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1.Nitpickers: This type of person always magnifies the shortcomings of others and ignores the strengths of others, and their evaluations are always more critical, which makes people feel that the person being evaluated is unpopular, thus affecting interpersonal relationships.
2.Selfish: This type of person always puts their own interests first, does not consider the feelings of others, and their actions often make others feel hurt, which affects relationships.
3.Boasters: This type of person always exaggerates their strengths and ignores their weaknesses, and their behavior tends to make others feel neglected, which affects relationships.
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1. Selfishness.
Self-centered everywhere, only about taking, not about giving. Compete for fame and profit, and even harm others. This kind of psychology is extremely harmful to communication. It hurts people everywhere and at all times, and such people will never find true friends.
2. Pride mentality.
Everywhere I am alone, "Lao Tzu is the first in the world", arrogant, despises others, even belittles others, ridicules others, and can't listen to the opinions of other bridge shirts. This kind of psychology is very harmful to communication, and it is also difficult for these people to get along with others.
3. Suspicion.
People with suspicion often like to look at each other and look at external things with distrustful eyes, and whenever they see what others are talking about, they think that others are saying bad things about themselves. People who are suspicious of the habit often chase after the wind and catch the shadows, make extraneous branches, make irresponsible remarks, and provoke Zheng Pei incidents, and the result can only be to seek troubles for themselves and harm others and themselves.
Fourth, jealousy.
Some people are more jealous, and when they see the success of others, they are not happy for them, but jealous. On the contrary, when one sees someone else frustrated, one tends to gloat. This kind of person does not carry a heavy psychological burden on his back, and he will also be disgusted by the people around him.
It can also make others reluctant to associate with it.
5. Inferiority complex.
Some people are prone to have an inferiority complex, and even look down on themselves, only know their own shortcomings but do not know their own strengths, are willing to be inferior to others, lack due self-confidence, are timid to express themselves, and cannot give full play to their own advantages and specialties. A sensitive person with an inferiority complex has no courage to do things in social interactions, is accustomed to echoing the voice, and has no opinions of his own. If this mentality is not changed, over time, it may gradually wear down people's courage, courage and unique personality, and hinder the realization of their plans and ideals.
Cowardice is a rope that binds thoughts and behaviors, and it should be cut off and discarded.
6. Apathy.
Some people are indifferent to people and things that have nothing to do with them, and even mistakenly believe that harsh words, arrogant attitudes, and high-mindedness are their three "personalities", which makes others dare not approach them, so that they cannot make more good friends.
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