in the school world, and on the other hand, if the baby does not know how to communicate and interact with other babies and make friends. He doesn't have new friends at school, so he can only be quiet and not disturb others.

Many children have such a situation, and I think it is inseparable from the child's sense of security and self-confidence. Because at home, the familiar environment, and the familiar parents give her enough security, so she can be herself confidently. And Jian Peiming School, there are manuscripts to inform classmates and CITIC teachers, and there are competitors, so they are very cautious.

The reason why the child is very confident at home and very humble at school is because the family environment is very familiar to him, so he is very confident, but the environment at school is relatively unfamiliar, and the number of people is more stupid, he has no prestige and is not confident, which can guide the child to establish a strong self-confidence.

I am very confident at home because I trust familiar people at home, and I don't know how to gossip about him, but at school, it is easy to feel inferior because I am not familiar with others or friends are too responsible, afraid of being bullied, and dare not show myself.

It is because the child is at home, and the adult often encourages the child, and the child is the center, so that the child has no fear in his heart, but in school, there are classmates to compare, and the child feels that he is not good at himself.

Because his family is very pampered by him. Family is a warmer place in his mind, and he doesn't have to worry about too much noise, and getting along with classmates in school will seem inferior.

I think it's probably because your child doesn't do well in school, or because they have bad relationships, so that's the case.

When he is at home, his parents are very concerned about his children, and they will encourage their children to affirm their children, so he feels confident at home, and there are many children who are better than your children when he is at school, so when he does not get affirmation and encouragement in this regard, he will feel very inferior.

Because there are only you and the parents of the children at home, and when you go to school, you have to face a lot of children, many teachers and some leaders, which will have a series of psychological effects on the children, so they will be quietly and quickly, but they must enlighten the children to be confident.

It may be that the school environment is noisy, so the child is very introverted, and he is unwilling to liberate his nature.

If your child has low self-esteem at school because of a lack of praise, you can encourage your child to get good grades, participate in activities often, contact the teacher, and let the teacher praise the child in class and inspire the child's confidence.

Summary. If your child has low self-esteem at school, you should give your child more confidence in the family, communicate more with your child, and slowly cultivate your child's cheerful personality.

If your child has low self-esteem at school, you should give your child more confidence in the family, communicate more with your child, and slowly cultivate your child's cheerful personality.

You usually have to pay more attention to your child, whether it is learning or daily life, you should give him more love to filial piety, teach him to learn to be confident, and encourage him often, so that he can gradually build up his self-confidence.

<> give more affirmation to children and less reasoning to children; Reduce our desire to control and don't ask the child what to do; Lower expectations of what your child will do, and don't or ask your child to do things right away. If the child makes a mistake or does something wrong, it is necessary to negotiate and accept it, focus on analyzing the reasons for the mistake and the way to avoid recidivism, and avoid criticizing and denying the child at every turn; Encouraging children with positive results, rather than threatening them with negative results, will lead to children being really timid; Parents should also lead by example. When they are at home, especially in front of children, do not show negative emotions from work and family, do not look at and comment on problems with a pessimistic, negative, negative attitude (for example, they are always used to discussing someone or something in a critical and negative way). Children are easily affected by these and are used to seeing things like this.

You don't have to be too formal and deliberate to tell your child "you are not stupid" and "you need to be confident". Generally speaking, at this level, this "encouragement" is relatively weak, and it is difficult for children to find the strength of self-confidence. Instead of such encouragement and praise, it is better to combine some things that children do in their daily lives to carry out targeted affirmation and recognition.

Parents should consciously help their children broaden their horizons and enrich their knowledge. Often, parents can set an example when their children are at home. Many children have low self-esteem because they have different knowledge and don't know some things, so it is easy for them to have low self-esteem.

Parents should respect their children, help them, and build their children's self-esteem and self-confidence. Some children are sensitive and feel guilty for doing something wrong. At this time, if parents criticize the child, the child's self-esteem will be seriously frustrated, and the child will get worse and worse.

Therefore, parents should know their children correctly, be considerate of their children, respect their children, and understand their children, which will make them more and more confident.

Parents can communicate and communicate more with their children, and then give their children more self-confidence, so that children do not have low self-esteem, accompany children more, and give children more care and understanding.

Be sure to encourage your child more, let your child recognize your own advantages, don't blame your child too much for the problems you encounter, and let your child make bold decisions.

As a parent, you should learn more about the reasons for your child's low self-esteem, whether it is not good at learning or not being able to socialize with others, and if you are not good at learning, you should find a teacher to take the initiative to communicate.

Low self-esteem is due to many reasons, it may be poor grades, it may be that the conditions are not as good as others, appearance, poor sense of humor can all cause a child's low self-esteem. First of all, we must find his strengths and continue to encourage them, urge him to practice, become better, and let him be confident in his strengths first. Don't have too many specialties, but be fine.

For example, if he is quiet but good at writing, let him read and write more stories, for example, if he loves to move, let him play basketball, and so on. And on this basis, let him learn to accept his own shortcomings, tell others that no one is perfect, let the child relax, and let the child be happy and healthy.

Children's low self-esteem is due to the lack of parental encouragement, not caused by too much pressure at school, the child's personality is the result of family education, and parents must change their own education methods.

The child's low self-esteem may be particularly stressed, and it may be that the child is not particularly confident, communicate with the child in this situation, slowly encourage the child, let the child become more confident, and the child can completely overcome the inferiority.

1. You can't always blame the child. Children are at an age where they will make mistakes and are easy to do wrong things, which is difficult to avoid in the process of every child's growth, and some parents are impatient, or perfectionists, who are impatient with their children's upbringing, whether it is a big or small thing, the way to deal with it directly blames the child's fault. In the child's weak heart, it will make the child's personality become more and more introverted, dare not speak, and close the inner world, so in the face of the child's education, parents should be more patient and carefully teach, and calmly reason with the child.

2. Give more encouragement to your children. In the face of introverted children, parents should encourage them to communicate with others, from the most basic way of greeting, encourage children to know how to take the initiative to greet people, encourage children to talk more, and get along with people more. In addition, you can encourage children to participate in extracurricular activities, enrich children's horizons, and get along with children, when encountering children who express what they want to do, as long as they are within a reasonable range, they can encourage children to do it, give children more confidence and security, and children's personalities will gradually become cheerful.

3. Harmony between husband and wife is very important. Some children have a lively and cheerful personality, but when affected by the relationship between their parents, they become introverted and sensitive, for example, some couples often quarrel in front of their children, and even see domestic violence with their own eyes, which has a huge impact on the children's psychology and personality. Parents try to avoid quarrels in front of their children, and children who grow up in a harmonious environment between husband and wife will have a more cheerful and lively personality and more sunshine in their hearts.

As parents, you should pay attention to the way your education will have a profound impact on your child's personality, and give more patience and smile in the process of your child's growth.